guys on the 'justusboys' web-forums are really backwards...

[TheLusciousLad]

i'm kinda just typing this to vent

the guys on the just us boys web-forums are really backwards. i posted a thread there earlier about how i was looking for a guy who would want to suck me off and ride my cock often, but i also mentioned that i can't take it up the ass and that i don't suck cock myself and they all swarmed me and starting bashing me and were saying that i was 'selfish' and that 'no guy is gonna want that, all they're gonna get out of it is a sore ass and sore throat and it won't be fun for them at all''

how twisted is all of that? 

the only reason why i don't suck cock is because i don't like doing it. I never got into it at all. I LOVE getting my cock sucked though. Why would you want someone to suck you off if they don't like doing it? it angers me when people say i'm selfish for it.

They were also insulting me on my autism and adhd and spreading false information, as in one of them were ignorant enough to say, "if he does some research and learns how to act, then he will become normal and not be autistic anymore". That REALLY pissed me off. you can't 'cure autism' at all and that's very false. Luckily the whole post there got deleted. but it still made me mad. 

it still pisses me off that people, especially other gay guys, are seriously that stupid  and it really almost makes me ashamed of being gay because i'm technically part of the same crowd as them.  

I know it's quite irrational for me to be angry about people being stupid, but still. 

what do you all think? 

Edited August 15, 2017 by TheLusciousLad

[submissivebottom74]

Look, I am not laughing at you, however usually that is my problem as a bottom. They say they won't see me because I am a complete bottom who never tops and tell me that I am selfish because I cannot actually cum.

[TheLusciousLad]

1 minute ago, submissivebottom74 said:

Look, I am not laughing at you, however usually that is my problem as a bottom. They say they won't see me because I am a complete bottom who never tops and tell me that I am selfish because I cannot actually cum.

guys don't want to see you because you're a complete bottom who doesn't like topping? 

that's a new one... :S 

it does not make you selfish at all either. it's just what you're into and what you're not into.

you should move to Wisconsin almost every single gay guy is a strict top here lol 

 

[hungryhole82]

Sorry you had bad experience at justusboys.com.  Sometimes homos are extremely judgemental and harsh towards each other.  If you don't like to suck a dick then its fine. there is nothing wrong with that.  I'm total bottom and i don't get much enjoyment from being sucked.  They know I'm total bottom and keep asking me if i will flip.  Some guys just don't get it. You can't force someone to do something they don't want to do. 

[evilalex]

I'll suck your dick, bro. No worries.

[Cwmslutbb]

1 hour ago, TheLusciousLad said:

guys don't want to see you because you're a complete bottom who doesn't like topping? 

that's a new one... :S 

it does not make you selfish at all either. it's just what you're into and what you're not into.

you should move to Wisconsin almost every single gay guy is a strict top here lol 

 

I don't get guys not liking total bottoms - how many straight men fuck women ? They see their role as taking cock in their hole or mouth, so as a total bottom myself, I see my role as very similar. Serving a mans cock 

[mblad99]

1 hour ago, TheLusciousLad said:

guys don't want to see you because you're a complete bottom who doesn't like topping? 

that's a new one... :S 

it does not make you selfish at all either. it's just what you're into and what you're not into.

you should move to Wisconsin almost every single gay guy is a strict top here lol 

 

i beg to differ, lots of bottoms in wisconsin!

[BlindRawFucker1]

Being blind, I totally understand how judgmental gay guys can be.

 

On the other hand, being gay, I understand how judgmental blind guys can be.

 

People are judgmental, even if they say otherwise.

[fuckrogerbb]

Just like Ellen said "be kind to one another". We have so many enemies out there we don't need to hurt each other.

[TheLusciousLad]

3 hours ago, mblad99 said:

i beg to differ, lots of bottoms in wisconsin!

really? can you tell me where to find all of them? I'm in right outside Milwaukee, in West Allis and use to live in Brookfield on grindr, every single guy is a top. lol

Edited August 15, 2017 by TheLusciousLad

[TheLusciousLad]

1 hour ago, fuckrogerbb said:

Just like Ellen said "be kind to one another". We have so many enemies out there we don't need to hurt each other.

 

^Exactly, i wish all gay men would understand that. which is why they/we continue to fail at so much. 

[hungryhole82]

1 hour ago, TheLusciousLad said:

 

^Exactly, i wish all gay men would understand that. which is why they/we continue to fail at so much. 

I agree completely.  We want equality and acceptance from other communities but we are so harsh towards each other.  So many gazzillions requirements and judgemental attitude to build any form of relationship ( hookups, date, friends, etc.).

[seaguy]

I read many of the porn blogs and it is similar on them.  The condom nazi's love to harp on porn stars who do bareback.  making shit up about them being druggies and speculating that they are poz, but not in a nice way.  When people go online they don't have to worry about being polite or getting pushback from others if they say something that is rude, or insensitive so they are more prone to being mean and hence we have the terms trolls and haters and sometimes in the gay community we get ones that are even worse when the target is also gay.  Sad really that they don't stop to think maybe if I instead focused my anger and hate towards those who are against my community (alt right) I might help to make things better in my life too.

 

You have to learn to ignore them or maybe not be so open about things that they can then use to attack you.  Use tools like blocking them too.

[einathens]

Perhaps the fact that 'boys' is in the title should be a clue as to the maturity level of many of the participants. 

On the occasions when I get trolled or baited, I rarely engage. Just not worth it. 

You probably won't change anyone there's mind. Those who want real discussion will contact you privately. To hell with the rest of them. Save your energy for being the strongest, hottest, most badass you that you can be.

[TheLusciousLad]

15 hours ago, einathens said:

Perhaps the fact that 'boys' is in the title should be a clue as to the maturity level of many of the participants. 

On the occasions when I get trolled or baited, I rarely engage. Just not worth it. 

You probably won't change anyone there's mind. Those who want real discussion will contact you privately. To hell with the rest of them. Save your energy for being the strongest, hottest, most badass you that you can be.

^BAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA! i've been going back and forth to that site for 3 years and I never thought of that XD it's so true! guys there are so treacherous and very unpleasant.. :S i never liked that web-forum at all, i only signed up there again because i seriously thought i could find a nice man on there who'd love sucking me off and riding my cock and who'd love taking me on roadtrips out east and down south with him (i had no idea why i honestly believed i'd find that there...)

that was total 'dumb moment' for me XD