Bottom help

[xxww]

OK so I'm disappointed in my self, today I had a hook up that didn't go as planned. Everything was going all good until it came to the sex part. I didn't think he was going to be big so no problem. I'm not a size queen, dick is dick, I love all shapes and sizes. I was all the way wrong, he had big meaty balls and a big fat beer can size dick. It was a shock to me, it was so beautiful and I wanted it so bad. Now the problem is I'm a tight bottom and I literally couldn't fit it at all. I really want to take him but I need to open my hole. Im not a virgin at all and ive taken some nice size dicks but none has come close to his size at all. So how can I make my virgin tight hole an all sizes fit one?

[topstud127]

If there's an attraction, you're comfortable with yourself (body image, hygeiene, etc) and your partner (safety, trust, excitement, etc), and you both know what you're doing, it will work.

First and lastly, rid yourself of the anxiety. Nerves make everything clamp down and become worse than they oughta be. Don't be the bottom that's hands and legs continuously push back in an act of resistance. Don't whine and think it's "too much, this isn't gonna work. You're too big, I'm too tight." RELAX.

Patience from both of you. He should willing to get you comfortable and you should truly want him inside you.

Find your best entrance position; most guys like to start on top so they can go at their own pace; some like doggy; I prefer on my back.

Lube. No need to turn your hoke into a Slup N Slide but it should slide. Silicon is best.

 

Edited June 28, 2017 by topstud127

[xxww]

I know to take my time and all but I aways stay virgin tight. Lots of guys love it but when it comes to king Kong size dicks I have to turn them down. I want to be able to take them but I can never get my self open enough. One of the problems is i don't get fucked on a daily, I don't really have the time to. But for some odd reason I'm starting to run in to some big dick men and I don't want to run away. It's hard to fit an eggplant in a tight hole with out damage. He stopped because he thought he would hurt me by trying. So it ended in jerk offs and bjs but that's not what we both wanted. length is no problem it's girth I want to know anyway to open my hole more? Or things other guys did to get there hole stretched?

[NLbear]

There's plenty of advice in similar threads here (do a search). Most will come down to: practice! Use dildos. Start with an average girth and then move on to bigger (wider). Also use a dildo before your hookup. Besides loosening your hole the added advantage is you're sure you're clean. And lots of lube.

[MuscledHorse]

I also recommend inflatable dildoes as they can stretch you on a graded basis that jumps from one fixed-size dildo to another doesn't allow for. Then do what sex pigs like me do and use your hole everyday. The  more use it has from cocks, toys, hands, etc. the more stretched and pliable it stays and the easier stuff slides into you.

[Guest ff-whole]

This is how I train my hole... at least once a week.

Anal pool plug

[xxww]

Nice I looked online for some anal dilators and stretchers that I'm going to order. I really need to open up.

[CumBustion]

You want to do what is called "weight lifting" before an encounter. When I'm going to meet up with a well endowed top, I usually put in a rather girthy buttplug before leaving the house. That way, your sphincter is already adjusted and slightly loose before we start fucking. I remove it right before penetration. Works like a charm. It's the same technique porn stars use to facilitate easy access.

[fucknfeedme]

I also have a tight furry hole. The key ingredient to taking huge cock is attraction. If you are really into the Top and he takes it really slow it will end up being amazing. Take a hit of poppers, relax and let him ease into you.  If it hurts at first ask him to pull out and then reinsert  Happy fucking.