Soft when fucked

[pupHawaii]

On 2/11/2021 at 6:16 AM, catcherinneed said:

I’m always soft when bottoming. More than a mindset, it’s just how my body works. I consider myself a true bottom, the type that loves letting my top know there’s only one (active) dick in bed, and it’s his. Fuck me as much/as long as he needs/wants, and cum as much as he’s physically able to, balls deep in me. My cock doesn’t really matter at the moment as I can finish myself later if I need more stimulation, but if he’s worried about me not enjoying it, then just look at how wet from dipping precum I can sometimes be.

Still want me hard? It’ll happen on its own, when it’s not feeling pressured to perform (I thought I was the bottom?), and whatever my current mindset gets turned on by the most at the time. Chances are that, by this point, I’ve already emptied myself quite a bit by way of dripping.

 

FUCK YEAH!   well said - i'm much the same!  when i get excited blood floods my ass and makes it more sensative - not my dick!

 

[dodger38]

rarely stay hard when I'm fucked. Sometimes if the top keeps stroking me while he's fucking me I will stay hard and even cum.  Not a priority though

[LetsPOZBreed]

I'm never hard when I'm getting fucked.  In fact, I purposely try not to get hard at all while I have a guy inside me, purely because any stimulation of my prostate will cause me to ejaculate and tighten back up.  

Personal preference is that I let my guy fuck the living daylights out of me and pump me full of seed (and a second round if he can manage it).  Once he's good and spent, we can make out during his come-down and then I'll get hard.  If he's into it, I'd prefer to cum in his mouth so that we can kiss with it afterwards - ensure no drop is ever wasted.

[Piggyybttmm]

I don't mind or cafe either way....I'm focused on the dick in my ass...not the other one. Plus I normally wear jocks 

[blondy]

As a top, I always appreciate it when I find that the bottom is totally soft/flaccid when being fucked. It means that they are concentrating on pleasing my cock with their hole … I also find that these bottoms tend to cum hands free … another really hot experience for us both 🙂

 

One circumstance when I think its hot that the bottom is hard while I’m fucking him is when he has a tiny/micro penis … I really love that as it means that he’s only ever going to be able to bottom … and therefore knows how to please his top with his ass.

[Guest]

It depends on if they can cum. While it is hot when a bottom blows completely hands free, I do get turned on by a boy jacking hard away while they take it doggy. In my case I like cuming after the bottom has busted his nut, as he can then put all his attention to my cock, and more often than not he’ll tighten up for the final stretch. 

[Guest]

My cock is just shy of 8" when hard. I love to bottom and in fact I am one of the "no loads refused" cumdumps. But I do get hard every time I get fucked. Some tops like it, some don't. I try to use a jock almost all the time to at least hide the hardon. I also go into cabins and get fucked through GH. I like dark rooms as my hardon is not visible (tops can feel it but hopefully by that time they would already be deep in me).  However, if I do poppers and smoke a joint, that will definitely make me soft when fucked. And that's when I  get into the sling and let the room know that I'm open for business LOL

[DarkroomTaker]

I am semi soft I guess, but dont attach any importance to it. Gotta say I can cum being fucked whilst semi too with no hands, girthy cocks tend to do that to me.

[wyobtmbnk]

On 5/10/2021 at 8:33 AM, Gimmiethatload said:

I don't mind or cafe either way....I'm focused on the dick in my ass...not the other one. Plus I normally wear jocks 

Agree with you 100%

[rock-cock-jock]

A bit of a nerdier answer. 

I think it's the initial pain/discomfort of that first penetration. Pain is known to cause immediate peripheral vasoconstriction. So, to counter that, immediate counter-measures could be:

1) to use a pde5 inhibitor like viagra/cialis to maintain bloodflow there

2) minimize pain in the butthole by prior stretching/lube/slow entry.

3) At mild intoxicating levels alcohol triggers vasodilation immediately but at higher levels it vasoconstricts (so don't get too drunk)

4) Poppers is a popular vasodilator that also relaxes the ass muscles thereby reducing chance of pain.However, I've found that depending on the type/formulation, it can make you go soft if you have too much

5) turn up the thermostat. Hotter temperatures favor vasodilation and colder temperatures favor vasoconstriction. Yes, the hotter it is the better your boner is

Or for a more lifestyle approach to more favor peripheral vasodilation in a more prolonged sustainable way, you could try:

6) regular moderate-vigorous exercise effectively boosts peripheral bloodflow and strengthens cardiac muscles

7) see a doctor to treat any blood pressure dysfunction. Blood pressure regulation and vasodilation are competing systems

8 ) cut out stimulants (yes, including coffee). They are vasoconstrictors and also can cause relevant nutrient depletions if used excessively for a prolonged time period

9) maybe you are deficient in a nutrient involved in endothelial function. This list isn't exhaustive but I've included the more common deficiencies, such as: a) choline; which is metabolized to acetylcholine and competes with norepinephrine at adrenergic sites in your cock epithelial cells (acetylcholine vasodilates, norepinephrine vasoconstricts). Norepinephrine can also be induced by stress, anxiety, depression, various drugs. b) nitrates; nitric oxide is the main signalling molecule for vasodilation. Eat veggies or a supplement (eg L-citrulline) for supply, antioxidants to maintain its stability and dont use mouthwash excessively - your oral microbiome is important in the biosynthesis process c) vitamin d (especially in northern latitudes) - deficiency linked to high blood pressure d) magnesium - deficiency linked to high blood pressure

[Cumfilledbottomboi]

On 5/11/2021 at 1:53 AM, blondy said:

As a top, I always appreciate it when I find that the bottom is totally soft/flaccid when being fucked. It means that they are concentrating on pleasing my cock with their hole … I also find that these bottoms tend to cum hands free … another really hot experience for us both 🙂

 

One circumstance when I think its hot that the bottom is hard while I’m fucking him is when he has a tiny/micro penis … I really love that as it means that he’s only ever going to be able to bottom … and therefore knows how to please his top with his ass.

I feel so read!