Tell Me Your Thoughts On Hookup Sites/Apps & Finding Sex

[Tiboer]

Jesse, that’s an incredible post!  Thank you for your hard investigative work!

[ejaculaTe]

cruisingforsex.com is no more. The home page (www.cruisingforsex.com) begins:

 

Farewell from CRUISING for SEX (CFS)

Thank you for visiting CRUISING for SEX (CFS). We’ve been online since 1995 as a place where men seeking men — whether gay, bi, straight, queer, DL, trans, curious, or somewhere in-between — could learn about cruising spots, connect, hook up, and be part of a larger community.

Now, nearly thirty years later, it’s time for CFS to sign off and go offline. Before I explain why, here’s a brief look back.

[Tiboer]

cruisingforsex.com was where I first found all my sex.  Lots of hotel orgies especially.

 

sorry to see it’s gone

[wonderfulwoof]

this network sent me couple phone calls… i like to host anon if wanted 

read the next post

Edited May 8 by wonderfulwoof

[wonderfulwoof]

got thrown off bbrt,a4a,scruff for being honest about me.  people think they are better than u cuz ur nastier then them

sniffies, nkp, bbrt  what else to join

problem is no one under 45 remembers how to cruise

used to walk down castro at market  n 50% of the time  have sex .. ur phone is no match for that look of desire

Edited May 8 by wonderfulwoof

[Pozguyinchi]

I have all but eliminated using hook up sights. I still use sniffies but I find I am using it less and less. It may make me sound like even more of a whore but I do not like the back and fourth conversation. The beauty in being male is we don’t need conversation to get what we need. An example… last night on my way home I stopped off at the Virgil Gilman trail to see if there was any action. I just had backed in and a car pulled up next to me. A black man got out walked down the trail about 100 feet and turned and walked into the woods. I quickly followed. He pulled out his massive and beautiful cock and I assumed the first of two fag poses and got on my knees to suck him. Without speaking he rubbed his hand down my back. To me this is indication for me to get into fag  pose number two which is stand, turn around and present my pussy. I did and he pulled lube from his pocket and lubed his massive cock and went to town breeding me. When he finished I pulled my pants up. He pulled his up and we walked out of the woods. Never speaking to each other other at all. This works much better for me than being on an app trying to something up. 

Edited May 10 by Pozguyinchi
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[NWUSHorny]

On 5/1/2025 at 11:19 PM, ejaculaTe said:

cruisingforsex.com is no more. The home page (www.cruisingforsex.com) begins:

 

Farewell from CRUISING for SEX (CFS)

Thank you for visiting CRUISING for SEX (CFS). We’ve been online since 1995 as a place where men seeking men — whether gay, bi, straight, queer, DL, trans, curious, or somewhere in-between — could learn about cruising spots, connect, hook up, and be part of a larger community.

Now, nearly thirty years later, it’s time for CFS to sign off and go offline. Before I explain why, here’s a brief look back.

It has been years since CFS was my to to site for finding hookup spots, but am very sorry to see it go. I have many great memories from cruising spots I found on that site when I lived in Dallas and Denver, as well as traveling after moving to Portland (I'm yet to find any resource to help find reliable hookup spots here).

[SlamBeast]

9 hours ago, Pozguyinchi said:

I have all but eliminated using hook up sights.

The beauty in being male is we don’t need conversation to get what we need. An example… last night on my way home I stopped off at the Virgil Gilman trail to see if there was any action....

Absolutely, dude. This is definitely one of the best things about being male. I would definitely follow you down a trail or into an alley somewhere. 😈

Had a thing once where I was walking in a big city and I went past a guy who was fuckin hot. After he went by I did that thing where you turn and look to see the view as he walks away. When I did that, he had done the same and we caught each other's eyes. We both just stopped and turned around and then with a bit of laughter we walked back toward each other face to face. I was like "You live nearby?" and he was like "Yup, 1 block that way" and I just said "Let's go".  I think that might have been all the talking that occurred other than maybe a couple "Fuck yeah"s and "I'm gonna cum" or something like that during the fun. I'm polite so I prolly said "Thanks" as I pulled my clothes back on and took off. That was it tho. No names. Nothing about what are you into? or about status? or anything. Was fuckin hot. I love being MALE.

[NWUSHorny]

10 hours ago, Pozguyinchi said:

I have all but eliminated using hook up sights. I still use sniffies but I find I am using it less and less. It may make me sound like even more of a whore but I do not like the back and fourth conversation. The beauty in being male is we don’t need conversation to get what we need. An example… last night on my way home I stopped off at the Virgil Gilman trail to see if there was any action. I just had backed in and a car pulled up next to me. A black man got out walked down the trail about 100 feet and turned and walked into the woods. I quickly followed. He pulled out his massive and beautiful cock and I assumed the first of two fag poses and got on my knees to suck him. Without speaking he rubbed his hand down my back. To me this is indication for me to get into fag  pose number two which is stand, turn around and present my pussy. I did and he pulled lube from his pocket and lubed his massive cock and went to town breeding me. When he finished I pulled my pants up. He pulled his up and we walked out of the woods. Never speaking to each other other at all. This works much better for me than being on an app trying to something up. 

Good to know this still works in Chicagoland. I know it still works in several cities including a couple in the Midwest, but haven't had the opportunity to test it in Chicago for more than 25 years. I just wish it worked everywhere in the world.

[Cumdumpryguy]

On 5/10/2025 at 4:15 AM, Pozguyinchi said:

I have all but eliminated using hook up sights. I still use sniffies but I find I am using it less and less. It may make me sound like even more of a whore but I do not like the back and fourth conversation. The beauty in being male is we don’t need conversation to get what we need. An example… last night on my way home I stopped off at the Virgil Gilman trail to see if there was any action. I just had backed in and a car pulled up next to me. A black man got out walked down the trail about 100 feet and turned and walked into the woods. I quickly followed. He pulled out his massive and beautiful cock and I assumed the first of two fag poses and got on my knees to suck him. Without speaking he rubbed his hand down my back. To me this is indication for me to get into fag  pose number two which is stand, turn around and present my pussy. I did and he pulled lube from his pocket and lubed his massive cock and went to town breeding me. When he finished I pulled my pants up. He pulled his up and we walked out of the woods. Never speaking to each other other at all. This works much better for me than being on an app trying to something up. 

Dang I need trails like this near me. 

[Chrisjoci]

I usually don't have a problem hooking up on a site or app.  I'm pretty easy though. I went to a gloryhole and hooked up several times in a day. Grindr I've hooked up a lot as well as men4sexnow squirt, sniffles. They all seem to work with me. Online hook ups are  better than gloryhole hook ups , because I always find online hook ups have smaller dicks, and I really only look for larger size dicks. 

[Tiboer]

NKPs, squirt, Asspig, adam4adam have been good for me.  I’ve only just begun to explore sniffies.

[Ridingcox]

Sniffies is always successful for me, Doublelist can be hit or miss (allot of of straight/married guys looking for a quick. dl hookup) as well as KIK groups.   Grindr, Adam4Adam and Squirt have slowed down allot and lost some appeal.