Decision to be a single slut forever

[BadGayGuy]

Hi guys! I am new to the forum, even though I've been an active barebacker for 2 years, and public cumdump for a year. When I realized that I was born to be a cumdump, I was worrying about how to reconcile it with the relationships I wanted to have. Of course, I was thinking about open relationships or stuff like that. But with time, I realized two things. First, I cannot get horny for the same guy more than 2-3 times, I simply don't want it. I just like to get fucked by a new guy every day. Secondly, being in a relationship means that we are supposed to spend decent amount of time with our partners. And being horny and hungry cumdump, I realize that it would be time-wasting: I am much more willing to spend this time to get loaded by as many unknown guys as possible. So in the end of the day, I've made a decision to be a single slut forever and fulfil my calling in life. Are there any guys here who also rejected the very idea of a relationship to get more fucks and be more promiscuous? Are you satisfied with such a decision? 🙂 Thank you!

[1000GUYS]

love the idea

[ErosWired]

If you don’t mind my asking, you say you were trying to reconcile this with the types of relationships you wanted to have, which suggests that you were thinking in terms of relationships that provided for other needs besides sex - have you decided that you’re just going to abandon those ideas and leave those needs unmet?

Do you mean that you have decided to spend all your non-work time searching for sexual contacts as a cumdump? What about friendships? Do you think you will feel isolated? Will you have anyone to lean on in hard times?

I ask these things because I have no relationships or prospects of relationships, and don’t intend to look for any, but I have found that after you’ve been in service for a while and taken cock after cock after cock over and over and over, a kind of loneliness begins to settle in over you when you stop whoring for that session. The room you’re in or the street you’re on seems very empty and you’re by yourself there, especially if you watch others leaving with their friends or partners.

 I think there’s a real danger of sexual addiction when following the path you’re talking about, and I would encourage you to google it and see whether you think you might fit the profile before you decide for sure that that’s the future you want.

 In a way, the coronavirus pandemic has been a blessing for me because it’s made me pause and consider what I’ve been doing - had the epidemic not happened, I would have hosted at least four-five times and whored myself at three CumUnion parties during the time that’s passed, maybe 70-80 acts of intercourse, and the more I’m fucked, the more urgently I feel the need and duty to be fucked, and the more risk I’m likely to take to find the cocks willing to fuck me.

You know as well as I do where this ends - in some utterly degraded condition, begging for cock and cum from the lowest dregs of human society, willing to do absolutely any vile thing just to feel the warmth of a cock in your hole for a minute or two - exactly like a drug...

Be careful before you launch your boat into that current.

[MuscledHorse]

being a promiscuous male is the most freeing decision you will ever make. It is natural and healthy to want and need different sex partners. You can have both the slut life and relationship, you just have to learn how to balance the two and find a guy who is a slut like you and encourages your promiscuous behavior. The guy i've been dating for the last 9 months has even done camera on some of my porn shoots because he loves seeing me getting used. We have been to sex clubs and events at sex resorts together and he has watched guy after guy stuff my hole with cock and fist and milk my own fat phallus. We are emotionally committed to each other and the sex doesn't phase us because we know it's about the physical pleasure with other males. It is really great when you can have a relationship where the Jealousy factor doesn't exist.

[Luvbbslut]

You don't have to be single forever, some men out there might just want a relationship with a guy like you. I take pleasure in whoring out my partners. And they can get dicks on their own too.

[Ozpig]

On 7/2/2020 at 7:48 PM, Luvbbslut said:

You don't have to be single forever, some men out there might just want a relationship with a guy like you. I take pleasure in whoring out my partners. And they can get dicks on their own too.

My ex really got off on whoring me out, totally organising my sex life, watching and viding when I was getting bred by others and he loved to "ride the silk trail" and fuck me after a group of guys had bred me. Mind you I loved it too as he understood my need to be a slut, my need for cock and seed. It worked very well for 13.5 years.

[FunCheerSlut]

Here is yet another reason why I am very fond of this community. This is well thought out and concisely articulated through the various responses. *group hug*

Is this an either or situation where you "have" to choose one at the exclusion of the other - OR - is this a polarity which could be managed, and a balance that can be achieved? @ErosWired so clearly describes the "lows" we may be tempted to over-look or shrug-off. One might want to mitigate for those conditions in approaching it as a polarity to manage type scenario.

I apologize if I am not making any sense. I want to express how much I truly appreciate all of you guys and for sharing your personal experiences and perspective.

My desire to be a "cumdump" (if I have to label it) (which has the potential be full-time as ErosWired describes; I mean I could find myself easily ending up there just out of tunnel vision for a need to have and please every hard cock that I can persuade to slide into me bare and compliment me with his orgasm and jizzzm) conflicts with my relationship making the actual process of navigating these desires tricky. Especially when you do not have the "supportive" or "encouraging" partner in your corner cheering you on.

All of this to say, it's not easy. It's not straight forward, neither situation is very likely to just fall into your lap and everything requires some degree of effort. I guess it just depends on your attitude, your priorities, and your desire to find and strike or strive for a balance which helps you manage the polarities and find contentment.

xoxoxo

[Anonversecuck]

At the end of the day, it’s your life so live it how you feel best. 
 

that said, echoing others in here, you can have both a partner and an amazing sex life. 
 

take a look at my wife. She’s a bareback Hotwife that can’t get enough nut inside of her. We’ve been married almost 16 years! I get off on her being a slut and she is indeed a slut. Just gotta find the right partner!

[Close2MyBro]

On 6/21/2020 at 10:40 PM, ErosWired said:

You know as well as I do where this ends - in some utterly degraded condition, begging for cock and cum from the lowest dregs of human society, willing to do absolutely any vile thing just to feel the warmth of a cock in your hole for a minute or two - exactly like a drug...

 

Although I agree with a lot of your post, I can't say that I agree with the quoted section. I think it's possible to be a cumdump and NOT end up in some "utterly degraded condition" and begging for cock and cum. It just depends on how you approach life in general, and the end result you've quoted is what I usually see from people mixing sex and drugs, or using sex and drugs to try to solve their deep-rooted emotional problems. I don't see many non-drug addicts or well adjusted people going down the route you suggested. If you can think about a sexual encounter as a fun and enjoyable exchange of human contact instead of a constant race or competition to try to take every load from every person walking the earth every minute of every day, then that perspective alone should help keep you from ending up in some "utterly degraded condition".

Edited June 19, 2021 by Close2MyBro