I'm a Straight Man, But Want Gay Sex

[Bob123456]

Okay, where do I start?  Well, let me say I'm struggling at the moment as far as my sexuality is concerned.  I know I'm straight, but the thought of gay sex is really turning me on.  The thought of taking cock and sliding into a hot sexy man pussy is overwhelming.  Tasting cum, feeling it spray over my body is turning me on like crazy.  If you hadn't guessed as much, I'm a virgin at least in regards to gay sex.

I really want to experience gay sex, but I'm in a relationship and don't want to hurt or harm my partner.  At this moment I'm just looking for advice.  If you have any suggestions I'd be happy to hear them.

[analluv27]

Well if you want to do it you can always go to cruising sites such as A4A and Squirt.org. Since your in a  relationship I wouldn't recommend bbrt since that could open yourself to stds. Of course you could go to a adult video store or theatre if one is available just use protection 

[Eptxbttm]

Don't worry about a label right now. Being in a relationship I wouldn't add risk to your partner and it depends your relationship and partner you could even try to mention a threesome. 

[Guest yelrom]

I am married to lovely woman but all I can think of is me being fucked. I love the feeling of a cock inside me. Go for it enjoy it

[hungry_hole]

I like

On 4/16/2017 at 5:46 PM, Bob123456 said:

Okay, where do I start?  Well, let me say I'm struggling at the moment as far as my sexuality is concerned.  I know I'm straight, but the thought of gay sex is really turning me on.

There is an issue of semantic because words like "gay" and "straight" have very ambiguous meanings. Many guys think of themselves as gay because they like to suck cock or they get turned on more by men's bodies. But the problem is that the need to suck cock or getting turned on by men's bodies can have other explanations.  I like the interpretation of sex that safestsex.org has on their website: http://safestsex.org/aboutmen-en.php

In  my opinion, the biggest problem for married men who wanna try sex with men  are STDs, all of them, not only HIV.

[Bob123456]

Hi again just like to say thank you for the advice you guys are giving me. It is helping, still a virgin lol but I'm coming to terms with liking cock! The odd thing for me is that i fancy women more than men but love watching cocks squirting cum in a man or allover a man and in my fantasies i put myself in that kind of scenario of taking or giving loads! I'm a little confused to say the least!!

[Eptxbttm]

21 hours ago, Bob123456 said:

Hi again just like to say thank you for the advice you guys are giving me. It is helping, still a virgin lol but I'm coming to terms with liking cock! The odd thing for me is that i fancy women more than men but love watching cocks squirting cum in a man or allover a man and in my fantasies i put myself in that kind of scenario of taking or giving loads! I'm a little confused to say the least!!

You can always look for a transwoman get the looks you prefer with a cock. 

[Bob123456]

I do love watching trans porn more than any other and i do like a trans women and shemales looks more than a man's. I'll start looking in the transexual section here! Thank you for your help again it is appreciated.

[cman54]

Hi Bob. I`m in about the same situation as you. Been "straight" all of my life but I have always been a bit interested in men and cock. I had a chance when I was very young to suck one and I did not do it. That is something I think about and have regretted ever sense. Now I am single again and I am going to have sex with some men for sure.  I`m going to be very open to it all and just try stuff. 

[Bob123456]

Im drunk at the moment so let me be a little confused lol! I'm horny now for gay sex but when I'm sober im straight how does that work? Please explain lol!!

[analluv27]

Sounds like you just want to get off and not particularly concerned about with whom, and that's not a problem. Just don't go cruising for dick while drunk, alcohol doesn't help with making good decisions. Also try not to get hung up on labels, I'm married but I enjoy cock up my ass but I see myself as me. The world will label us doesn't mean you have to do it too 

[drscorpio]

5 hours ago, Bob123456 said:

Im drunk at the moment so let me be a little confused lol! I'm horny now for gay sex but when I'm sober im straight how does that work? Please explain lol!!

Alcohol lowers inhibitions. When you are drunk, you are brave enough to admit what you really want. When you are sober, you pretend not to want it because the whole thing scares you. 

If you try it, chances are you won't want to quit it. That will put your partner at risk of emotional damage and sexually-transmitted diseases. Finding out you are into guys might drive her away. You have a lot to be nervous about. It is totally understandable. 

[Guest BBBoyfromTN]

Hey Bob...I can totally relate. I guess I still kind of consider myself straight, but when I was younger I was absolutely obsessed with dicks and cum. I was sexually turned on by girls but also really wanted to know what a cock felt like in my mouth. I really wanted to suck and stroke a cock, to taste cum, to know what it felt like to have a cock in my ass. I would watch gay porn, chat with guys online and such. I finally wound up doing it with a bud the same age as me. It was everything I thought it would be and more, but I have to warn you once that genie is out of the bottle you can't get it back in. I became obsessed with having sex with guys. Even though I had a GF I was having WAY more sex with guys and would spend most of my time seeking out guys to hook up with.

Even now it's far easier to hook up with guys so that's almost all I do. I haven't dated a girl since I was 19 and the last girl I had sex with was in a three way where honestly, I really wanted the guy to fuck me as he had a big cock. Just forget about the labels though. If people ask me my sexuality I just say I'm sexual, smirk and wink, they get the message. It would help if you have a GF who's chill with you having sex with other guys. Just don't make the mistake of getting married and having kids. I've known too many guys who do that and think it will "fix" their desires. It doesn't. It just makes it messier when you realize you're more one than the other, and honestly, some guys are just deeply conflicted about what they want sexually. I would love to have a steady GF but I know given my sexual desires that just isn't reality. 

[paintedgrey]

Hello.

I was in the same position as you.  First thing to do, forget about labels.  Gay/straight/whatever.  Like myself, you are obviously not 'straight' and there is nothing wrong with that.  A little experimentation is good.  I struggled for many years until I went for it.  Now I take cock regularly, though, I guess I'm a bit of a cheat coming on here, I only BB with a close trusted friend, all my other encounters are covered.  I am still with my partner but I just have accepted in my own mind that though I have and wish to maintain a M-F relationship, I also have urges that a woman cannot provide for.

If you don't act on your urges, you will never know, but be careful, esp with BB, for your partners sake.

Most of all, enjoy.  You will not regret it.

[Guest GoodExercise]

Get that bareback 3way MMF action going, Bob.