Are You Clean?

[Twinktabu]

Personally, I never ask using the word "clean". I will just ask about sexual health status. If I get asked I never use the words clean unless its referring to if I took a shower or if I've cleaned out.

If I know their intent is to ask about my sexual health status but ask "are you clean" I will answer with what my current sexual health status is and go from there. I don't like dancing around what the intent of the question is. Much prefer disclosure. 

Edited February 27 by Twinktabu

[BarebackedBear]

"Are you clean" / "I'm clean" is a deal breaker for me. It implies people with HIV are "dirty." People asking that don't get a second ride.

I ask

• HIV neg or undetectable?
• Any other diagnosed STIs or communicable / blood stuff I could catch?

Be clear in your intention. And for God's sake ask before he's balls deep in your guts.

[extremsub337]

I am puzzeled why anyone who fucks raw even asks that question.  I assume everyone who fucks me can be infected with something.  Even if I ask the question there is absolutely no way for me to know if what you tell me is true.

Any raw fucking outside of a committed closed relationship, ALWAYS risks becoming infected with something.  Either accept the risk or fuck safe.  You cannot have it both ways.

[AmberThePozGurl]

Sure am I took a shower this morning 🤣🤣

[NWUSHorny]

Visiting Palm Springs this week, and have been asked 3 times if I was "cleaned out" before they popped in, I was fully douched all 3 times, but 2 of the guys got sloppy seconds which wasn't a deal breaker here. I haven't seen a condom or been asked my HIV status all week, and no one has tried to slut shame me.

[KindaBasic]

On 2/22/2026 at 9:27 AM, tallslenderguy said:

There is still a big stigma attached to gay sex that runs through society.  

Agreed. I was hooking up with one DL gent during most of 2020 - he worked nights by himself in a warehouse and I worked from home, and we kept it exclusive. After the world opened back up, suddenly he was concerned about my status. 

[KindaBasic]

On 2/22/2026 at 1:47 PM, princemb95 said:

I’ve had guys ask me this after they’ve already came in my ass. I’m like um… a little late for that, don’t you think? I have a fondness for anonymous sex and dark rooms— on talking, just animalistic sex and breeding. 

Once the hormones calm down and the extra blood has left the organ, I guess one gets thinking about their health again. 

[KindaBasic]

On 2/27/2026 at 2:33 AM, Twinktabu said:

Personally, I never ask using the word "clean". I will just ask about sexual health status

It does seem pathetic that people still use “clean” for STIs in 2026