Question about body modifications

[Pup4poz]

I see lots of conversations regarding body modifications. I really want to have some modifications done myself, some minor some major...

My question is what do you all think is hot, what's not, where do you draw the line at going to far.

I am a submissive bottom, what do any of think a good sub bottom should or should not do as far as mods, if you "owned" me what would you do???

Im very open-minded would live to hear all ideas thoughts, details or just in general

 

THANKS

[Ranger Rick]

Imho,  I find extreme facial mods off-putting. The subcutaneous horns, gigantic nose holes. Gross. What's really hot is contrast. A gun who looks innocent and normal until you get his clothes off and see his tats and piercings. That's fucking hot. And also makes it more intimate. As in, "I don't show the world what a freak I am. Just you."

[Leather69]

Some good ink looks good on a hot body... piercings..nips, thick pa and guishe.

Also agree with ranger rick re the extreme facial piercings..

[Guest takingdeepanal]

13 hours ago, Ranger Rick said:

Imho,  I find extreme facial mods off-putting. The subcutaneous horns, gigantic nose holes. Gross. What's really hot is contrast. A gun who looks innocent and normal until you get his clothes off and see his tats and piercings. That's fucking hot. And also makes it more intimate. As in, "I don't show the world what a freak I am. Just you."

Agree. Less is more. Makes me more horny and more desperate for Top cock when I can't see anything until it's too late to resist.

22 minutes ago, Leather69 said:

Some good ink looks good on a hot body... piercings..nips, thick pa and guishe.

Also agree with ranger rick re the extreme facial piercings..

Thick PA feels SO good when it hits my wall. Always wondered how it would feel being fucked hard by a guy with piercings running down his shaft. Yummm!!!!!!!!!!!!

[rawsatyr]

In my 'safe sex days' (not too long ago) I read that a dick-piercing (for a top) could be hazardous especially when it is still 'new' (whatever that means... maybe less than a year old)... well, I had just gotten myself a PA (did it myself) in addition to the pierced nipples. Most guys chickened out when I wanted to top them! Oh and personally I always had a thing for guys with heavy, dangling, bigger-gauge ear-rings and guiches. To me moderate 'modifications are the 'markings of the urban sports-fucker', a look not everybody would dare to pull off...

But EXTREME MODS are another thing: there comes a level of 'diminishing returns' ON THE MEAT MARKET I would think when guys become obsessed with too many extreme bod-mods, i.e. facial piercings, extreme shit I have seen with cheeks and noses pierced with huge 'tunnels'. I guess those looks are meant to SHOCK not excite or arouse.

When I joined the bareback-poz team, I was thrilled that in the first bunch of guys I played with, right off the bat TWO had huge Prince Alberts and getting fucked by them was like an E-ticket at Disneyland.

As far as 'MODIFIED' goes, I like guys with rugged, leathery, CUT cocks... who rut my hole for maximum skin-on-skin traction. And that big PA hitting the sweet spot and looking at pierced nipples, ears and a few cool tats (like a bio-hazard is my big fantasy) is plenty a thrill. All the forbidden things or 'signs-of-danger' are kinda hot! 

[Guest takingdeepanal]

4 minutes ago, rawsatyr said:

In my 'safe sex days' (not too long ago) I read that a dick-piercing (for a top) could be hazardous especially when it is still 'new' (whatever that means... maybe less than a year old)... well, I had just gotten myself a PA (did it myself) in addition to the pierced nipples. Most guys chickened out when I wanted to top them! Oh and personally I always had a thing for guys with heavy, dangling, bigger-gauge ear-rings and guiches. To me moderate 'modifications are the 'markings of the urban sports-fucker', a look not everybody would dare to pull off...

But EXTREME MODS are another thing: there comes a level of 'diminishing returns' ON THE MEAT MARKET I would think when guys become obsessed with too many extreme bod-mods, i.e. facial piercings, extreme shit I have seen with cheeks and noses pierced with huge 'tunnels'. I guess those looks are meant to SHOCK not excite or arouse.

When I joined the bareback-poz team, I was thrilled that in the first bunch of guys I played with, right off the bat TWO had huge Prince Alberts and getting fucked by them was like an E-ticket at Disneyland.

As far as 'MODIFIED' goes, I like guys with rugged, leathery, CUT cocks... who rut my hole for maximum skin-on-skin traction. And that big PA hitting the sweet spot and looking at pierced nipples, ears and a few cool tats (like a bio-hazard is my big fantasy) is plenty a thrill. All the forbidden things or 'signs-of-danger' are kinda hot! 

CUT cocks definitely do it for me. More of a "pop" and extreme width change when they push inside me. Facial piercings actually put me off - and you REALLY have to have a death wish if you get your face tunnelled into. Never been bred by a bio-hazard tattooed guy - but I REALLY wish I was (I'm on PrEP, so I say: "bring it on - and make me your bitch") - neither have I ever seen a tattoo like this in Australia. Maybe I'm looking in all the wrong places!

[ErosWired]

Pup4poz - You’re thinking about having body mods done, and the thing to remember is that it’s your body. You may be a submissive, but the mods you choose should be ones that you choose because they please you, not someone else. You need to be happy with what you see in the mirror, because no two other people may have the same opinion of what is attractive.

I suggest you start small, and start discrete. Get a nice guiche piercing to start - a great little secret that reminds you it’s there all the time, and one that every Top who fucks you can’t miss seeing. Or a PA or nipple piercings. Once you’ve lived with a mod for a while, then you’ll have a sense whether you’re ready for another, or that was an itch you scratched.

Remember that every mod you make, like a tattoo, is a statement about who you are. I’ve had an ampallang in my cockhead (see my album) for years - I chose it partly because in its country of origin an amp signifies a man who looks after a family. Make sure your mods say about you whatever you want people to know about who you really are. Make them a reflection of your inner self we can’t see.

That’s hot.

[rawsatyr]

As to AMPALLANG: wow, thanks eroswired for that feedback of what it 'potentially' (or symbolically) means in the country/culture of origin. I find those piercings extremely sexy but I wondered how much it brings your 'rough trade value' up on the male meat market? I recall reading something about tribal cultures, in S.E.Asia I think it was, where 'young guys emulate the seasoned, ampallang-pierced warriors' who are being prized as MOST SATISFYING by the females in that world. Without a hardcore AMPALLANG piercing apparently your unpierced dick appeals as much (or more, appeals as LITTLE)  as 'plane-Jane uncut' dick does to some of us who prefer the PLOP of the always-bare, rugged knob of a cut cock.

Seeing how skittish (and afraid) a lot of gay bottoms are about a less-exotic MODIFIED Prince Albert piercing, I suppose an ampallang would freak them out even more. On a related note: I used to associate with former bar-tender and PLAYGIRL model Andre Herbert in his 'vanilla' days in West Hollywood. Later he entered porn and became known as hardcore inked and pierced COLIN WEST. He now sports a brutally-erotic ampallang as his trademark-jaded look in all his pics. I wonder if that rugged stainless-steel bar straight through his bare knob gets him more tricks or if it runs off the gay 'spring-chickens' frightened at the site of their own shadows? I wonder if a (moderately-hardcore, as an ampallang on a cut cock is) with all the possible hardcore modifications  is intended to weed out the boring/generic sex-partners and attract a 'select few'? I wonder if an ampallang might be seen as a sign as a dude being more passive (champ cum-dumpster)  or as a top a signal of being a hardcore aggressor? 

Share from your own experiences EROSWIRED!!! 

[ErosWired]

@rawsatyr - I don't know that I can answer what having an ampallang signals to other men this side of Borneo, for certain. I can tell you this, though: Guys will not fucking leave my cock alone if I have it out on show. Talk about your conversation starter - ! The first time I ever appeared nude in public in a room full of men, it was at a nudists' gathering in Louisville (who knew, right?) and I was shy as hell. Well - no need. Guys would just come right up, grab me by the cock and start examining my piercing like it was a piece of modern sculpture on the table. In the bathhouse, same thing - it's like a license to grope for the bolder ones, and an easy ice-breaker for the rest, and they always say the same thing:

"Damn, dude, did that hurt?"

*sigh*

What do they expect me to say? Of course getting a steel rod inserted through your cockhead hurts. Are they actually asking how 'hardcore' I am and did I pick the most painful possible piercing so I could grin through the agony and beat my chest afterward about how much pain doesn't bother me at all?

Guess what - having my nipples pierced hurt waythefuckinghell worse, to the point that I nearly passed out when they did it.

As a total bottom, the Amp could be a liability to be if it signals that I'm a hardcore aggressor. I'm totally, utterly not. At the bathhouse, sometimes I'll wear a jock even though I prefer to be naked, or I'll wear my fullmetal-steel chastity device to hide the Amp so they'll quit focusing on my cock and put eyes where I want them - on my ass.

If I'm in my room at the bathhouse, or on the bed ass-up in a hotel, I usually leave coverings off and keep my cock pointed down where Tops can examine and play with it if they wish. More often than not, I feel a hand reach down and explore the head and the piercing, and sometimes a tongue will try it out as an appetizer, especially if the guy's going to spend any time eating my ass. If it suggests that I'm a 'champ cum-dumpster', then I'll be glad to hear that, and I'll make sure to keep it on display more often.

For anyone thinking of getting one, though, think before you pierce: Unlike a PA, which can heal in a matter of weeks, an Ampallang can take 1-2 years to fully heal. It's a long-term commitment. Mine took about a year and four months before I could say it had completely healed up, and even now after nearly 12 years, I can't leave it out for more than, say, half an hour without fear of it beginning to close up again. It doesn't come out for anyone but a surgeon. One of the positives of it is that it doesn't perforate the urethra, so you don't spray everywhere when you pee, as you would with a PA or an Apadravya.

I have fucked guys with it in, but I've fucked so few people, and I don't recall any of them commenting on how it felt in them specifically - sorry I can't report on that.

I hope seeing my Amp has never run anybody off from approaching me. If any of you ever see it on me out in the wild, take it as an invitation.

[Leather69]

Yep Eros, the Ampallang takes a long time to heal.. my piercer tried to talk me in to getting one rather than the pa that I got. Her assistant said I made a wise choice when she went out of the room to take a urgent phone call.. he had one and showed it to me, said that it bled for 24 hours, was very painful and he hadn't had any sex for 12 months (he was a top).

Peeing with a pa can have some problems..