Why is the feel of ass seldom described in detail?

[topblkmale]

 

I can't tell you how ass feels but I can describe how good ass feels.

 

[ErosWired]

39 minutes ago, topblkmale said:

 

I can't tell you how ass feels but I can describe how good ass feels.

 

Do you mean that good ass feels a certain way versus bad ass, or just that ass feels really good? In either case, what does it feel like to you? I’ve fucked maybe a total of five asses before I gave it up totally, but I remember that among those five, one felt rubbery, one felt a little like sandpaper, and one felt hollow and empty and a little cold. For a man such as yourself, a connoisseur of ass, I imagine your experience has given you moments you could compare to another sensation.

Tops have said I feel like warm, wet velvet. One said I felt like fucking a cloud. The ass you fuck must feel like something. Do they all feel the good the same way to you? The same amount of good? 

[Guest]

On 8/13/2020 at 5:55 PM, Bokkierob said:

Every ass feels different on my oock. I love going up a new hole for the first time. I enjoy fucking all kinda holes and I adapt my fucking to suit. with some holes I enjoy easing my cock through the outer and inner sphincters, with some I just punch through, specially if they're real tight. my favourite hole is one that's not quite big enough to accommodate my cock so when I get in balls deep his hole grips the full length of my cock, shaft and helmet. its a bonus if he's already been seeded . takes my fucking breath away feeling a man's asshole gripping me and milking my balls dry.

As a bottom, I do Kegel exercises occasionally to keep my hole from becoming a sloppy mess. Keeps my hole just perfect. Tight for daily activities and loose after it's eaten and played with. Get me high, make me hit the poppers and you'll slide right in. But I can squeeze your cock while you're stroking my hole, and when you're close, squeeze your cock and milk your load out of your loaded balls. 

[topblkmale]

11 hours ago, ErosWired said:

Do you mean that good ass feels a certain way versus bad ass, or just that ass feels really good? In either case, what does it feel like to you? I’ve fucked maybe a total of five asses before I gave it up totally, but I remember that among those five, one felt rubbery, one felt a little like sandpaper, and one felt hollow and empty and a little cold. For a man such as yourself, a connoisseur of ass, I imagine your experience has given you moments you could compare to another sensation.

Tops have said I feel like warm, wet velvet. One said I felt like fucking a cloud. The ass you fuck must feel like something. Do they all feel the good the same way to you? The same amount of good? 

 

I mean good ass feels a certain way mostly based upon the experience level of the bottom. Some have mastered their craft to become power bottoms. But those are very few. To me, good ass feels relaxed yet moist and not too warm with the ability to 'milk' my dick.

But generally good ass has some combination of the following:

• deep cleaned
• nice perky ass lips
• loose second hole with a snug (not too tight) first hole
• good anal muscle control
• bouncy ass cheeks with some muscle tone and thick thighs

If you notice, three characteristics relate to muscle. I can quickly tell bottoms who have put in work and those are usually your power bottoms. What makes a good bottom is another topic entirely.

 

[TaKinGDeePanal]

52 minutes ago, topblkmale said:

 

I mean good ass feels a certain way mostly based upon the experience level of the bottom. Some have mastered their craft to become power bottoms. But those are very few. To me, good ass feels relaxed yet moist and not too warm with the ability to 'milk' my dick.

But generally good ass has some combination of the following:

• deep cleaned
• nice perky ass lips
• loose second hole with a snug (not too tight) first hole
• good anal muscle control
• bouncy ass cheeks with some muscle tone and thick thighs

If you notice, three characteristics relate to muscle. I can quickly tell bottoms who have put in work and those are usually your power bottoms. What makes a good bottom is another topic entirely.

 

I'd like to know what your definition of a "power bottom" is - and how it differs from being a "good bottom". Actually, that might make for a good topic.

[ErosWired]

51 minutes ago, topblkmale said:

 

I mean good ass feels a certain way mostly based upon the experience level of the bottom. Some have mastered their craft to become power bottoms. But those are very few. To me, good ass feels relaxed yet moist and not too warm with the ability to 'milk' my dick.

But generally good ass has some combination of the following:

• deep cleaned
• nice perky ass lips
• loose second hole with a snug (not too tight) first hole
• good anal muscle control
• bouncy ass cheeks with some muscle tone and thick thighs

If you notice, three characteristics relate to muscle. I can quickly tell bottoms who have put in work and those are usually your power bottoms. What makes a good bottom is another topic entirely.

 

Like I said, you're obviously a connoisseur.

"not too warm" - Now that's interesting...having mentioned that I recall an ass being a bit cold, it makes me wonder how an ass can be appreciably hotter or colder than 98.6° inside. I could meet all those criteria (possibly aside from the thick thighs, depending on how thick 'thick' is) but I have no idea how I would regulate how hot my cunt is. I can tell you this, though, from having taken a 10" icicle  before - that is not the way.

Note to self: Pack the quick-read meat thermometer on your next hosting trip.

 

[NWUSHorny]

I've never been in an ass that felt cold on my cock, I have been in guys who felt hot inside, mostly if not entirely at fuck venues that had saunas and hot tubs. I've been in holes that were dry and almost sandpaper, and some that were deliciously wet and welcoming. One guy I used to fuck fairly often would make so much natural lube that he thought he was having an accident the 1st couple of times I fucked him. I've been in loose holes tight holes, guys who could milk me with their hole, as well a few guys who clamped down on me like a vice which does not work at all for me.

[hntnhole]

On 1/30/2024 at 1:04 PM, WillingRawVerse said:

But I can squeeze your cock while you're stroking my hole, and when you're close, squeeze your cock and milk your load out of your loaded balls. 

What more can any Cock want or need ??????? 

Where does the line form .....

[hntnhole]

To the OP though, it's not an easy thing to describe.  A raw Hole can evoke such varied mental imagery - and each would be correct.  Add the other senses - sight, taste, smell, tightness / looseness; all most attractive in different ways.

Explaining this would be like trying to write a thesis ..... 

[Guest]

50 minutes ago, hntnhole said:

What more can any Cock want or need ??????? 

Where does the line form .....

Starts right here. I do however like to just relax and take my pounding. Feels good to be just used.

[hntnhole]

hmmmmm .... Maryland ...... how about  when it's a bit warmer ... 

[ffabbian]

I've been fucked by tops that just need a hole to dump their loads in and i don't expect  them or want them to tell me how my ass feels. It's not about the connection.

Every top  that  i do have a connection with describe in great detail how it looks and feels. Love it when they compare my hole with the holes of other bottoms. It's hot knowing that they talk about my hole with other tops. Even hotter with new tops messaging me saying that  he's heard about my hole and what  he's heard about is what he wants.

A current regular top took a photo of my puffy,  swollen asslips and made it into a poster that's framed and hanging up on his living room wall.

 

 

[Norcalfukkr]

I have had my cock in a lot of different asses and I would say the sensation is always different depending on the bottom I’m breeding.  I’ve experienced a range of tight to loose, shallow to deep, smooth as butter, dry as sandpaper. I love velvet smooth deep and tight hole the best. Feels so good as my precum lives that tight hole and makes it even more slick and silky. 

[hntnhole]

First, I hope our friend ErosWired is doing well.  I always enjoyed his writing.

Revisiting his post "Why is the feel of ass seldom described in detail?" ... 

I'd say that it's such a pleasurable sensation that words simply fail to convey how fantastic raw Hole feels.  We can try to describe it, but .... you just have to experience a hot, hungry Hole for yourself. 

Then you'll understand.  

[BB4fking]

I wish more tops would tell me specifically how they perceive my asshole when they’re fucking me as when they do it gives me a real buzz that is better than the encouragement I get from an ‘oh, yes’, ‘fuck that’s good’ or whatever. I don’t know why it’s good to hear it but know I’ve liked hearing it’s warm, tight or, yesterday, that it’s smooth.

Sometimes, I’ll squeeze on the inward thrust and am not always sure how the top perceives or appreciates this if they don’t say - years ago I assumed guys would like it until a guy with an especially large cock told me to stop as it was making me too tight (having a thick cock myself I came better to understand this in later years). So I sometimes ask tops whether they like this but often don’t hear what they reply if they reply at all, as they’re often in a kind of focused trance.

when I top I know I perceive guys’ holes differently. But I think it has to do as much with my own mood and hardness. I’ve become a little wary of telling bottoms after a bad experience with one fuck buddy when I messaged him to postpone a hookup as I would not be hard enough for his tight hole as I’d just come. The message was meant kindly, and I know of other guys being pleased to be told their hole is tight, but he described me as treating his body like a piece of meat. I admit my communication skills in email often come over as a bit cold but I was really upset that I had caused such offence at such a description (standing him up also annoyed him, but that was why I was messaging him in advance, but in the end I think I realised I had been a bit of a jerk).