Total tops are so hard to find

[AZRawPig]

On 9/15/2017 at 4:24 AM, NLbear said:

It happened in that situation. Normally I hook up with top guys or (top/)vers in a top mood. If those were looking for loads they would hook up with a top, not a bottom. So usually I get and am looking for loads, not giving them. Plus, it's no fun for the receiving guy with me cumming in less than a minute.

Now, that's the real question I've been asking too. If there's some sloppy buddy's with wet dripping holes. Wouldn't it be better to deposit your loads into his opening 

That could turn out to be the best FUCK scenes ever. Especially when the juice's are flowing HOT and HEAVY for everyone. Now all inhibitions have been dropped and something sleazy and raunchy can be the best release for everyone. 

[NLbear]

9 hours ago, AZRawPig said:

Now, that's the real question I've been asking too. If there's some sloppy buddy's with wet dripping holes. Wouldn't it be better to deposit your loads into his opening 

That could turn out to be the best FUCK scenes ever. Especially when the juice's are flowing HOT and HEAVY for everyone. Now all inhibitions have been dropped and something sleazy and raunchy can be the best release for everyone. 

Of course I agree. But there aren't many situations (for me) where there's another cum dripping hole besides mine. Most of my hook-ups are 1-1 or 3somes with top guys. There aren't any bathhouses here. Only occasionally a group session where I could do that (if I haven't cum already).

[NLbear]

15 hours ago, muscmtl said:

Many tops have dropped off the cruising scene  since Grindr and Scruff, having discovered that having less than an 8 inch is the ultimate gay crime. I can fuck and fuck, and I know that I do it well cause guys I fuck want to stick around after, or they ask me to stay when I'm about to  leave. But since online cruising, I cannot pass the "dick test" cause I don't have a big dick. Guys see my face and body, they see that I'm a top, they hit me, they want me... then they start the dick questions "Hung?" " big?" "dick pic" "how hung?" "How come you not answering, I wanna know if you big?" ... and on, and on. You can have exchanged twenty messages with a guy, all confirming that the deal is on, then the minute you answer "no" to "hung?" all communications stop.

With online cruising, the "guy" has completely been replaced by the "dick." Bottoms don't want a "guy", they want a "dick." 

I know many tops that have dropped off the cruising scene, all perfectly able to get an absolute hard on and produce cum to seed, but that's no longer important, because they have less than an 8 inch.

What puzzles me is the math. The old ratio of tops/btms use to be 2/3 before online cruising,  now, since the advent of cumdumps and "only hung tops are legal", this ratio is more like 1/100. Funny thing is that since the "hung strict top" have an infinite choice,  only hot muscle btm studs will get lucky.. makes me wonder about these thousands of craigslist adds, per day, "looking for huge dick, 9 plus" from ordinary guys whose biggest asset is that they are bottoms. I'd love to have the NSA computers and calculate the success rate of these btms.

Where are the tops? dreaming home about the bathhouses and bars of the eighties and nineties, when btms were looking for guys and not dick

Steve

Steve, as a bottom of course I don't get questions how hung I am. It must be really tiresome to be asked that question over and over again and then ignored when you don't fit the 8+ bill. Some of the best sex I had was with guys who were average or less so although having a big one is a bonus I don't discard anyone on the size of their dick. But I can understand that tops sometimes feel being reduced to just a dick. Same goes for bottoms though, being reduced to just a hole. Some like that, some don't. I'd like think I am a bit more than just a hole but that's me. It's different in group sessions.

[Llcj]

I've had great sex with guys who have smaller dicks as well as bigger - each guy is different and each dick is different. I like to look for the unique in a guy that tops even if it's just for me to be filled.

[BBBttmPete]

I have been a total top for over 25 years now, but recently wanting to bottom, but I am too tight. One lad got half way up me, which felt great, but couldn't get further. I love topping but would also love a guy to fuck and shoot in me.

[hungry_hole]

19 hours ago, AZRawPig said:

If there's some sloppy buddy's with wet dripping holes. Wouldn't it be better to deposit your loads into his opening ?

It would be better for both.

We complain so much about there being too many bottoms. But if after taking as many loads they could get at a bathhouse or sex party more bottoms made another bottom happy with their load, it would appear there are more tops. Unless a bottom never cums because of some physical issue with prostate or similar, I don't see why not breed some sloppy hole. It doesn't matter if the bottom has a small cock if he cums too quickly, his cum will make another bottom very happy.

Some bottoms says that after taking loads at a bathhouse and they need to go home, they either jerk-off in their room or when they get home. Next time, be generous with any of the bottoms in the bathhouse and breed his hole. You will both enjoy it. Remember, one day it could be you who gets a nice load from another bottom.

[AZRawPig]

NOW that's what I've been saying for a long time.  Most fellas when they are caught in the passion of fuck'n...it doesn't matter who's depositing their cocks or loads into you.  YOU ONLY want MORE...and who care's who's doing it.  As long as it feels good so you can get MORE.  The BEST session's I've encounter in a darkroom was with a bunch of fellas who didn't know who was fuck'n...who...the ONLY think I was hearing, feeling and experiencing was MORE, loads being given, moans, grunts...sloppy...cum drip'n...all over the place...sweaty...body's...flip flop'n...with their Viagra or Trimix cocks loaded to find a sloppy willing hole to deposit their cocks and loads.  Keep the labels outside and just FUCK until; everyone has sloppy, cum dripping holes....

That's why I like long weekend fuck parTy's...by that time...all holes looks alike and all cocks need to find a place to deposit their loads.

[AZRawPig]

3 hours ago, Scottop said:

I have been a total top for over 25 years now, but recently wanting to bottom, but I am too tight. One lad got half way up me, which felt great, but couldn't get further. I love topping but would also love a guy to fuck and shoot in me.

Don't rush this process; because, you will find someone that will take you to this place and you will OPEN yourself UP like a flower to be plucked. ONCE that happens...you are on the road to be a SEXUAL being.  There's nothing wrong with being able to express yourself SEXUALLY in all areas as long as you and whoever; you are with are feeling good about the exchange.  Why prevent yourself from enjoying...cocks, loads...and also giving them back too.  It's all part of the flow of nature.

[fucknfeedme]

Just give me a masculine man with a hard dick and I am happy!!

[BBBttmPete]

3 hours ago, AZRawPig said:

Don't rush this process; because, you will find someone that will take you to this place and you will OPEN yourself UP like a flower to be plucked. ONCE that happens...you are on the road to be a SEXUAL being.  There's nothing wrong with being able to express yourself SEXUALLY in all areas as long as you and whoever; you are with are feeling good about the exchange.  Why prevent yourself from enjoying...cocks, loads...and also giving them back too.  It's all part of the flow of nature.

Thanks. I think you are right. I will find the right guy to do it. 

[Ozpig]

On ‎13‎/‎06‎/‎2017 at 9:14 AM, yunghungtop said:

As a total top, I think this is good advice. You should definitely have some good pics of your hole. I've found that a bottom who is willing to show me his hole is going to be a better more uninhibited fuck. Whenever I log on to a hookup app, I have multiple bottoms willing to offer me some hole. I'm always going to choose the one who shows me his hole over the one who doesn't. I'm going to choose the one who is closer and/or willing to travel over one who is far away or wants me to come to him. I'm going to choose the one who is a total bottom, over the one who lists himself as vers. And I'm going to choose the one who's got that playful bottom energy and willingness to take cock and just be a hole.

Agree totally. As a total bottom pig if I am trying to get tops' on line I send them pics of my hole, and pics of me getting fucked. That is why I love naked parties and back rooms. I always have my arse exposed for inspection and use.

[Ozpig]

7 hours ago, AZRawPig said:

NOW that's what I've been saying for a long time.  Most fellas when they are caught in the passion of fuck'n...it doesn't matter who's depositing their cocks or loads into you.  YOU ONLY want MORE...and who care's who's doing it.  As long as it feels good so you can get MORE.  The BEST session's I've encounter in a darkroom was with a bunch of fellas who didn't know who was fuck'n...who...the ONLY think I was hearing, feeling and experiencing was MORE, loads being given, moans, grunts...sloppy...cum drip'n...all over the place...sweaty...body's...flip flop'n...with their Viagra or Trimix cocks loaded to find a sloppy willing hole to deposit their cocks and loads.  Keep the labels outside and just FUCK until; everyone has sloppy, cum dripping holes....

That's why I like long weekend fuck parTy's...by that time...all holes looks alike and all cocks need to find a place to deposit their loads.

agree totally. as a total bottom cumpig I am powerless when it comes to stiff cock - I do not care who it belongs to I just want it in me and unloading in me. I too love naked sex parties as I love to get fucked 8-10 times in a session at least and I just present myself to be used by tops however they see fit.

[Ozpig]

As a total slut I find that the sluttier and more outside the square I get the more I attract tops. I let them fuck me in public, love being gangbanged, love group sex, let them film me. I find for some reason tops love fucking cummy holes so I often advertise myself for use for a group of tops in my apartment and I always get at least three. Maybe I amnot lookling for a partner just cock and seed so is there is no pickiness with me. If a top has a stiff cock and wants to unload - I am there for his use.

[Davidc]

Bottoms why do you have dick pics on your profile ? It’s your ass I’m interested in ( some bottoms don’t even show an ass pic !!! WTF)

The pic that gets you to the top of the Q ,is a pic of your hole with cum leaking out - that would get my attention 

[atlfukbud]

It seems to me that most of my Millennial and Gen Z pals lean toward being versatile -- willing to fuck or get fucked depending on what the situation requires. I think that so many of us over 35 defer to full bottom-hood because of performance anxiety. I know I went from total top in my 20s to total bottom by mid 30s and have since worked myself back to truly versatile in most situations (especially within relationships) and I have lots more sex options because of that and feel equally masculine in both roles. Just a curiosity, I wonder if the desire to be TOTAL bottom or TOTAL top is more about fear (fear of not being masculine if I bottom, fear of not being a good top, whatever) instead of what really feels good, after all we all have the same plumbing and potential. Maybe the younger men have it right?