Pig Bttm After Marriage?

[mike258]

My main FB was telling me about one of his friends and it kind of intrigued me. He said this guy was the typical married guy. He had a wife, two kids, a house, etc. He seemed straight as an arrow. Then he and his wife started having some problems and they wound up divorcing last year. He's forty and up until that point, he had never done anything with another man. The most he'd done is watched some BB porn. After the divorce, he moved to a new city where he barely knew anybody, got an apartment, and started experimenting. First he bought some toys, then he went to a few gloryholes, then hook-ups on A4A and CL. Now he's a fucking pig...collecting loads at bathhouses and getting fisted.

 

Is this common? Where straight dudes who may have been in LTR with women decide during middle-age to start barebacking? It's one thing for someone to play around NSA while married, but apparently this dude turned into a bottom slut after his marriage ended.

[drscorpio]

Guys coming out later in life after divorcing a woman is very common. No idea how many of them become cumdumps though.

[NLbear]

Sounds to me this guy must have been gay but surpressed his orientation and believed he could lead a 'normal' straight life. After the divorce, and older in the meantime,  he gave in to his real feelings. It is not uncommon as drscorpio says for guys to come out after a straight marriage. Maybe he became a cumdump to make up for lost time.

[Guest Nielschaser]

I know exactly what this is like. Been married to two woman, but I have met men for sex all the time. My first sexual experience was with a man (I was very young), and I have craved cock all the times since. I have tried a few times to get out of "the closet", but it has been difficult. Now my second marriage is on coming to an end, and I am ready to be a full blown gay, cumpig. I am actively seeking BB with toxic seed. This will be a good and final statement for me that I am gay, and thats a life I want to live

[Bearseeder]

It's "kid in a candy store" syndrome. They've suppressed their urges for so long they're making up for lost time.

[DarkroomTaker]

Good for him and everyone else thst does. Who are we to judge? Live life as you want to live it is my opinion.

[tallslenderguy]

 

 

Is this common? Where straight dudes who may have been in LTR with women decide during middle-age to start barebacking? It's one thing for someone to play around NSA while married, but apparently this dude turned into a bottom slut after his marriage ended.

Like others, I'd question whether this guy (or any other) was "straight" to begin with. I too would put my money on suppressed or repressed.

 

There are still strong cultures (usually religious it seems, or religiously influenced) that do not believe there is such a thing as 'being gay.' They equate being gay to a lifestyle choice and compare it to things like drinking alcohol. I.e., they consider sexual orientation to be a choice, not something that is simply a part of who you are. If you grow up in that kind of culture, it can be hard to reconcile who you are with what you were raised believing. I would guess that this sort of thing will become less common the longer more predominant culture is accepting and open about LGBTQ people, but that could take awhile.

 

It's hard to imagine a time when there will be no fundamentalists... and they will produce repressed/suppressed gay kids. Look at all the people who are coming out of the woodwork to vote for Trump? There's quite a few of them who believe queers should be killed, or being gay should be illegal. Some of those people think a return to times when gays were considered deviant or sick is part of what it means to "make America great again."

[Guest Upstateguy518]

You'd be surprised how many "straight" married men there are. I have a few FB that are in similar situations but since their sex life with their wives is so inconsistent, They seek release else where. And idk if he was closeted but more like he's older and divorced so why not give it a go, He has nothing to lose any ways. Glad to know he's enjoying his new lifestyle though.

[Guest]

I know exactly what this is like. Been married to two woman, but I have met men for sex all the time. My first sexual experience was with a man (I was very young), and I have craved cock all the times since. I have tried a few times to get out of "the closet", but it has been difficult. Now my second marriage is on coming to an end, and I am ready to be a full blown gay, cumpig. I am actively seeking BB with toxic seed. This will be a good and final statement for me that I am gay, and thats a life I want to live

My situation is very similar to Neilschaser, been married twice, my first m2m was in between marriages. Don't really know exactly why I married the second one, after having m2m relations the first time, I was hooked and knew what I liked and desired, but with all the peer pressure from family and close friends, I tried to suppress the urges and remained deep in the closet for most of my life and up till the second marriage began falling apart due to the slow down in work and tight financial situations. The second fem had the need for spending and the loss of financial assets really turned her into the big "B" and she began her moves to find other sources of gain. I had always had more attractions to the guys for sex than I did with females, so it was my opportunity to get out more and have fun with guys and it just began to boom from then on. Have never really looked back and have no intentions of ever becoming involved with the fems ever again. Up to the first of this year have always been scared to hell of things like pozzing, and other STD's, but after reading, chatting and learning a lot, have come to realized and become comfortable and accepting that it really is my desire and destiny to take my sexuality as a homosexual to the maximum limits and enjoy it as much as possible with the time I have left. Have been openly and willingly accepting anon with no questions asked since the first of this year, no know or confirmed poz loads as of yet, but then am not sure, some may have been, but have had no symptoms either.