Tips for making people cum?

[DaddyBare]

Many thanks for your tips and comments. I will see what I can try. The only other thing I've read is pressing on the point between the anus and the scrotum. has anyone tried this?

[Guest Brissy_homo]

On 21/05/2017 at 11:06 PM, tallslenderguy said:

Something I do is always try to get a sense of the top before we even hook. I am one of those guys who asks questions ahead of time when texting back and forth. I have learned to be careful with that, because a lot of flakes to that too. But for me, knowing what you like ahead of time means that when we hook it can be about the actual sex, we don't have to figure it out or discuss while in the process of fucking. 

If I have an ad or profile, I state clearly that I am a total bottom and sometimes state that I don't want my cock touched. This way guys who are more versatile and may be in the mood for cock and fuck don't even come on to me because I was clear. On the other hand, guys who just wanna fuck don't have to worry about that now, they know. I ask if they have fantasies or fetishes, then if I can, I try to accommodate. If they like porn, I have it playing. If they want lacey panties or boxers or jock, I have all those. 

I almost always host and my set up is really easy. I give very clear, step by step instructions on how to find me and get into my house. If a guys already nervous about walking into a strange house, or he cannot find the address because it's so dark out, that's going to detract from his lust. I try to enhance all those things by setting up the environment to make easy access and accommodate fetishes, desires, fantasies. 

Some of the best advice that I've read on here. Thank you!

[Bi-new2BB]

On 21/05/2017 at 10:58 PM, TagBoy87 said:

For me as a bottom i enjoy being slapped, choked and having the top insulting me and telling me hes gonna fuck me as hard as my uncle did. That always makes me cum super fast.

 

Bloody hell that's so hot.   Talking about that would make me shoot too xx

[CumBustion]

1. Tightness- bear down like you're tryng to shit when he pushes in, clench your hole on the out stroke.

2. Position- three positions that I find that can bring a top to the edge are: 1) on my stomack, pillow under my pelvis, legs together, 2) him sitting in a chair and I sit on his cock facing away from him, ass pushed out like I'm twerking, legs together, rocking my hips, and 3) missionary on the bed, back arched, ass off the edge of the bed, legs on his shoulders while he's standing. Bottom line is you want maximum penetration coupled with maximum friction/contact with your walls. 

3. Attitude- how you say it is just as important as what you say. If you genuinely love the dick, your words and actions will show it. "I am one with the dick, the dick is in me."

4. Tolerance- learn to take the dick forcefully and deeply. You may not like the dull pain when a top hits your S-curve but tops love it. They love the feeling of bottoming out in you and the sensation of their cock head rubbing hard against your sugar walls.  If you wanna up your game, learn how to get the dick past the S-curve. It brings a whole new sensation for you and the top.

5. If all else fails, fall back on using your hands. Swirl your tongue all over his cock head while stroking him off. Be sure to use lots of lube or spit. When stroking him, rotate your hand 180 degrees so that your fingers run along the bottom of his dick (same stimulation when he jerks off). Use your other hand and massage his balls or pull the skin of his dick taut at the base of the shaft. 

Don't be disappointed if he can't cum at first. Take a break, have a drink, make out, play around, get back to business. Often times the first nut is the hardest, especially if it's the first time you guys are fucking. 

[miticax]

13 hours ago, CumBustion said:

1. Tightness- bear down like you're tryng to shit when he pushes in, clench your hole on the out stroke.

2. Position- three positions that I find that can bring a top to the edge are: 1) on my stomack, pillow under my pelvis, legs together, 2) him sitting in a chair and I sit on his cock facing away from him, ass pushed out like I'm twerking, legs together, rocking my hips, and 3) missionary on the bed, back arched, ass off the edge of the bed, legs on his shoulders while he's standing. Bottom line is you want maximum penetration coupled with maximum friction/contact with your walls. 

3. Attitude- how you say it is just as important as what you say. If you genuinely love the dick, your words and actions will show it. "I am one with the dick, the dick is in me."

4. Tolerance- learn to take the dick forcefully and deeply. You may not like the dull pain when a top hits your S-curve but tops love it. They love the feeling of bottoming out in you and the sensation of their cock head rubbing hard against your sugar walls.  If you wanna up your game, learn how to get the dick past the S-curve. It brings a whole new sensation for you and the top.

5. If all else fails, fall back on using your hands. Swirl your tongue all over his cock head while stroking him off. Be sure to use lots of lube or spit. When stroking him, rotate your hand 180 degrees so that your fingers run along the bottom of his dick (same stimulation when he jerks off). Use your other hand and massage his balls or pull the skin of his dick taut at the base of the shaft. 

Don't be disappointed if he can't cum at first. Take a break, have a drink, make out, play around, get back to business. Often times the first nut is the hardest, especially if it's the first time you guys are fucking. 

 

This is really hot.

Will definitely try the whole milking part.

Curios though about tolerance part, I was in the situation where it didn't felt comfortable feeling the dick deep inside hiting the end but didn't learn yet how to make it feel better 

[CumBustion]

8 hours ago, miticax said:

 

This is really hot.

Will definitely try the whole milking part.

Curios though about tolerance part, I was in the situation where it didn't felt comfortable feeling the dick deep inside hiting the end but didn't learn yet how to make it feel better 

For the really long ones that hurt when it bottoms out inside you, learn to get it past your S-curve (sigmoid colon). First deep clean your hole using a shower enema. Use long, flexible, not too thick dildo, like an 18" double headed dildo. Laying on your back with your knees pulled towards your torso, push it in until it hits bottom. Now slowly move it around, swivel your hips, try ti get the dildo to slip past the curve. Most people's curve it towards the left. Take it slow and don't force it. You wil feel it give then slip in deeper. You might even notice a belly bulge (kinda like the Alien trying to bust out of your gut ?). Keep practicing going from first penetration to getting the angle to get it in deeper. Before you know it, you'll be like Subway...taking footlongs no problem ?.

[tallslenderguy]

Re milking.

I have a Rosa Rouge that I use when I am working and cannot get out to get fucked.  It's a prostate stimulater and I use it like a aeros, except if has lots of vibrating settings. One of the settings it intermittent pulsing. I use my internal hole muscles and the Rosa to hands free fuck myself. It's not what I want, I want a Top fuckng me, but it's good conditioning and it at least feels good. I the pulsing Rosa is kind of like a cock thrust and I pull it in with my muscles when it pulses and relax when it pauses (it's rapid). I can pull it in prolly at least an inch just by contracting my ass muscles, and I can do the same with a cock. Most tops seem to like that, but some do not while they are fucking, so maybe best to save it for them after they have cum. There is no standard fuck, of course, gotta take cues from your top.

Bearing down to tighten the hole is something several have mentioned, but I find I have to be careful doing that because I have pushed a Tops cock right out of me doing that. Again, it really helps me to know ahead of time, before the Top even gets there, what my Top likes. A lotta Tops love sloppy hole. That is their turn on, so tightening and contracting may turn them off. I'm big on communication for making a Top cum, but communication before he ever gets to my house and inside my hole, not while we're fucking... then I just try and be sensitive an focused. It can be a challenge sometimes, not all guys are into communication and I have experienced some who assume you should just know what they like, trying to help them understand we're not mind readers can be a challenge, but I love Men and am up to it.

[Manlyfkneeds]

I normally pay attn. I just had one guy though it was very difficult. he was silent the entire time gave me physical light touching cues how he wanted to fuck me. So i obediently followed all of his cues.

The only reason I know he shot a load in me was the clean up afterwards. Didnt make a sound. Just thanked me. Asked me if I enjoyed it (HELL YES) and left