How do you call a submissive bottom in a bondage arrangement?

[BreedingTop71]

I am seeing this guy in Dom/sub - M/s kinda arrangement. He enjoys being called a faggot and prefers it to any other title or thing i could call him. Is he the only one?

[breedmeup]

Not at all.  I would like the same thing  

[tallslenderguy]

On 10/16/2017 at 10:00 AM, BreedingTop71 said:

I am seeing this guy in Dom/sub - M/s kinda arrangement. He enjoys being called a faggot and prefers it to any other title or thing i could call him. Is he the only one?

nah. but you knew that already, no?  For me, when i am being sub, it's more a matter of attitude and connotation than the labels used. A Dom guy can maybe wrap His mind around understanding it, but probably not His feelings.  As i see it, D/s can represent the extremities of yin and yang.  In nature, polar opposites attract, the stronger the opposite charge, the stronger the pull.  i see extremity in D/s relationship as a fuel of intense attraction. Man/faggot, D/s, M/s....

[BreedingTop71]

23 hours ago, tallslenderguy said:

nah. but you knew that already, no?  For me, when i am being sub, it's more a matter of attitude and connotation than the labels used. A Dom guy can maybe wrap His mind around understanding it, but probably not His feelings.  As i see it, D/s can represent the extremities of yin and yang.  In nature, polar opposites attract, the stronger the opposite charge, the stronger the pull.  i see extremity in D/s relationship as a fuel of intense attraction. Man/faggot, D/s, M/s....

I have discovered that every time he calls himself a faggot i get a raging boner. We fuck like rabbits, with my sub taking all the sexual energy and pain i inflict on him without even a complaint. You are correct, we are living an extreme relationship and we both love it.  

Edited October 18, 2017 by BreedingTop71

[Guest KptNLine]

He is absolutely not the only one. I love being referred to as a "fag" or "faggot," and I am also in a D/s relationship. For me, the term "faggot" perfectly describes how I feel in relation to my husband. I am generally locked in chastity during sex, which is the primary reason I started using the term "faggot" to describe myself. It eliminates any ambiguity in our sexual roles - my husband fucks, I get fucked. My husband gets an erection, I stay locked. My husband gets to cum, I stay horny. He is the Man in our relationship, and I am the faggot. And like you, I love everything about being a faggot for my Man. 

[subbytch]

Sub here. 

I love being called faggot, whore, cunt, bitch... bit of a turn on thinking about it... when it comes to sex. When a dom top uses any of those words when fucking around with me, I melt.  There's a hell of a lot of us bottoms that like it. :-)

[kels725]

he is def not the only one though it may depend on the role they are in. If i was a top I dont think I would want to be called that but being a submissive bottom who prefers to be the one bound and or locked up in chastity, the term "faggot" just seems to describe my preferred role.

[ErosWired]

Not every submissive appreciates that term. I have always been a submissive, and have responded to just about every term Doms like to use for us, but I don't like "faggot" or "fag". I think it's because I grew up in a time and place where being identified by your peers as a "faggot" was a bad, bad thing and led to ostracism or worse. The term bears too much stigma of discrimination for some guys to find anything arousing about it. Call me a cunt, fine. Pussy, fine. Slut, whore, bitch - knock yourselves out. I resemble those remarks. Just don't call me a fag.

I don't have a thing in particular for straight guys like some men do (cock is cock is cock), but maybe a preference for being called "faggot" is more common among those who like to imagine being taken by someone straight? Just speculating.