What factors got you to start barebacking?

[ulsterpoz]

I only used condoms for a while...early on a fuckbud asked if he could fuck me raw. I wasn't sure but I let him anyway. It felt so much hotter that I rarely ever used a condom again & I certainly never suggested to anyone that we should. Ive wanted the guys cum in me every time since. It was late on that I discovered there were others guys as cum hungry as I and guys that are happy to give.

[neg4bbpoz]

my first time was with my boyfriend at the time. i always made him wear a condom but one night we really got into it before he started to look for one. i was so worked up and wanted him to fuck me so bad that i let him do it without a condom. he pushed his cock in as far as he could and said he was cumming. i was pissed at first but after i calmed down i got really turned on. when he told me that he just got a new pack of condoms that morning but he just wanted to breed my ass i got so turned on that i practically raped him. he bread my ass 3 times that night. i haven't used a condom since.

[Bttm2go]

I was a safer sex nut and I would hook up with a guy about once a month and he kept slowly pushing the limit. And then one night I got so into taking him that I did not notice that ha had taken the latex off. It was the best fuck I had up to then. I asked him what he did and he showed me his cum slimed cock. I reached back to my hole and felt his load leaking out. i liked it so much, I had him fuck me again for another load. I have never allowed another covered cock in my hole. That's how I went raw. Thanks Luke for showing me the way.

[Tailgunner]

Barebacking was the norm when I came out in the early '70's so I never used a condom when I fucked anyone. Leaving my cum in someone or a cocksucker swallowing it was a nice part of my pleasure.

My lover and I went monogamous in '79 so all our sex was barebacking.

[canail]

I'm latex reactive, I I had few choices to begin with. There just wasn't an ass around worth going through what latex does to me.

[hungtopinky]

I just like skin on skin, being able to use a hungry bottom's hole. It feels incredible, and I discovered early on that I like to cum in a hot hole multiple times. Condoms just aren't for me, so I only go for guys who like seed and raw.

[GermanFucker]

Regular fuckbuddies. Once you know each other going bareback is just logical and natural.

And living in a somewhat smaller university town - without all the clubs and bars a city like NY has to offer - during my late teens and twentys you kinda rely on a network of fuckbuddies. Sure, there are internet hookup sites, but with many guys flakes and / or too far away, you often call a buddy if you want to get real.

Blogs and forums never played a role for me. IMHO they are an intellectual exercise - good for jacking off, but they won't really influence one's behaviour. Take forums for example: Everyone creates a persona, which has something to do with the real person behind the PC, but varies from a sex-oriented presentation (which doesn't really capture one's whole personality) and / or mild exaggeration to cyberwanking fakes. Realistically at least 90% who claim online that they want to be pozzed will chicken out in reality. So everyone takes blogs and forums with a grain of salt. Everyone knows chats and forums are a game which you can turn into reality if you really want to - or you can walk away at any point: no harm, no foul.

IMHO what does influence one's choices are real encounters most of the time, as they bypass our intellectual reasoning and let us react on a more instinctual level. When it comes to barebacking they usually fall into three categories:

Physical attraction: Most guys will forget the condom if it's the only chance to be with a total hottie.

Conformity: If you know that all your friends bareback, why should you be the only one to play safe?

Familiarity: The more you know a person, the more you trust his judgement.

So even when one jacks off to bareback bloggers, it takes a real-life trigger to act on it.

[LBRaw]

Mostly the need to have a better, more interesting/exciting sex life.

I'd been trapped in the safe mode for most all of my adult life. After close to 30 years of the vanilla routine I managed to get my opportunity to change directions. I was hanging out at Midtowne and hooked-up with an older Hispanic guy. He was persistent about getting together and I wasn't very cooperative at first. I finally relented and went with him to his room. He introduced me to poppers and soon after I got my first bareback fucking from him. I was dazed and horny and filled with his cum. The sensations from the poppers and his cock in me were all I needed to get addicted to bareback.

[totalasspig]

Let's see, getting fucked raw at 10 years old from a 15 year old, then at 12 from a 26 year old...Never looked back..

[bearbandit]

Looking back, I probably seroconverted in 1980, though I didn't test until 1987, which of course was positive. Of the three long term relationships I've had since then, two of them were always bareback in the belief that the first infection is the catastrophic one. The third partner dies about five years ago: he'd tested negative when we first met and we both assumed he'd picked it up along the way, as it were. Before we knew he was poz, we were both fucking with the same guy, also poz, partner used condoms, I didn't. Then came high dose ritonavir and a lengthy chemical castration... Just as I was recovering from that, my partner got sick. I nursed him and after he died I stayed away from sex until I felt I could meet guys without trailing a load of baggage behind me.

Why BB now? Well, although the early drugs kept me alive, I also got diabetes as a side effect and useful as it is, viagra does make it more difficult to cum. Skewed as my meds are (salvage therapy), I'm still maintaining an undetectable viral load, so you're more dangerous to me than I am to you. And at the end of the day I want either to feel your cum dribbling out of my well fucked arse or to feel my cum (or whoever else's) over my balls when my dick is still up your arse...

[porkboy101]

While Ihave used a condom a few times here and there over the years, i've really enjoyed taking a raw cock up my hole since i was 18 in the late '80s. Most guys never came in me since having a cum in me was not the deisred goal. I enjoy the feel of skin on skin to having to have a condom on. In my late 20's I started taking cum up the ass and really just enjoyed it. For me, its the only way.

[Willingbottom]

Well this will show my age but I have had very few condoms up my ass. I started getting fucked way before the HIV/Aids situation. I hated the feel of that damn latex the few times that it has been used on me. I took my first load back in the 60's as a young teenager and have never stopped. Now I don't get screwed several times a week, but get enough to keep my ass limber and ready. Back some years I was a gross slut/pig. Was at a three day party with 27 other guys and had them all over the weekend and some of them 2 or 3 times. Anymore a condom is a deal breaker, at my age screw the virus and enjoy the closeness of skin on skin. Just to set the record straight I had my first m2m sex at about 9 y/0 and loved it. Also at that age I was shaving 2 or 3 times a week. I developed very very early. Didn't however get dicked until about 11 and he pulled out so missed a few loads, dammit.

Edited December 23, 2011 by Hotload84

[Bicycledude]

While I selected most of the things in the list, what really got me started was a hot guy who introduced me to the pleasures of weed and poppers for fucking and wanted to do me bare. It was so good and intense that I decided that bare was the only way to go!

[GapeAmbitions]

I went to hook up with a couple, turns out they wanted to bareback and I chickened out. However it planted a seed, I started to want bare cock. One night I was with another couple and they were playing with my hole, rubbing their cocks along my crack, and I just backed up onto one of their dicks, and that was that.

[lpoolcumdump]

When I was 12 growing up in Ireland I had no access to condoms, by the time I was 17 and could get then I was hooked on the raw fucks, tried a condom twice and I didn't enjoy it, they irritated my hole so I went back o raw only, and stayed that way