What factors got you to start barebacking?

[cboycam]

the only time I fucked with a rubber was the 6 months I fucked a woman

[discjuian]

For me it was "A casual sex partner who wanted to bareback". Was my first time and because of both our attitudes it just felt (and still feels) normal.

[bbtogether]

I don't think the blogs had anything to do with me getting bare fucked... the blogs only make me think if i should get bred by guys (poz or not)...

[gkz68]

For me I stopped having sex for a number of years - I'd let myself get out of shape and had put on a lot of weight ... and during this time I just didn't have sex. I did have an active fantasy and wank sessions during these years and loved to read about and watch BB porn. In my mind this was ok - because I wasn't having any sex at all and I could watch/read whatever porn I liked, and I did like BB the best.

Last year I started to get fitter and lose weight to the point where this January, solo masturbation wasn't enough and I started to seek out sex contacts via my new iPhone (lol). Quickly I connected with a young guy who was into me and I made it clear that I wanted to take his load. We chatted for some time and eventually agreed to meet - went from lots of chats to a hook up that night. Interestingly he asked "what if I said I was poz?" I told him I'd still take his load. I knew that if I started to have sex again then I wanted the real thing and eventually I'd probably become poz. We met. He was better than his pics. Young (21) lean and pierced (nose, and tits) and such a beautiful thick uncut cock. He used me good. I got to sniff and lick his pits clean and got to chew on and suck and sniff his jock strap as he fucked me. He came in my arse and fed me some of his cum and ended up drinking my piss and feeding me some too. Haven't heard from him since but I don't think my intro back into sex and BB sex could have been better. Since this I've had a few men fuck me (around 10) only one of them has worn a condom (he insisted) and now I don't bother to ask about status - I just was their raw cock and cum. Now if a top wants a condom, I decline the fuck and I really don't enjoy having a condom cock in my hole. Raw is best for me!

I'm grateful for a forum like this where I can share my desires and connect with my brothers

[chris0149]

I found this 18yo on a4a when I was 22yo, not much to look at but had a thick 9.5in cock, invited him over to fuck me at my place, as he still lived at his parents (love high school boys!). We went through the sucking n rimming ,and I flip over to get in doggy style position and point to the condoms and lube on desk next to my bed. He grabs them, takes a moment, and gets to fucking my hole. We go at it for about 10 minuteds in that position when a gesture to go to a different postion, As he pulls out and lays on the bed so I can ride him, I noticed theres no condom on his cock. When I question him, he tries the lame excuse of Im allegoric to latex, I said fuck it, we already been having sex for the past 10min, might as well figure out what all the fuss is over. The second he cummed, and cummed, and cummed deep inside my ass, I knew I was hooked for life! To this day i still hook up with rom time to time.

[cumdump808]

i started hooking up early, real early. I would ride my bike in the park by my house. at first i would only fuck dudes and fuck them raw, then i got into getting fucked. for years i only got fucked using a rubber, but then my hookups got more kinky and i just transitioned into bb. haven't looked back. love being able to go to parks, bookstores, bath houses, and wherever else and bending over and have a dude put his hot seed up my ass.

[Guest slobbvers]

I like raw better than condom. Just gradual. Love to feel blasting my cum in a hot ass and the feel of a cock cumming in me. Last fall was chatting a guy on a4a. He was a bottom. It was getting hot and heavy before I told him I fuck raw. He said nothing doing. I said ok your loss.

[barecub2601]

For me I think it was just that I'd always fucked bare, ever since I was 14 when I met up with random guys on toilets. The feeling of a bare cock is so much better, plus there is the connection with a guy when he cums in you and dumps his DNA inside. When I've been fucked with condoms I need so much lube because the latex can be really uncomfortable and create unpleasant friction in my hole and I really don't like it. You dont get that with raw cock, and the skin on skin feeling is sooooo much better

[btm2bbred]

When I was stealthed at the baths a few years ago by a guy who had doctored his rubber, I decided WTF. I stopped insisting on condoms at about the same time I realized more Tops were only interested in fucking raw. So I left it up to the Top to decide....I'd go along with his decision. Since then many more guys fucked me raw than suited up.

Sexually, it felt a hell of a lot better for a Top to slide his bare cock over my prostate and drill deep into my fuckhole. Psychologically, I get off on an alpha Top guy branding me as his, and leaving his DNA inside my guts. His seed is now in me and being absorbed by me....for me that's a total turn on. I love being able to give over my hole to my Top for his pleasure. With condoms you don't get that intimate connection. I really don't know how I put up with condoms for so many years.

[AlwaysOpen]

Hey Rawtop- you missed an option. When I was a sexual neophyte- waaay back in 1971- raw was the only option-especially if you were a 15 year old- condoms were those things hidden behind the counter at the drug store, not the thing in baskets at the local clothing store free for the taking! Hell, the only place Trojan had ads were in the back of Playboy, maybe in Hustler. I went raw all thru the 70's and 80's- prob explains how and why I was poz in a test in 1987. Never stopped being raw, except with the boyfriend- he was neg and topped, and used rubbers. Guess that was so his secret lover wouldn't "catch" anything

[top4boybtms]

I started bare-backing with my first boyfriend which only lasted 6 months but it had me hooked. I never wanted to go back to a condom. After that first bf my next bf was for 10 years and we never used a condom during that time. We got tested at the beginning of the relationship (but we didn't get tested together). Right about the middle of the relationship he started having substance abuse issues (multiple) and it was then that I found out that he was actually HIV+. He had lied to me that he had been tested at the start of the relationship. He never used any anti-hiv drugs and had no symptoms so I had nothing there to alert me to it.

The most amazing thing about this was that I never got it and to this day even though I rarely use a condom I am still hiv negative. I had my dna tested to see if I was immune (it's actually how found this website during a search of the subject of bare-backing and hiv immunity). To my surprise, I' not immune at all...just normal DNA. I guess part of the reason I'm still negative has to be a combination of; 100% top, cut and 2 long term relationships (8 and 10 years). Another reason might be that I don't seek out guys who like to bareback. I generally seek guys 95% who state they play safe only and then enjoy converting them to bareback. I'd say I'm 75% successful in getting them to drop the idea in the US and nearly 100% successful outside the Western world.

[PumaParTyBeasT]

My first time having sex was bare. After a bit I started trying condoms, but I found that I hated them. So, I decided to stop using them. Also, I loved watching guys take it bare in the porn I watched. It's always so much hotter.

[evilqueerpig]

I can't answer the poll.....NEVER had a condom on/in me......and NEVER will

[barefckrsc]

I became poz in Oct of 2002. I found other poz guys in gay.com chatroom and met a guy online who talked about bb sex. He convinced me to go for it and a month or so later I hooked up with a poz bottom and fucked him bare. I loved it so much, I never looked back. No pull outs and not comdoms.

[loadme68]

It was a combination of bareback videos that I found very exciting and taboo. And then I discovered the online world of blogs and forums like this one that helped me embrace what I knew I wanted all along. I converted to bareback only just over a year ago and have not looked back. I hated condoms. Like other bottoms they tended to make sex uncomfortable for me. I don't have that problem bareback. I'm glad there are forums like this rawTOP.