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About subbytch

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    Sex Addict
  • Birthday 08/29/1969

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    Male
  • Location
    Los Angeles
  • Interests
    Nerdy, fun guy in real life. Nudist. Perv in bed.
  • HIV Status
    Neg, On PrEP
  • Role
    Bottom
  • Background
    45 year old bear. Guy next door... but bitch-in-heat in the bedroom.
  • Looking For
    Younger, dom, chaser-tops, who like it from vanilla to kinky. Kiss me like you love me, fuck me like you hate me.

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  1. subbytch

    Bottoms getting hard

    Really, it's just about age and biology. Some bottoms get hard when fucked, some don't, and some it changes over time, with age, with alterations of hormones. Me? I love being soft when getting fucked. Super submissive that way. Love seeing that in porn films too. Love it when, with a limp dick, I get the cum fucked out of me as well. That said, I also like having a hard dick and having it used and abused either while being fucked or during foreplay. That's also fucking hot. The best tops I've been with have worked with whatever presented itself -- one way or the other. 🙂
  2. subbytch

    Any Guys Into Drinking Piss?

    The number of tops I've turned on to having their piss drunk or showered on a bottom.... The first time they always look skeptical and slightly repulsed. It's about the third or fourth time that they are demanding it from the get go. Not too long after, they express how much they hate pissing without a mouth around their cock.
  3. subbytch

    love to breed chub ass

    Thank you. It always looks better with a dick / cum in it. 🙂
  4. subbytch

    How to know if a guy is truly undetectable.

    Draw blood, walk it over to the lab, run the test, wait for the result, check the equipment. That's the only way to really know. For the rest, there's PrEP, U=U, condoms, or willful oblivion.
  5. subbytch

    love to breed chub ass

    Anytime, it's here for ya.
  6. subbytch

    Ideas for abusing dudes into dom/faggot play.

    Here's a list of ideas: Relax, pour a drink, watch TV and have him suck your cock. Deepthroat. Train him to take your cock all the way to the base. Deepthroat it until he chokes. It’s his job to deal. Fuck his mouth like it’s a pussy. It is. Cock slap him. Spit on him. Spit down his throat Piss on him. Piss down his throat. Piss in his ass. Piss on, down, or in him while you are out in public or before he goes out in public. Make him beg for your spit Make him beg for your piss Finger his hole. Finger his hole in public Call his hole a pussy Call his hole a pussy in public Spank him. Spank him with a paddle Spank his balls. They are your toys. Have your buddy spank him, his balls. Your toys are worth sharing. Fuck his ass. Fuck his ass while you choke him Fuck his ass while he’s tied up Fuck his ass and abuse him across a weekend while he’s tied up. Fuck his ass / tag team with your buddy. Fuck his ass / tag team with your buddy across a weekend while he’s tied up. No breaks. Gang-bang him with a group of friends or strangers. Whore him out to friends or strangers. For nothing. For cash. Your call. Fuck his ass with a dildo. Fuck his ass with a dildo, make him clean it with his mouth. Make him clean it after its been your ass or another faggot’s ass. Smack or slap his face. Do it during sex. Do it randomly. Call him names. “Faggot”, “Cunt”, and “Whore” are easy. Kiss him like you need his mouth to breathe Pull his hair Pull his arms behind his back while you fuck him. He’s just a hole. Take his clothes. Don’t give them back until he’s satisfied you Take his clothes while out in public. Don’t give them back until he’s satisfied you. Gag him with your dirty underwear, jockstrap or cum rag when you’re fucking him. Cum on his face. Smear it in. Make him wear it out in public. Cum down his throat. Cum in your hand, and make him eat it from your hand like a dog. Make him eat your cum off your buddy’s cock. Make him drink your load(s) from a shot glass. Cum on food and make him eat it. Double-penetrate him with another Top or with a dildo. Flick or twist his nipples. Have him wear only an oversized coat to your flat, not clothes, no shoes. Have him get naked on your doorstep. Exposed. Before he rings the doorbell. Write names (e.g., faggot, bitch, pig, slut), pictures (e.g., a cock and balls, a pig face, a toilet) or phrases (e.g., insert cock here, with an arrow pointing to its holes) on his body. Make him wear a butt plug out in public (e.g., to the bar, to the gym, to the grocery store). Tie him to your toilet when you have guys over, and tell them to use him instead of the toilet. Masturbate him / make him him masturbate for you. Don’t let him cum. Repeat. Punish him if he comes. Make him cum. Make him cum again. Make him cum again until he’s firing blanks and it hurts to cum. Make him jerk off or finger himself while you and/or your friends watch. Make him watch while you fuck another faggot. Make him eat your ass while you’re fucking another faggot. Make him clean your cock off after you fuck him. Make him clean your cock off after you fuck another faggot. Make him eat your load out of another faggot’s ass. Make him clean out another faggot’s ass after you’ve fucked it. Put him on all fours. Milk the cum out of him like an animal for breeding. Take photos and/or videos of him servicing your cock. Take photos and/or videos of him servicing your buddy’s cock Have an actual bitch fuck him Tie his cock and balls with a shoelace. Hang weights from his balls. Blindfold him when you use him. Fist his hole. Cum in his ass. Cum in his ass. Plug it. Make him keep the load in for as long as he can, preferably in public. Hate fuck him. Make him fuck another faggot, or get fucked by another faggot, while you watch. Make him lick your feet. Use him as a footrest. Make him give you a massage or footrub. When he pees in the restroom, have him drop his pants to his ankles. He’s a cunt. People need to know. Make him wear a collar and leash. Keep him in a cage. Make him wear a ball gag. Make him crawl in your presence, like a dog. Get him a butt-plug tail like a dog. Leave him tied up out back like a dog. Turn the hose on him to wash him like a dog. Torture him with hot wax. Make him give himself an enema — with water, with your piss — while you watch. Make him beg for your cock. Points for public. Feed him your pre-cum. Make him lick your sweaty pits. Make him call you “Master” or “Sir.” Make hum call you “Master” or “Sir” in public. Make him wear a hood while you use him so that the only sensation he has is the feeling of your cock in his hole. Tease / torture his cock. Tease / torture his cock while in public Use him randomly during the day while you both are doing other things Use him in front of others Make sure others know he’s your bitch Cum in his ass, then make him fart your cum into his hand and eat it. Felch your cum out of his ass, then feed it to him. Lock him in chastity. Make him cum. Spoil his orgasm. Make him lick you head to toe. Make him wear a puppy tail in his ass. Make him service you in a public place (e.g., a restroom, a park, your car). Throw him around to get him in position to fuck him Throw him around to get him in position just because it makes your dick hard to rough him up. Get in his head. Find out what turns him on. Use it. Encourage your straight friends to use his ass like a pussy whenever they want. Stick ice cubes in his ass Give him five minutes notice you are arriving for a fuck. Give him the same notice you are arriving, but with friends. Have him bathe you from head to toe. Turn the hose on him in the yard and wash him like an animal Make him cry. Whisper shit like: “Faggot, you mean nothing to me. Absolutely nothing. You’re just a hole to dump in and leave. Now beg me to spray my sperm up your faggot cunt.” while you fuck him. Cover up his mouth to keep him quiet. Cover up his mouth to keep him quiet while fucking outside, near and around people. Do whatever you can to make him cry out.
  7. subbytch

    Prep

    All of the ACA healthcare plans cover PrEP. Medicare does too. Private, employer based plans are hit or miss. So there has been an increase in the amount of PrEP in use domestically, especially in white populations. We're still a long way from widespread use, though.
  8. subbytch

    Best Friends Brother

    I don't think you are under any obligation to tell your friend who you are getting fucked by. Your ass is yours. Your friend's brother's cock is his. And the loads he keeps dumping into you are between the two of you. There's no part of friendship that says you have to tell a friend who fucks you. As for cheating, if your fuck-buddy had an open relationship with his GF, or at least a don't-ask-don't-tell relationship with her, I can't see there being any violation -- ethically or to one's self respect. If the relationship is closed, if he's dating her seriously, if he or she has mentioned they are only supposed to have sex with each other, then yes, I think you are making a mistake there. I know the dick is good and the taboo nature of it makes things extra hot. That doesn't change the fact that getting the dick goes against one of your deeply held principles. That seems like grounds to stop right there. Of course, the truth you might have to face up to is you are perfectly fine cheating -with- someone. You just don't want to be the person cheated on. Different story there.
  9. subbytch

    How to treat a fag

    While some doms are natural born and full of demented ideas, others stumble into the role, discovering their interest, but a little lost for all the different things they can possibly do to those that submit to them. So this bitch took it upon himself to pull together a list from various lists, comments, and suggestions he found on line and throw it into a list. I can't take credit for most of it. It's really from a lot of different places, cut and pasted into a file, then tweaked into a longer list. Feel free to use, change, alter, reference, cite, or do anything with. 1. Relax, pour a drink, watch TV and have him suck your cock. 2. Deepthroat. Train him to take your cock all the way to the base. 3. Deepthroat it until he chokes. It’s his job to deal. 4. Fuck his mouth like it’s a pussy. It is. 5. Cock slap him. 6. Spit on him. 7. Spit down his throat 8. Piss on him. 9. Piss down his throat. 10. Piss in his ass. 11. Piss on, down, or in him while you are out in public or before he goes out in public. 12. Make him beg for your spit 13. Make him beg for your piss 14. Finger his hole. 15. Finger his hole in public 16. Call his hole a pussy 17. Call his hole a pussy in public 18. Spank him. 19. Spank him with a paddle 20. Spank his balls. They are your toys. 21. Have your buddy spank him, his balls. Your toys are worth sharing. 22. Fuck his ass. 23. Fuck his ass while you choke him 24. Fuck his ass while he’s tied up 25. Fuck his ass and abuse him across a weekend while he’s tied up. 26. Fuck his ass / tag team with your buddy. 27. Fuck his ass / tag team with your buddy across a weekend while he’s tied up. No breaks. 28. Gang-bang him with a group of friends or strangers. 29. Whore him out to friends or strangers. For nothing. For cash. Your call. 30. Fuck his ass with a dildo. 31. Fuck his ass with a dildo, make him clean it with his mouth. 32. Make him clean it after its been your ass or another faggot’s ass. 33. Smack or slap his face. Do it during sex. Do it randomly. 34. Call him names. “Faggot”, “Cunt”, and “Whore” are easy. 35. Kiss him like you need his mouth to breathe 36. Pull his hair 37. Pull his arms behind his back while you fuck him. He’s just a hole. 38. Take his clothes. Don’t give them back until he’s satisfied you 39. Take his clothes while out in public. Don’t give them back until he’s satisfied you. 40. Gag him with your dirty underwear, jockstrap or cum rag when you’re fucking him. 41. Cum on his face. Smear it in. Make him wear it out in public. 42. Cum down his throat. 43. Cum in your hand, and make him eat it from your hand like a dog. 44. Make him eat your cum off your buddy’s cock. 45. Make him drink your load(s) from a shot glass. 46. Cum on food and make him eat it. 47. Double-penetrate him with another Top or with a dildo. 48. Flick or twist his nipples. 49. Have him wear only an oversized coat to your flat, not clothes, no shoes. 50. Have him get naked on your doorstep. Exposed. Before he rings the doorbell. 51. Write names (e.g., faggot, bitch, pig, slut), pictures (e.g., a cock and balls, a pig face, a toilet) or phrases (e.g., insert cock here, with an arrow pointing to its holes) on his body. 52. Make him wear a butt plug out in public (e.g., to the bar, to the gym, to the grocery store). 53. Tie him to your toilet when you have guys over, and tell them to use him instead of the toilet. 54. Masturbate him / make him him masturbate for you. Don’t let him cum. Repeat. 55. Punish him if he comes. 56. Make him cum. Make him cum again. Make him cum again until he’s firing blanks and it hurts to cum. 57. Make him jerk off or finger himself while you and/or your friends watch. 58. Make him watch while you fuck another faggot. 59. Make him eat your ass while you’re fucking another faggot. 60. Make him clean your cock off after you fuck him. 61. Make him clean your cock off after you fuck another faggot. 62. Make him eat your load out of another faggot’s ass. 63. Make him clean out another faggot’s ass after you’ve fucked it. 64. Put him on all fours. Milk the cum out of him like an animal for breeding. 65. Take photos and/or videos of him servicing your cock. 66. Take photos and/or videos of him servicing your buddy’s cock 67. Have an actual bitch (dog) fuck him 68. Tie his cock and balls with a shoelace. 69. Hang weights from his balls. 70. Blindfold him when you use him. 71. Fist his hole. 72. Cum in his ass. 73. Cum in his ass. Plug it. Make him keep the load in for as long as he can, preferably in public. 74. Hate fuck him. 75. Make him fuck another faggot, or get fucked by another faggot, while you watch. 76. Make him lick your feet. 77. Use him as a footrest. 78. Make him give you a massage or footrub. 79. When he pees in the restroom, have him drop his pants to his ankles. He’s a cunt. People need to know. 80. Make him wear a collar and leash. 81. Keep him in a cage. 82. Make him wear a ball gag. 83. Make him crawl in your presence, like a dog. 84. Get him a butt-plug tail like a dog. 85. Leave him tied up out back like a dog. 86. Turn the hose on him to wash him like a dog. 87. Torture him with hot wax. 88. Make him give himself an enema — with water, with your piss — while you watch. 89. Make him beg for your cock. Points for public. 90. Feed him your pre-cum. 91. Make him lick your sweaty pits. 92. Make him call you “Master” or “Sir.” 93. Make hum call you “Master” or “Sir” in public. 94. Make him wear a hood while you use him so that the only sensation he has is the feeling of your cock in his hole. 95. Tease / torture his cock. 96. Tease / torture his cock while in public 97. Use him randomly during the day while you both are doing other things 98. Use him in front of others 99. Make sure others know he’s your bitch 100. Cum in his ass, then make him fart your cum into his hand and eat it. 101. Felch your cum out of his ass, then feed it to him. 102. Lock him in chastity. 103. Make him cum. Spoil his orgasm. 104. Make him lick you head to toe. 105. Make him wear a puppy tail in his ass. 106. Make him service you in a public place (e.g., a restroom, a park, your car). 107. Throw him around to get him in position to fuck him 108. Throw him around to get him in position just because it makes your dick hard to rough him up. 109. Get in his head. Find out what turns him on. Use it. 110. Encourage your straight friends to use his ass like a pussy whenever they want. 111. Stick ice cubes in his ass 112. Give him five minutes notice you are arriving for a fuck. 113. Give him the same notice you are arriving, but with friends. 114. Have him bathe you from head to toe. 115. Turn the hose on him in the yard and wash him like an animal 116. Make him cry. 117. Whisper shit like: “Faggot, you mean nothing to me. Absolutely nothing. You’re just a hole to dump in and leave. Now beg me to spray my sperm up your faggot cunt.” while you fuck him. 118. Cover up his mouth to keep him quiet. 119. Cover up his mouth to keep him quiet while fucking outside, near and around people. Do whatever you can to make him cry out anyway.
  10. Gardasil 9 hits 85-90% of cervical, anal, vulvar, vaginal, genital wart causing HPV virus. Those are the -relevant- forms of HPV. Most HPV is benign. It's not that -you- develop resistance to doxy. Doxy is an antibiotic; it only targets bacteria. If you are taking doxy daily, for months or years -- which people do, as malaria prevention or cystic acne control -- there is a concern that it could alter your natural gut biome for ill. But doxy as STI prophylaxis isn't taken daily. It's situational. And it's prevention level against STIs is consistent and on par with condoms -- and not contingent on what part of the body is covered. As for Hep C, the primary risk factor was being HIV+. There was a debate as to whether HIV- MSM could pick it up. Midgley (2017) documented that yes, this was possible, and demonstrated the mechanism by which it would occur. With an incidence of 1-2% a year, according to Sheena McCormack at the Dean Street Clinic in London, it's still rare. It could increase now that more HIV+ and HIV- men are having sex. The latest recommendations are Hep C tests every six to twelve months for MSM. There's always a risk of contracting an STI. What I listed were all the ways we have of making that risk smaller than it's ever been before. And that risk window really is the smallest its ever been, with medications that are remarkably safe and effective. You may not personally want to use any of these methods. That's on you. But they do exist, they are pretty amazing, and they are far better than hoping thoughts and prayers will keep viruses and bacterias at bay. :-)
  11. I've gotten an STI from a single hookup and no STIs from a gang-bang. While people are different, STIs have had millions of years to evolve to those differences. They infect when some body part with an STI meets another person's body part without an STI and the odds go in favor of transmission. You can reduce that chance by medication, vaccine, condoms, etc, but there's always a chance. If you are positive and undetectable, you've eliminated the chance of passing HIV on to someone else. If you are on PrEP, you've pretty much eliminated your chance of getting HIV. You've also given yourself a small level of protection against herpes. If you've had an HPV shot, you've eliminated the chance of getting most forms of HPV. If you've had a Hep A and B shot, you've about eliminated the chance of getting two of the three kinds of Hep. If you take doxycycline within 24-72 hours of sex, you've reduced your odds of getting chlamydia or syph about as much as if you'd used condoms. Gonorrhea and Hep C are still on the table, but while not impossible, the latter is still difficult to get without an HIV infection and STI. Gonorrhea seems to turn up, unwanted, no matter what you do. It's not magic. It's just science.
  12. subbytch

    Dominance - Questions for Bottoms and Tops

    Wow, thanks for asking this question. Sub bottom — duh! — so I have a small bit of insight into this, even if I’m only speaking for myself. Late 40s here. Have been sub in the bedroom all of my life, but it’s only been in the lat five years that I’ve really been able to explore it with the depth required. I’ve learned over the long term that it’s not about the fuck, it’s about the about the mind fuck. Since our brains are the actual sexual organ, the body — fucking — is just one of the keys available to play that organ. There’s a lot more ways to play. People enjoy being slapped, fucked hard, and sent home. No names, no connection. I actually think that is the connection, that’s still the mind that’s being fucked with. The anonymity is part of the thrill. It makes a connection where there wouldn’t otherwise be one. It’s great. While I’ve done that, it’s so rare that such pure anonymity works. Since so much about being dominated is about letting go, about responding, about getting out of my head and just being in the moment, it’s difficult to do that with some random person I just met. Trust. All the headlines about death and destruction from a hook-up just don’t leave in those situations. Even in a hookup, I still want the domination, but I just remain on guard, because life, you know? The real fun is with a Fuck Buddy, a Friend with Benefits, or a lover. Someone where there’s some kind of foundation in place on which to fuck around and have fun. In those cases, the fucking isn’t even the key thing. I have one FB who gets “it”, who understands it’s about the attitude and actions across the spectrum, not just the fucking. We can play a video game and, out the blue, he can reach over, push my head onto his cock, and have me choke and gag until he’s done, either by blowing his load, heading home, or us heading on to dinner. 

My other FB now walks in the door, pushes me to the floor, sticks his cock in mouth and pisses…whether he’s there time for sex or he’s just to grab a boarding pass because his printer is on the fritz. That’s also being used. That also means that when it gets to fucking, and I’m being pounded to within an inch of ecstasy, I have no worries about either of them slapping my face or choking me when we fuck. There’s enough trust there to let go and be. Like a good little bitch, I still want more, though. Neither of them are friends with a capital “F”. I’m still interested in much deeper friendships with sexual dominance / mind fucking in there. That would be more of fun, exhilaration, and bliss than I currently have. One of my goals. We’ll see how I do. As for age and the media’s role in all of this, I wouldn’t agree with your assessment. I’ve met plenty of younger tops who are dominant, especially when they can be so with older guys. I’ve met plenty of younger guys who have no interest in using or being used. It’s fairly vanilla all around. BBRT attracts a particular subset of fuckers. I wouldn’t read too much into it. If you aren’t dominant, don’t worry about it. You don’t have any obligation to be. If you like being dominant in a NSA bathhouse way and are interested in being so also IRL, that can be done, too. It takes some work. It helps to find fuckbuddies that are interested in that. Believe me, I know it takes a bit of work to find what works for you. I’m still figuring it out. I still have a way to go — and you, at least, are getting to it much sooner than I did. :-)
  13. subbytch

    what or who makes you start having raw bb sex?

    Time and PrEP. My sex life had stalled. Decades of fear of HIV really does a number. Seeing videos of people having so much fun, listening to people tell tales of having so much fun, I wanted that. PrEP seemed too good to be true. Then I did the research, went on it, and the majority of my fear went away. Now, it's the only way I want to have sex. Someone asking to use a condom is a turn-off. I want their load, I want it deep, and I want it again and again. I used to swallow the hell out of cum. No more, no more.
  14. subbytch

    Toy vs. Cock

    Toys just feel fucking odd. Damn, I got that off my chest. I use a butt plug to loosen up and a dildo from time to time to play, either with myself or with another. The plug is fine, it does it’s job, and it’s good. But dildos...damn. They are pleasurable...but wrong, almost painful at the same time. I can’t be fucked for as long or as hard by a toy as I can as with a cock, even a big cock. A guy pounding me feels better than a toy teasing me. It’s weird. Anyone else encounter this? Are you fine with toys, spending long hours or sessions with them? Or do they feel... wrong to you? What’s your reason for it either way?

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