Why Don't More "total Bottoms" Fuck And Breed A Hole?

[NLbear]

@hungry_hole. I am not getting off topic. I simply do not want to top. Because from experience I know I like to bottom more than topping. Get it?

That some bottoms want to fuck, OK, if you say so. But I am not one of those guys. I stated my reason and that's it.

[Chantel]

I am a total bottom and just love to breed. I have no interest in being masculine or on top and dont think i could perform any more as my whole focus has changed. There does seem to be far more bottoms than top's but many are only active in their heads.

[tallslenderguy]

Fun question.  I was married most of my life, so had lots of practice as a top. With men, I have always been mostly bottom, pretty much exclusively the last 10-15 years (I can count on one hand the number of times I've fucked a guy in this time).

 

Lately, I've considered topping more and with the thought process have made some observations about myself. Since I have been I've been divorced since 08 and my wife is the only woman I have ever been with.. I really have no interest in women sexually. With guys, I am really turned on by a hot ass on a guy. I think a guys ass can be his sexiest feature, which is pretty funny coming from a bottom, you'd think a cock would be my biggest turn on? 

 

There are times when I would fuck, but am flaccid. I don't have any physiological issues getting hard, but what makes me hard has changed. I get hard when a guy approaches me to fuck me, wants to breed my ass, etc.. I.e., the things that turn me on all seem bottom related. Even if I want to fuck a sweet ass, the way I get hard is fantasizing as a bottom. So, for me, the reason I don't fuck more often is because my mental and emotional disposition are bottom and my cock stays flaccid at the thought of fucking... even though I may enjoy it. Also, like others, I don't generally even consider fucking until after my ass is full of cum and I am somewhat sated. 

[fillmyholeftl]

I'm a bottom... I think the last time I bred a hole was in the '80s.  Sure I have dipped my cock into a couple of asses since then, but certainly not for any prolonged period and definitely not til I shot. 

[cumluver]

Am I the only one that intentionally does not cum?   I try to stay cock hungry for as long as possible.   extended periods of not cumming keep my horny as hell to service cock.  My longest stretch to date is 4 months.   I don't jo at all anymore either.

[breedmeup]

Total bottom here.  I can honestly say my cock has not been in any male or female.  No interest here.  Don't know why.  Maybe it was my introduction to bottoming at a young age.  Not sure it could perform as a top.  

 

Tallbottom:  My solution for a hot ass in eating it out!

[hungry_hole]

I'm a bottom... I think the last time I bred a hole was in the '80s.  Sure I have dipped my cock into a couple of asses since then, but certainly not for any prolonged period and definitely not til I shot. 

If you'd already dipped your cock into a couple of asses, why don't keep it in and then breed those holes? I'm curious, why not keep going and then shoot inside?

[Guest KptNLine]

Total bottom here adding his contribution. I have tried to Top a total of three times in my life, and each and every time I would go soft before I'd even be able to penetrate the guy. I know it wasn't erectile dysfunction because if was on my back getting drilled, I'd often be hard as a rock. The only reason I tried to Top in the first place was because the guy I was with wanted it, but I have just never had a desire to fuck. I remember being very young, going through puberty and discovering jerking off, and even at this age when I was still a virgin, all my fantasies revolved around taking a Man's cock, never giving. Same with sucking cock, I've gotten my cock sucked a handful of times, but the sensation of getting a blowjob just never really felt that good to me, whereas when I'm blowing a guy, the sensation is so highly erotic. I can't explain it, but I believe that I am simply psychologically wired to be a bottom, that's the only explanation I have for wanting to get fucked and wanting to suck cock from such a young age before I really even understood everything about sex. 

[bbzh]

I started out as a top, then switched to bottom and am now floating along the spectrum, closer to bottom. If you force me to choose a role, I'll choose bottom even though I'll be the first to tell you that I think it's very strange in the gay community that we self-segregate this way. 

 

What "role" I assume depends on a few factors (that I am not sure I can articulate well). There are certain types of guys that I will always want to top - always. I have learned too that I kinda like sloppy seconds. And I cum really fast in a guy when I fuck him doggy in an anonymous setting. But I'd never arrange a sex date with a total bottom because I'd be fearful I'd disappoint (by not lasting long enough to please him) or have performance anxiety. It's just much easier for me to decide spontaneously in an anonymous setting if I want to fuck and breed a hole. Because there are tons of bottoms, there's hardly any need to search far and wide. I just pick a hole and unload. 

 

I do wonder if more bottoms don't top because of: 1) the tendency of bottoms to "compete" with one another for tops, 2) a feeling of perhaps "entitlement" to a top due to the work involved in getting prepared to bottom, 3) the fear that if they start topping, the other tops will think they don't like bottoming. And yes I totally understand that some people just prefer being bottom. No shame there. I do think this shortage of tops "crisis" could be solved if bottoms popped a Cialis or Viagra (if needed) - at least sometimes - and serviced other bottoms. Everybody wins this way. 

 

One of the things I like about topping is that it's just insert, fuck and shoot. That's awesome! I just wish there were more cumdumps in my area. 

 

My favorite encounter was being at a sex party where I had just been fucked and bred by a guy. I immediately went straight to another bottom on all fours and seeded him. To me, it just doesn't get any better than that. Fuck these labels. Just shoot your load in somebody's hole I say! 

[hungry_hole]

It's just much easier for me to decide spontaneously in an anonymous setting if I want to fuck and breed a hole. Because there are tons of bottoms, there's hardly any need to search far and wide. I just pick a hole and unload. 

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One of the things I like about topping is that it's just insert, fuck and shoot. That's awesome! I just wish there were more cumdumps in my area. 

 

My favorite encounter was being at a sex party where I had just been fucked and bred by a guy. I immediately went straight to another bottom on all fours and seeded him. To me, it just doesn't get any better than that. Fuck these labels. Just shoot your load in somebody's hole I say! 

Right on!

 

I would never question if a total bottom never wanted to top a fuck-buddy or his lover. That I understand. But bbzh "hit the nail on the head". I've always been referring to why more bottoms don't unload in some anonymous hole at a sauna or sex party or dark room before going home. "Just pick a hole and unload" without worrying whether the bottom does like quick unloads or not. Pull out and gone.

[btm2bbred]

I consider myself a total bottom, but I do enjoy sticking my cock in another bottom's warm, wet hole and breeding him with my cum.   Only problem is I have a short fuse and usually come within 1-2 minutes.    Also have a small cock so I figure the bottom is satisfied just getting my cum as quickly as possible.

 

I do enjoy the sensations of breeding a hole, but I usually confine my top efforts to sex parties where I've been bred multiple times.    When my ass starts leaking out cum, I just find it hot, if my cock is still hard, to just go and plug an anonymous hole.   Something really  exciting about breeding a guy when my own fuckchute is fill of several men's cum.

[Guest hotpussyboy]

I've tried topping a few times and isn't for me.  Just like pussy isn't for me. (Well...not quite that bad haha)

I've tried topping too but I can't. I'm a confirmed submissive bottom and spend all of my time taking hot loads from gorgeous tops who sense that I'm a natural bottom. Would love to chat with you - how about a message?

Edited February 12, 2016 by hotpussyboy

[atlfukbud]

I think some people just have a natural inclination toward one position or another...maybe it's lack of confidence as a top or experience or simply genetics? Personally, I LOVE to bottom and am probably better at bottoming than topping -- but I also love the feeling of my dick in a dude's arse, and pumping him full of my creme rocks! I say enjoy it all! I know "total tops" that also bottom every now and then -- I think it makes them better lovers actually.

Edited February 12, 2016 by atlfukbud

[hungry_hole]

I've tried topping too but I can't. I'm a confirmed submissive bottom and spend all of my time taking hot loads from gorgeous tops who sense that I'm a natural bottom. Would love to chat with you - how about a message?

hotpussyboy,  do you mean that you can't get your cock hard enough to fuck?

 

I'm not asking for bottoms to become tops, but I know some "total bottoms" do breed holes too. btm2bbred says it best:

 

I do enjoy the sensations of breeding a hole, but I usually confine my top efforts to sex parties where I've been bred multiple times.    When my ass starts leaking out cum, I just find it hot, if my cock is still hard, to just go and plug an anonymous hole.   Something really  exciting about breeding a guy when my own fuckchute is fill of several men's cum.

 

I'm a "total bottom" but never breed because I don't like the thought of finding a dirty hole. 

[Kwitekoolxeb]

I AM A BOTTOM. I have zero desire to fuck. Physically I can do it, but the sight of asspussy doesnt do it for me. Show me a cock and on my knees. My role is to be a hole. I only get fucked. Simple.

For others who flip flop...more power to you.