I need a new app

[Guest Grinder]

What's a good app for the over 50 crowd and those that like us? I feel like Grindr and Scruff are for younger guys. There's a zillion profiles that say no "old men"

I tried Daddyhunt last summer but the nearest guys were always 45 or so miles away.

Can anyone recommend a good cruising app for older guys?

Thanks

[bbpigbtm]

Yes - i need info too!

[Daddyph]

Ditto ! An app where older men can be bottom/submissive without the guff from younger guys saying you’re too old to sub.  I know there are a lot of younger guys who like to top and dominate older men. There’s got to be an app !

[bbpigbtm]

I love in country- but here black guys love fucking masc older btms

[Daddyph]

Guess I’m going to have to move to the country !!!

[Sunovabesh]

To be brutally honest, younger guys who wanna dominate/date older men are (from my experience) are more likely on Growlr or Recon (at least that's were I was/am). However, most of the guys I see that are into it seem to be more on message boards with "bara" porn. 

[blackrobe]

8 hours ago, bbpigbtm said:

I love in country- but here black guys love fucking masc older btms

And that zip code was... ? 

[manseeker]

Try silver daddy 

[Guest Grinder]

15 hours ago, Daddyph said:

Ditto ! An app where older men can be bottom/submissive without the guff from younger guys saying you’re too old to sub.  I know there are a lot of younger guys who like to top and dominate older men. There’s got to be an app !

I'm not looking to be bottom and submissive. I am a top and I like to dominate. So an app for older Daddy Tops would be more like it.

Without this generous bullshit either!

Edited January 17, 2020 by Grinder

[ErosWired]

6 hours ago, Grinder said:

Without this generous bullshit either!

Indeed. I am beyond tired of twentysomethings hitting me up on Grindr when I’m hosting and then asking if I’m ‘generous’ as though I was the one hitting on them. When they ask me now, I just tell them, “I’m only generous with my ass, but you can have as much of that as you want.”

The irony is that one or two of them have gotten pissed at that and called me a whore.

[BestCatcher]

23 minutes ago, ErosWired said:

Indeed. I am beyond tired of twentysomethings hitting me up on Grindr when I’m hosting and then asking if I’m ‘generous’ as though I was the one hitting on them. When they ask me now, I just tell them, “I’m only generous with my ass, but you can have as much of that as you want.”

The irony is that one or two of them have gotten pissed at that and called me a whore.

Whore? Is that a bad thing? 😜

[Guest Grinder]

10 hours ago, ErosWired said:

Indeed. I am beyond tired of twentysomethings hitting me up on Grindr when I’m hosting and then asking if I’m ‘generous’ as though I was the one hitting on them. When they ask me now, I just tell them, “I’m only generous with my ass, but you can have as much of that as you want.”

The irony is that one or two of them have gotten pissed at that and called me a whore.

I usually tell them that I am seeking generous too, so it's a wash. 

The reaction is usually priceless.

When I was younger I respected my elders and pulled my pants down for the Daddy man, These kids don't understand that concept, Such disrespect!

Edited January 18, 2020 by Grinder

[NLbear]

What is Growlr like? If I look at the most recent reviews most of them are 1 star out of 5. Most complaints are about spam, fake (bot) profiles, non-responsive customer service, app crashing etc. so not so keen to install that on my phone. I am "old school" anyway, I prefer a website to start with before I add a sex-related app to my phone.

[Sunovabesh]

8 minutes ago, NLbear said:

What is Growlr like? If I look at the most recent reviews most of them are 1 star out of 5. Most complaints are about spam, fake (bot) profiles, non-responsive customer service, app crashing etc. so not so keen to install that on my phone. I am "old school" anyway, I prefer a website to start with before I add a sex-related app to my phone.

To be brutally honest, I really don't like hook-up apps (this may contradict what I stated before). I really prefer meeting men face to face and just having a good conversation with them, and seeing if it could lead to a date or whatever. However, Growlr at the time I was on (2014) was.... Decent. I just mentioned it because at the time, I met a lot of guys who were like me and wanted an older bear bottom. However, I forgot how very "anti-twink" and toxic it could be. At the time, I was a horny 18/19 year old boy who wanted to breed or be bred by older bears. While there, I met and chat with younger guys in my area who wanted to do the same. However, there was a lot of toxicity towards "twinks," and anything that was "fem." So, I kinda just thought of it, thinking that maybe older "masc" bottoms might get some attention, due to my nostalgia-horned up memories, that maaaaaybe they might have a shot of being accepted due to it seeming to be very "masc bottom" supportive. Then again, looking back on it, you might have better chance with Scruff. 

 

12 hours ago, Grinder said:

I usually tell them that I am seeking generous too, so it's a wash. 

The reaction is usually priceless.

When I was younger I respected my elders and pulled my pants down for the Daddy man, These kids don't understand that concept, Such disrespect!

 

22 hours ago, ErosWired said:

Indeed. I am beyond tired of twentysomethings hitting me up on Grindr when I’m hosting and then asking if I’m ‘generous’ as though I was the one hitting on them. When they ask me now, I just tell them, “I’m only generous with my ass, but you can have as much of that as you want.”

The irony is that one or two of them have gotten pissed at that and called me a whore.

I agree with this. Love to bottom for you(Grinder and ErosWired) by the way (love to top you, too (both)). But, I never appreciate this mentality. Wanting a "generous" Daddy really has a lot of complications to it (Power dynamics, consent, means of emotional value, etc.). Now, I am by no means insulting sex workers, as they in fact work hard and deserve respect. However, just asking for money out of nowhere is just pathetic and ill-advised. I want to date older men, so, maybe my viewpoint might be rather skewed. However, I really don't get much men wanting to date, due to them thinking a younger guy just wanted to date them for money. This leaves lot of older men to feel insecure about themselves and feel like all their worth is what's in their pockets, and not in their hearts or being. No man should ever feel less than the man he is. And it bothers me so that older men feel like all they're worth is just being a wallet, due to the misuse of "Sugar Daddy" culture. 

[SIReast]

would definitely want this app, if available.

Edited January 19, 2020 by SIReast