Only Ever Topped or Bottomed?

[revemupman]

I'm an ass man. Something about a man's ass just makes me fucking rock solid. Women are nice too but it doesn't really get me turned on that much. Something about a man's ass with his balls hanging is just fucking sexy. I never thought of being a bottom ever. My sexual thoughts and dreams has always been me breeding ass and when I finally get my hands on the real deal and unload in one I feel sexually complete and satisfied. So I only know to top. Never even tried to bottom cause I know its not me. 

[Pleasefuckmyarse2]

On 6/3/2017 at 8:51 PM, Cwmslutbb said:

I've only ever bottomed ...I know from my own experience, I always felt that I would assume the 'female' role when being fucked and I like to suck cock, not too keen on receiving oral but a good rimming will make me so horny too 

that's only my perspective, but it works for me and I wouldn't want to top 

What is the best way to clean yourself out so you can take nice big hard cock what ever I try never comes out clean please help 

[Cumfilledbottomboi]

I’ve only ever bottomed. I’m a submissive faggot. I know my place.

[breedmypiggycunt]

When I was younger and wanting to try sex with other men, it didn’t even occur to me to top. I’m bi and, back then, my answer would’ve been that “I fuck women and get fucked by men”.

I was a total bottom for years. The first time I had ever even thought about fucking a man was a young Hispanic guy whose boyfriend had, he’d learned, been cheating on him for ages. I picked him up on the South Yarra tram on my way home from work one night; in fact, I think he followed me home after we must’ve been exchanging furtive glances 😛. This was in 2000 or 2001 so I was about 35 and had been the recipient of gay sex for 10-11 years.

So I invited him inside and immediately stripped him naked - he had the softest, most beautiful skin too and the most kissable lips 😍 - and, within minutes, his cunt is in the air and it’s pressing on my cock. He’s begging me to fuck him to avenge his boyfriend’s cheating. To be honest, I was so horned up by him that I was already teasing his hole with my cock, trying to work out how I could penetrate him.

But fuck him I did. Every night and every morning for weeks until he finally reconciled with his boyfriend and, even then, we regularly used to meet for me to fuck him.

Until a few years ago, I’d only ever topped four guys in total (and attempted to fuck several more) in 25 years of active gay fucking and, probably not coincidentally, three of the four were just teenagers (one of whom was an 18yo escort, Alex, I’d hired to fuck me silly (well he told me he was 18) and he ended up staying with me for well over a year. Alex, more than anyone else, taught me that I did want to become versatile. Geez, flipping that kid over and making love to his beautiful cunt forever changed me...

Now, while I’m still a voracious bottom by choice, I’ve become quite a decent flip fucker and love it too.

[Guest BritBottom]

It’s a question I have often puzzled over too.

I was never groomed or coerced into the role; no one ever abused me or forced me into anything as a kid. All my urges and preferences arose naturally and from within.

From my very first sexual awareness, I was fascinated by cock.  I cannot identify how or why sexually I have the submissive mentality, I think for me it’s innate, just the way I’m made.  

Generally I’m taken for straight and have been regularly propositioned by girls/women. Female company and friendship is great but my reaction sexually is null. My attraction is focused on masculinity (that doesn’t just mean muscles or a big cock).  I have regularly been asked to top and did sometimes in the early days because I thought I should. It was OK but all through it I wanted to reverse the roles.

It’s hard to describe but submitting to another man fucking me is the most intense satisfaction, the intimacy feels absolute, accepting the vulnerability of being fucked feels like I can truly let go and let his maleness subsume my own.  I bottom because I like it, it feels right, and it makes me happy

[blackrobe]

I think I was always meant to be a bottom, but after being raped bloody as a child, getting fucked became a terrifying thing that got wired into my body even as what happened to me got pushed into a deep place in my mind. I was attracted to strong, muscular, masculine men even as a boy, but didn't get what that pull in me was. I dated a woman and fucked her at 21 and realized sex was okay, but not as incredible as people say.  The first time I kissed a guy and made out I finally figured it out. Still, sex was terrifying to me and my body would go into shutdown if I got too close to getting fucked. The only way I could get close was to be incredibly young and horny and get very drunk to get past the terror. Topping was what I could do, even though my heart wasn't really in it. At best it was an adaptation to what happened to me, at worst a dead end. I felt more and more cut off from my sexual self as time passed. I wanted to bottom but couldn't get there.

After lots of work on my mind and body, including work with a sacred intimate and exploring and accepting my kinks and submissive nature, I reconnected with that sexual self in earnest this year. I met with a guy and had an incredible experience with him. Profoundly connected sex in which I felt horny, safe, and was able to relax enough to be penetrated and fucked. More than that, his fucking me started a deep rolling sensation in my body that I knew from previous work was an assgasm. Since then I've accepted I was always wired to be a bottom and had it blocked by what happened to me. Now I honor who and what I am by taking bare cock and seed inside me. I just celebrated my 100th bare load in just 6 months of bottoming.

I agree with BritBottom:

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It’s hard to describe but submitting to another man fucking me is the most intense satisfaction, the intimacy feels absolute, accepting the vulnerability of being fucked feels like I can truly let go and let his maleness subsume my own.  I bottom because I like it, it feels right, and it makes me happy

I'm a bottom who loves connected intense sex, just like I always should have been.

[Guest]

i have always been a bottom since very young age, my friend raped me and fucked me regularly I admit i didd not like it and was forced fucked till i enjoy it and now all I do is get fucked and enjoy it, i was then told my only purpose was to pleasure men with a nice tight ass i had and have been doing it ever since and enjoy it

[Guest BritBottom]

mikeboi1 & blackrobe: You gentlemen make me appreciate how lucky I have been.

I had a real struggle coming to terms with just being gay but in comparison with you, it was an easy ride. Both of you have had so much more to deal with.

Blackrobe: What happened was dreadful. How you got through it is impressive. Sharing your story cannot have been easy.  Your obvious deep inner strength and courage is something to be proud of – leaves me in awe.

I am glad you are now where should have been from the start, and congratulations on your centenary of cum!

[coastalbender]

I have topped once. I was able to cum, but it didn't thrill me. On the other hand, remembering the first dick in my ass and the first one in my mouth (two different dicks) still makes me horny.

[TotalPig]

Only ever topped but have enjoyed being both dom and sub for everything else.