Confused Over The Size Of My Own Cock

[VersatileBreeder]

OK so now that I probably just bewildered you with the title of the topic, allow me to explain. I have a hard time trying to class the size of my own dick. I know size is an objective thing- what some people find to be small, others find to be large and vice versa.

Here's why I get confused. Growing up, I always thought I had a small dick. Then again, I never really had anything to compare it to. When I'm soft, since I'm a grower, my dick looks very small. But when erect, I'm between 7 and 7.5 inches long and 6 inches around (and yes I measured the correct way, with measuring tape).

I have a tendency to think I'm average. But I get more confused when I fuck with guys and I hear a lot of guys say things like "WOW your cock is really thick," or "damn that's a big dick dude" and still I don't think it's that big. Sometimes when I top, guys will whimper in pain or try to push me back out of them because they say they can't take it. And it all still confuses me because I still think my cock is at most average.

Does anyone else have this issue? Where you think your cock is something that many others think it's not? Have I watched too much porn and think that big cocks are the norm? Maybe it's body dismorphia? I'm still just confused. Not sure if I should be "average" or "large" on BBRT lol.

[Guest GoodExercise]

Pretty much my exact same dimensions.  I also tend to not think of myself as having a large or thick cock, but I get the thick comment quite a bit.  I go with Large on BBRT.

[lower_bucks_bottom]

It used to be believed cock length was 6", measured along the top. I think updated data puts it as 5.5. I don't know the average circumference. By either measure yours is way above average.

[Guest deleted1107]

Not small at all... at least from my point of view. I am about 5.0 - 5.5" erect... slim... and have a 0GA PA so it hangs well... I am a bottom but in the past my Tops which were much bigger than me liked my cock... I think that what you do with your cock is much more important than the size itself... I take it as it "cums" pun.... but have always enjoyed a man that knows how to use his tool. Yours is just perfect... enjoy it...

 

Edited August 17, 2016 by deleted1107

[nastybottom]

This thread is worthless without pics! LOL!

 

I'd go with "large". Between porn, size queens, and guys lying about how big they are, I think we're all a little confused.

[Guest deleted1107]

Yes... please post some pics.... 

 

Edited August 17, 2016 by deleted1107

[Leather69]

It's not what you have got.. it's more what you do with it. The biggest cock that I have ever seen in the flesh

was just on 11 inches... and the poor kid (he was only 19) couldn't even get it hard. Fortunately for me he

preferred to get fucked..

[VersatileBreeder]

This thread is worthless without pics! LOL!

 

I'd go with "large". Between porn, size queens, and guys lying about how big they are, I think we're all a little confused.

You're absolutely right I guess a picture is worth a thousand words so here you guys go...

[Guest deleted1107]

Just a perfect size....

[VersatileBreeder]

Just a perfect size....

Thank you buddy!

[nastybottom]

It's good size, but they should be saying "oh yeah", not "OW!" Just push their face in the pillow and yell "shut up and take that cock, bitch!"   

[NLbear]

I am about the same size in length and girth. I still refer to it as 'average' as I always think guys expect Large to be 8" or more and guys would be disappointed and expected bigger when they see it in real life and I have listed it as 'L'.

Not that it matters much as I am a bottom. But some guys do like to play with it before they attack my hole ;-)

 

 

[SuccessfulChaser]

From my perspective as a life long bottom is that most guys over rate their own cocks.    Additionally, for me, size is nice of course, but skill as a top is always more welcome than a little more length or a bit more diameter.

 

If guys spent more time trying to be GREAT as a top (something they CAN control) as opposed to worrying about dick dimensions (something largely out of their control) they would enjoy sex more...and the bottoms of the world would rejoice.

 

Bottoms too need to understand that developing crazy ass skills and the ability to really work over a cock with your ass is always better than simply being a "tight hole".  

 

Tops and bottoms both love fucking and sharing cum......and the basics are pretty easy to learn.   But those of us who try to earn a PHd in queer sex skills know life gets better the better you are at you preferred position.  Simply poking a hole or laying there and taking it is nice......but really FUCKING well is wonderful....

[Jamie85]

For me, while I love the idea of being presented a huge (8"+) cock to suck, I much prefer the idea of whatever cock I'm sucking to provide me with as much cum as I can swallow. 

My up till recently B/F has the right sized cock to comfortably fuck me.  Then my interest, rightfully so, is to have him leave his cum inside my ass. 

 

While I somewhat share the fantasy of a large cock, I'm more comfortable with one 5 inches or smaller. 

YMMV

[rednyellow]

I guess I have a big cock, long and thick. On my best days, fully erect I am barely 8" long and 6.6" around. In internet inches, I guess I'm hung 10! It's surprising how many men ask me how big it is. They really have no idea what an inch really is. I meet plenty of men who tell me they have an 8 or 9 or even a 7 inch cock and they might have 5 or 6. At the end of the day I think technique matters more although I love being stuffed and that's why fisting rocks!!