".....but Don't Cum Inside Me."

[Ddawg]

Reversed situation- I've had a couple tops pull out last minute. I felt cheated each time.

You're loving my hole, you're treating me like the trashy bottom you want me to be, but my hole isn't good enough to cum in?...

My whole being becomes part of making the top feel good and cum, anything less is a job not well-done.

[RideMyBlkDik]

It is true that some bottoms are aware of the STD risks of precum. But equally true, there are bottoms who are fully aware but they tell the top not to cum inside them....for other reasons. For example a bottom told me this past summer that he uses the line ("don't come inside me") as a weapon to keep tops from thinking he's too "easy". And I recall once hearing a bottom say he uses the line because he wants all tops to know that cumming inside him is a privilege not a right!.....that way the bottom maintains some level of control over the dominance of the top. But my feeling is that there's never a good reason to tell a top to pull out.....not before and not during the fuck session. And bottoms, please don't expect be to negotiate (beg). Please don't expect me to educate you about precumming. That's not gonna happen....especially when my dick is rock hard and throbbing for your hole. That's no time to negotiate. That's no time to educate.

[btm2bbred]

I'm with RideMyBlkDik on this.

 

As a bottom, once I let a Top inject his cock into me, I give up any control.     It's down right unnatural to tell him to pull out.

 

I've surrendered my ass to him, and he should breed me.   Period.

[Guest]

Who the fuck would say that?!!!!!!!

It pisses me off that there are bottoms out there that do this. I'd happily take the load if the other bottom says don't cum inside me.

Edited November 30, 2015 by ridemehard

[subboy81]

first time i had a guy in me raw i agreed he could as long as he pulled out, as he was getting close he said im going to cum in you , i sdaid no and he said to late , he blew his load in me , i went back for a repeat and fucking loved it , if a guy wants  to cum in me with out asking thats even better 

[bootmandc]

Back when I first got back into barebacking I would let the guy know he needed to pull out before he cummed. It was never an issue and they all respected my wish. However, it was Glen, former FB, who finally convinced me to take his load. One night he just dropped his load inside me. It felt so good, I have never refused a load in my hole again.

Some guys just need to slowly work into barebacking and taking loads. You can always let him know upfront that you don't pull out when you fuck. Then you can avoid the hassle of being asked to pull out just as you are ready to cum. Give them some time to adjust to it all. Soon enough they will get off on taking your load.

 

 

Like bttm2go said ... it's part of the journey for some bottoms - it was for me.  There is no logic or reason to what we are doing here, but if this is the bottom's approach at that time, so be for them.  Don't make too much of it.  As a top, you can help him on that journey ... just do it if that's what you want to do.  If a bottom is taking it bare, he knows the deal and can't (and won't - trust me) argue.  So you have the power to take him where he wants to go - it worked for me.

Edited December 2, 2015 by bootmandc

[bottombottoy]

I think the worry is less sperm/white blood cells equating to the less risk of HIV transmission and not about the transmission the other set of STDs.

[TigerMilner]

It is true that some bottoms are aware of the STD risks of precum. But equally true, there are bottoms who are fully aware but they tell the top not to cum inside them....for other reasons. For example a bottom told me this past summer that he uses the line ("don't come inside me") as a weapon to keep tops from thinking he's too "easy". And I recall once hearing a bottom say he uses the line because he wants all tops to know that cumming inside him is a privilege not a right!.....that way the bottom maintains some level of control over the dominance of the top. But my feeling is that there's never a good reason to tell a top to pull out.....not before and not during the fuck session. And bottoms, please don't expect be to negotiate (beg). Please don't expect me to educate you about precumming. That's not gonna happen....especially when my dick is rock hard and throbbing for your hole. That's no time to negotiate. That's no time to educate.

Fuck that snotty bitch man. Get a real man to fuck. He'll take and appreciate it.

[gayav8or]

I have never, and would never deny that pleasure to a man. Makes no sense. And I hate to see it in porn. Shoot the load as deep as you can get it and pound it up in there for good measure. That is what breeding is all about. I love it when a man cum's inside me. The ultimate intimate connection.

I agree that it's the ultimate connection!!! I'm a big pre cummer so even before I orgasm there will be plenty of my jizz inside. Saying " don't cum in me" is a lot like saying "close the gate"....after the horse got out!!!

[RideMyBlkDik]

Just last night it happened to me again.  About 20 minutes in fucking this guy raw at a sex party in Brooklyn, he and I knew I was about to bust my nutt.  At that point he turned his head and said "don't cum inside me".  I went through a wide range of thoughts and emotions. For a brief moment, him saying that interrupted my rhythm (especially since he was fine as fuck with the kind of booty I dream about). Soon enough I regained my momentum and was fucking like I was going to impregnate him with my babies. His ass fit my dick like a glove! I was loving every stoke as I fucked him doggy style. This time I was going to have a volcanic eruption inside his fuck-hole. I couldn't hold back. The ass was too good not to breed it...after all, isn't that what tops are supposed to do?  So I started to shoot my nutt like a bull inside this dude...and he turned around and repeated "don't cum inside me". This wasn't a stealth-like kind of breeding...because nutt wasn't just oozing gently out my dick; I was shooting nutt like I was gonna be the first man to make another man pregnant.  Suddenly he managed to pull himself so swiftly away from me (in such a manner that I was still shooting nutt at that time) and he forcibly caused my dick to exit his fuck-hole.  I learned a valuable lesson last night: whenever a guy says "don't cum inside me", it throws a monkey wrench into the breeding process.

[cam1972]

There is one sure fire way to make sure this doesn't happen. Before you even start the act, you tell them that once your bare dick goes in, it doesn't come out til you've unloaded. No changing their mind. No mind fucks. If they don't like that, then they can move on and not waste your time. Problem solved.

[mrmanbreeder]

Its really simple fuck them cum in them. Blame them for making you cum or cum pull out and pretend you have cum on there arse. Just dribble a big about on spit on there arse as you fake it.

[misterpiggy]

There is one sure fire way to make sure this doesn't happen. Before you even start the act, you tell them that once your bare dick goes in, it doesn't come out til you've unloaded. No changing their mind. No mind fucks. If they don't like that, then they can move on and not waste your time. Problem solved.

I have read many of cam1972 posts because I like the way he thinks. However this time I cannot agree. How many times has any of us entered into a verbal agreement with a sex partner at a sex party or the baths? In those settings, do you TELL your sex partner what your expectations are before you start fucking? .....Really? It is a well known fact that it's very difficult to negotiate sex acts before or during the act itself. cam1972's response suggests that if the bottom does agree with the top's demand to jizz inside him then the bottom should just move on.....maybe that's how it works in porn movies. That kind of thing doesn't happen in real life.

[misterpiggy]

Its really simple fuck them cum in them. Blame them for making you cum or cum pull out and pretend you have cum on there arse. Just dribble a big about on spit on there arse as you fake it.

You are suggesting that the top should lie to the bottom and just cum inside the bottom's arse anyway. What about respecting your partner's wishes? Sexual assaults and rape usually occur when a man doesn't understand that when it comes to sex, no means no.

[cam1972]

I have read many of cam1972 posts because I like the way he thinks. However this time I cannot agree. How many times has any of us entered into a verbal agreement with a sex partner at a sex party or the baths? In those settings, do you TELL your sex partner what your expectations are before you start fucking? .....Really? It is a well known fact that it's very difficult to negotiate sex acts before or during the act itself. cam1972's response suggests that if the bottom does agree with the top's demand to jizz inside him then the bottom should just move on.....maybe that's how it works in porn movies. That kind of thing doesn't happen in real life.

I was speaking about the hook up scenario. Not bath houses or sex parties. Those are definitely a different story. You can tell a guy when speaking to him on bbrt or other apps what You expect from him while discussing what you want. If he's not happy with that, he can move on. That's what I was referring to. Your scenarios? I totally concur. It won't work there.