Cockblockers

[Treehugger]

I am curious to hear from other bottoms who might be experiencing this problem or even from tops who are guilty of doing it. Lately it seems I have experienced a lot of cockblocking at the bathhouse and it irritates the hell out of me. Are guys completely ignorant that they are doing it or do they not care? I know some tops have the attitude that bottoms are there for their pleasure and what they do to get off is their business and the bottom just has to deal. I have to wonder how many tops feel that way.

     When I climb into a sling, drape myself over a bench or simply bend over in a dark room I feel the message is pretty clear. I want cock in my hole. I don't want to be fingered or blown. A hand job is nice as long as it is accompanied by some raw breeding.  I have a decent cock, about 7 inches hard and that tends to attract more attention than I want. That is why I tend to prefer a bench over a sling. Many times I get in a sling only to have a cocksucker hogging my dick, not fucking me and in essence cockblocking. Dude! Have a lick and move on if you are not going fuck me. Even worse are the finger fuckers. They use up all the lube and most of the time don't end up fucking me. What is up with that? I find it rude and a tease.

     As for ass eaters...depends. I love a guy with stubble easing my ass. It feels great, not what I really want though. I don't like it when they lick out all the lube and then try to fuck me. But if I have been bred a couple of times and there is plenty of natural lube to go around then I am happy let a rimmer have a go. Just don't set up camp, I am in it for the loads.

     I am a very patient bottom. I realize there are plenty of guys who would like to fuck me but take a while to get it up. I let guys finger my ass, eat me out, suck my dick, make out (I love a good kisser and am very happy to lock lips to get your dick hard) whatever it takes but a lot of these guys out stay their welcome. If it's twenty minutes later and it's still not happening, take a break, get a pop, watch some porn but please move over so I have a chance to get some dick before the night is over.

 

[drscorpio]

I think you identified the problem with the fingerers and rimmers, they were trying to get hard enough to fuck but didn’t get there. I have learned you just have to keep a little bottle of lube with you to reapply after these guys. 

Sometimes, I also think these guys are other bottoms. They think it is hot how slutty you are being offering yourself for all takers. They are turned on by you, and they want some kind of interaction. So they do something other than fuck you. 

[Treehugger]

6 hours ago, drscorpio said:

I think you identified the problem with the fingerers and rimmers, they were trying to get hard enough to fuck but didn’t get there. I have learned you just have to keep a little bottle of lube with you to reapply after these guys. 

Sometimes, I also think these guys are other bottoms. They think it is hot how slutty you are being offering yourself for all takers. They are turned on by you, and they want some kind of interaction. So they do something other than fuck you. 

Good advice. I need to rig up a little lube bottle on a necklace so I can keep it with me and still have my hands free. I do like to interact with other bottoms. I really love making out with another bottom while we are both getting fucked.

[rawloadstaken]

One of the most annoying cockblocks I ever dealt with was when I was in a sling at a bathhouse.

I had one top start pounding me with a couple of guys lined up after him, and then he pulled out and started making out with the next guy in line. He wouldn't even move enough for anyone else to get close to me, and he was braced against the sling with his back against my legs and I couldn't get up.

[ChainedBoy]

15 hours ago, Treehugger said:

I am curious to hear from other bottoms who might be experiencing this problem or even from tops who are guilty of doing it. Lately it seems I have experienced a lot of cockblocking at the bathhouse and it irritates the hell out of me. Are guys completely ignorant that they are doing it or do they not care? I know some tops have the attitude that bottoms are there for their pleasure and what they do to get off is their business and the bottom just has to deal. I have to wonder how many tops feel that way.

     When I climb into a sling, drape myself over a bench or simply bend over in a dark room I feel the message is pretty clear. I want cock in my hole. I don't want to be fingered or blown. A hand job is nice as long as it is accompanied by some raw breeding.  I have a decent cock, about 7 inches hard and that tends to attract more attention than I want. That is why I tend to prefer a bench over a sling. Many times I get in a sling only to have a cocksucker hogging my dick...

 

I can speak to this...

I too have a bigger than average cock and have started to wear a jock when I'm up in a public sling.

It SUBSTANTIALLY  reduces the chances of guys looking to play with my cock.

[Treehugger]

7 hours ago, rawloadstaken said:

One of the most annoying cockblocks I ever dealt with was when I was in a sling at a bathhouse.

I had one top start pounding me with a couple of guys lined up after him, and then he pulled out and started making out with the next guy in line. He wouldn't even move enough for anyone else to get close to me, and he was braced against the sling with his back against my legs and I couldn't get up.

That's the worst! Especially when you know you would be guaranteed some dick if the cockblocker would just move a few inches. That is a time when you need a pushy top to shove the cockblocker out of the way. Calling all tops, do your duty and help out a needy bottom.

[ErosWired]

My ampallang is a magnet for cockblockers - at the bathhouse they will. not. leave. my. cock. alone. if they can see it. So i’ve taken to wearing my solid steel chastity cage most of the time.

It doesn’t stop the finger-fuckers, though. I’ve never been injured by a cock, but I get injured by finger-fuckers all the time, sometimes making subsequent fucking painful. It’s got to the point that I’m considering a ‘no fingers’ policy.

This last trip, I was surprised by a mouth that slammed onto my hole out of nowhere like a projectile and started eating me out with vigor. Then, as suddenly as it began, it stopped.

”I’m a bottom,” the guy said, “But I just had to eat one ass.”

Then he was gone, having completely un-lubed me in seconds.