Arranging a hotel cumdump party on BBRTS

[PopperMeUp79]

Normally when I travel I go onto the apps, chat, and pick up a few guys as they cum long. But we all know how time consuming and flakey that process can be. I’ve seen some guys posting party ads on BBRTS for hotel cumdumping. Have you had any luck with this?  IF so, what tips do you have for setting up a successful cumdump party?  I’m really just looking for guys to come in, fuck, cum and go.  

[anoncumbttm]

ive done this three times. 

the first time , a top guy was whoring my hole out for anon loads. maybe 7 or 8 dudes showed. but not all at the same time. just one on one and wait for the next. 

the next time i whored out myself, and i got less than that. 

ive had more success at a sex club tbh. 

[hookupnva]

I’ve gone this route and have had some success. Usually about 25% of the guys will show up but it’s hard to plan for that number exactly. You never want too few but on the flip side you don’t want too many at the same time either. It’s hard to keep up with everyone once you get past a certain number. I usually have a trusted bud or buds with me to ensure everything stays cool and nothing negative happens. 

A better approach is to start with a small number and see who shows. After a certain time head to the either the local bathhouse or sex club and finish up there. 

[FistDynasty]

I was in Dallas recently, stayed in my hotel on Saturday night and just hosted tops to come fuck me. I got 7 guys that night. All 1 on 1, but i wanted it that way. It will be hard if you want a line of guys lining up to fuck you cock after cock.

Thinking about doing it this weekend again

Edited September 27, 2019 by FistDynasty

[phukhole]

Have had luck and have had total busts.  I've found that usually less than half show up.  Many guys like the idea of a no loads refused bottom, but then chicken out when it cums to actually fucking one.  A co-host/conspirator helps cause they can work the door and usher people out/in. They can restock the lube and get you water, etc to keep you in position for maximum cock.  They can also post updates on the apps.  A load count seems to bring the pigs out.  Make sure you know the area. The wrong location can keep tops away. Also know what else is going on in town - if there's a big sex party, you're not likely to get as big a crowd.  The only time an open door ad ALWAYS works for me is at MAL or IML when you have a host hotel scenario, but then you have to deal with competition and the hundreds of other ads!

[Guest RawCunt]

Numerous times, especially when traveling.   Seem to have much greater success away from my home city.    My last couple of trips to Sydney have worked out better than expected.  One occassion I had a guy who came back numerous times,  and took me to beats, clubs and some small parties over the next few days.  And the trip prior to that I had a guy who kept returning with other guys over the following days.

[Guest CuriousDallas]

I’ve gone to them, set them up for another guy/guys, and been on the receiving end of them. I wouldn’t try it solo...you need someone to handle the door and make sure things don’t get out of hand. BBRT seems to work the best for setting this up but it’s no guarantee of success. Picking the right hotel is critical, it needs to have ample free parking, little to no security to scare people off (nothing like you have to have a card to get into the building or elevator). Make sure the hotel is close to the gay part of town and not in some scuzzy neighborhood. You also want to list it well enough in advance to draw guys and keep sending them reminders in the lead up. When I did that I’d send pics and vids of whoever the bottom was gonna be to get the guys worked up and ready and to prove the guy was real. Make sure to have lots of bottled water for the people there too.

Typically fewer than half the guys will show, maybe even less. Prepare to be disappointed. Guys will show up drunk and high too...be prepare for that. Some guys can get more aggressive than you want or expect, be prepared for that. That’s why it’s best to have someone running the door...make sure they have mace or something else just in case and don’t even think of doing it alone. You have to completely trust the guy running the door too. I did it once solo without a guy running the door and wound up getting raped by a group of Latino guys that showed up. Considering the mixed results I’ve had it’s just easier to go to a sex club or bathhouse as another poster commented. I know guys like the scene of a hotel gang fuck like this but it’s not like the pornos make it look to be. It can be fun, as I experienced at Southern Decadance in NOLA, but then again you had a huge group of gay guys in a small area so it’s easier to do. Avoid competition too...like when it was Otter Weekend here in Dallas or Texas Bear Roundup. Or Pride for that matter. I’ll arrange something like this if a bud wants it but I’m probably not gonna be the bottom again. I’ll definitely go to one if the bottom is young and hot.

[PopperMeUp79]

Thanks guys. All helpful info!!

[Truversebb]

If I were up to no good this type of scene is where someone is the most vulnerable. Robbery or looking just to harm someone for harms sake. I would think having a trusted person there to manage the door and to keep me safe would be needed! 

[LetsPOZBreed]

I'd agree with the thread here.  I've attended these as a "top" and there was always a guy keeping an eye on things.  If I did this (and I hope I do), I'd prefer the same thing - this can go awry quickly if not careful.

Also, my buddy would need to be someone trustworthy.  I've been hit up by guys that are into setting up bottoms, but something just seems off about them.

[ErosWired]

I regularly host door-open at hotels, and always have my QuickConnect ad up on BBRTS as well as Grindr and other apps while I do it. I don’t try to set up a “party” as such, knowing full well that attendance would be a fraction of those who might respond, but I do pretty well just the way I go about it.

 I don’t, however, ever have another guy tending the door - I never have. I’ve never had any trouble or any kind of incident other than one time when some young guy saw my hotel door slightly ajar and opened it to find me with my ass in the air with a dildo stretching it for fucking... and he bolted. He came back a couple of times to knock on the door and then run off, but that was that.

 I realize I make myself vulnerable when I do it. I’m not an idiot; I take precautions, I keep my head clear, I bring nothing of value, have means of self-defense at hand and I am not helpless - but I also know that there is always the possibility of being overpowered and have no choice but to endure what happens.

The question I have is, how often do these things actually happen? How frequently does one run into a real-life situation such as @CuriousDallas‘ in which a rape gang barges in? How often is one actually confronted by a stranger who has decided to come find you simply because he wants to hurt you? How many men here have a true tale to tell of an encounter like this that went pear-shaped?

The cautions are well taken, but I’d also like to have a sense of how real the danger is.

[LetsPOZBreed]

It's more than just leaving just yourself vulnerable.  You're also putting the other attendees at risk as well, and that's not what they signed up for.  Having a sexual assault (or worse) happen to you is one one time too many.  To each their own, but realise that it's also about considering more than just yourself here. 

Edited October 10, 2019 by LetsPOZBreed

[ErosWired]

2 hours ago, LetsPOZBreed said:

It's more than just leaving just yourself vulnerable.  You're also putting the other attendees at risk as well, and that's not what they signed up for.  Having a sexual assault (or worse) happen to you is one one time too many.  To each their own, but realise that it's also about considering more than just yourself here. 

I’m not quite sure I follow you here... are you saying that every guy who signs on to attend a cumdump party does so with the expectation that there will be security for the event? While I don’t argue that it’s a good idea, I question how universally it’s practiced - not every cumdump knows a handy wingman, and frankly, asking another guy to do all that work so that he can get fucked is a pretty big ask.

Like I said, I don’t use the “party” feature as such, in part because I also serve Men who for whatever reason wish to remain discreet or anonymous. Having another guy at the door is a pretty sure way of making certain those anon guys don’t come forward.

When you come right down to it, we’re talking about guys making a decision to go fuck a stranger along with a group of other strangers in an unfamiliar place. They’ve already assumed a suitcase full of risk just by deciding to participate.

[BadInBrooklyn]

Interesting discussion.  I've done the ass in the air hotel thing a couple times.  Always be myself tho'.  It would be nice to have someone else around for security, plus I'm really into group scenes, but my personal experience has been that having another person(s) around scares a lot of guys off. Even when I'm looking for a cumdump to top I usually have to wait for the first guy to leave before I can get sloppy seconds. 

[Spunkinmyarse]

I think this is the main difference between a “party” and an “open-door” hosting session.  The former implies that there will be several guys present at once, whereas the latter implies that it’s going to be more a series of one-to-ones over a period of time.  Of course there will be some overlap, and it’s always possible (and maybe desirable for some, at least) that guys will run into each other at an open-door session, creating a party-like event.

The point is, each situation will attract its own set of tops.  Those that enjoy group play will favour the party, whereas those who prefer one-to-one will go for the open-door session.  Some will do both.