What factors got you to start barebacking?

[schvenn]

During the first few years I had sex, condoms just weren't in the picture...I grew up enjoying bareback fucking, even though I didn't call it that at the time. When it dawned on me that there was a safe way and an unsafe way to fuck, I just followed my instincts and my experience and decided never to fuck or be fucked with a condom. And to this day, I can proudly say I've never fucked any other way than BARE!

[DivertirMe]

One of fish out of water moments again... the first few times I barebacked was with a trick and they were an anomaly. My normal mode was safer sex pretty consistently... say 99% of the time. The real change came when I met the man who was to be my lover for nearly three years. We'd had something of an internet romance while both of us were on study abroad program in Japan-he in Tokyo, me up north in Hokkaido. The evening we met we fell into bed together and were fucking within minutes of getting to his tiny flat in Kawasaki-shi. When we came up for air we were drenched in sweat, he was crying slightly with his full weight upon my body, and we both realized around the same time that he didn't put on a condom and his load was inside me. So we had a chat after the fact. We were both Neg and decided that we could continue as we had for the remainder of my visit. At that point I was just planning to crash with him for 2 weeks before returning to university in LA. The two week fling turned into a nearly three year relationship, so for that entire time we had sex bareback.

After getting used to bare sex with my bf I found it hard to go back entirely to condoms. I continued to have safe sex with tricks, but the moment I had something regular going with a guy and trusted him I'd see if he was into raw sex. So for many years after my first relationship and before becoming poz I tried to have one reliable fuck buddy to fuck bare with and everyone else I'd only do safe. Of course I preferred barebacking, so I'd always try to arrange something with my buddy knowing I could have his bare cock and load in my ass... getting fucked by a trick wearing a rubber was a distance second choice.

[ivantitin]

I fooled around when I was 11 with a friend,didn't know much about condoms till in high school. I have taken it bare every time but once when I was 26 and didn't like it. I had to go out and find someone again because of it

[AgentColby]

I lost my virginity at 15 and it was with a guy who I was seeing, who was in his 40s. He fucked me raw and at the time, I did not know any better. I never had "the talk" with my parents and I went to a catholic school so the "talk" consisted of birds and bees and waiting until marriage. I knew condoms existed and should be used to protect oneself but that is all I knew. I did ask my guy if we can use condoms and I remember he got annoyed with me and said he doesn't want to. That was the end of the discussion and I never bought it up again.

The guy and I saw each other until I left for college at 18. In college, I did not hook up much b/c I went to school in small town America and people talk. The very few times I hooked up, I did not enjoy the rubbers. One instant led to an allergic reaction. While in college, I was dating a 50 year old man and we fucked raw the first time and did so until the relationship ended.

I then moved to NYC and I hook up here and there, sometimes raw, sometimes with rubbers. I NEVER really enjoyed the rubber sex. I then started dating a man for 2 years and we only fucked raw. After we broke up, I just stopped using condoms. Once you start, you honestly can not stop. I have been fucking raw exclusively for 7-8 years now

[AgentColby]

I'm sorta disappointed... Only 16% of you were influenced by blogs and forums... Too bad... ..

Funny you make that point b/c forums actually have actually made me question my decision to BB and at one point I stopped BB'ing and hooking up all together. I find many BB forums to be ridiculous. With the many crazy topics about drugs and bug chasing, I have never taken the forums or the people there seriously. I strongly believe that many of the members are full of shit, embellishing stories or out right making stuff up.

When I made the decision to exclusively BB, I stopped going to forums b/c I think many casted a negative light on guys who do BB and do so without any influence of drugs or need to "chase". Other than the love for raw sex, I felt I had nothing in common with any of the members so I stopped going. The more I read the forums, the more I found myself questioning why I BB so I just stopped going to them.

[Jimmy1212]

I've never liked condoms--always too tight or took away too much sensitivity--so I've never used them with either sex. Besides, it just doesn't feel like I've had sex unless I've dumped a load inside someone.

[Guest Deviant_Angel]

My first sex buddies never even really considered using condoms, cuz growing up in a small town and being very young, STDs didn't seem like any sort of worry. Moving to the city for college, I had my first couple of LTRs and again seemed pointless to use condoms. Then started hooking up with guys and tried to be "safe" but after doing bb for so long it was really disappointing every time I'd have sex with condoms and was never the sex I really wanted to have. My bf felt the same way so we decided to ditch the condoms all together.

[Topper]

The feel of my hard cock inside a warm hole is what got me started. Another plus is being able to shoot a hol load deep inside his ass then watch it drip out and feed it back to him. And of course if he is willing to clean off my dirty cock with his mouth I might give him a load in his mouth too

[subboy81]

for me it was mostly curiousity, my first time bb i couldnt believe i let it happen and the second time i couldnt wait to repeat it 

[chubbybear]

For me it was the combination of watching BB porn and an ex-BF who wanted to fuck me BB. Once I finally let my ex do me raw and blow his load in my ass I was hooked for life.

[Guest btchbyl]

my first time was with a group of friends that shot their loads up my ass. we were in puberty and didnt use rubbers because boys cant get pregnant. when i started doing anonymous sex it was easy to stealth my ass because i never checked to see if they still had the rubbers on. after that it was the usual just let me stick the head in bare or let me fuck you without a rubber for a little while. the jizz always went in my ass in the end so it was pointless to use rubbers. i liked the feeling of jizz up my ass from the first time i got fucked so i really preferred no rubbers and no pull outs at the end. not that a top would pull out of my ass before shooting his wad even if i wanted him to. barebacking is something i always did because i like the feeling of a bare hard dick and sperm in my butt.

[bberik]

I grew up in a time that going in raw was the norm. Got the scare when AIDS happened, so I went top only, but started taking loads again a few years ago. 

 

When I came around to being bottom again, porn probably had some influence. Condoms on the screen just turned out to be boring and turn-off, and I started wanting to be filled with cum more and more, until I actually let it happen. A few beers in a darkroom and I couldn't refuse someone entering me from behind.

Edited July 12, 2016 by bberik

[bbinbpark]

Mostly better sex life.  My first BB experience was a bottom sitting on my cock bare, was not expecting that and I shot almost right away.  Normally when I fucked I had to cum by jacking, never shot in a condom.  It planted the seed but it was a few years before it happened again.  I always figured as long as I topped BB was not a big deal.

 

Getting fucked, I had a bud that wanted me to go BB fucking me and one day I finally let him.  Didn't take long for me to be a BB ho, but the first few years found it hard to find find BB guys.  

[cumslut23]

Better sex life and the forbidden fruit

[rawcumhole4u]

I've always barebacked since the first cock I took. Didn't have someone ask for a condom till I got to college, but I tried it and said never again. Been total bareback since.