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Context: I live in a place where bareback culture is popular and PrEP use is common. I do not use prep. I choose to be selective with partners and bareback infrequently to reduce STD transmission risk. It works well. But I don't recommend it for bottoms or anyone who barebacks more than once a month.

I occasionally run into men who are surprised to learn about I'm not on prep while my jizz is dripping out of them. How ridiculous. I specify I'm not on PrEP on hookup apps. And there's plenty of time to ask about PrEP or testing history before I go in. None of these fucks were anon. I even got this reaction from an escort in the past. He should have been more diligent with his work.

I obviously recommend asking about PrEP and testing history before getting naked. But plenty of people here want more spontaneity or anonymity. So at minimum don't be shocked when the stranger breeding your ass isn't on PrEP.

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1 hour ago, verslut said:

Context: I live in a place where bareback culture is popular and PrEP use is common. I do not use prep. I choose to be selective with partners and bareback infrequently to reduce STD transmission risk. It works well. But I don't recommend it for bottoms or anyone who barebacks more than once a month.

Not to be judgmental, but: Why do you reject the option of PrEP? Is it a cost issue, concern about the medication's effects on your body over time, you enjoy running at least some risk with sex, or something else?

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41 minutes ago, BootmanLA said:

Not to be judgmental, but: Why do you reject the option of PrEP? Is it a cost issue, concern about the medication's effects on your body over time, you enjoy running at least some risk with sex, or something else?

I decided not having bareback sex often, occasionally using condoms, and regular testing worked for my needs. The strategy takes a lot of planning and consideration. I acknowledge it only works because nearly all my bareback partners are on PrEP. At the moment I'm transitioning away from bareback so I have no plans to go on PrEP.

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2 hours ago, verslut said:

I decided not having bareback sex often, occasionally using condoms, and regular testing worked for my needs. The strategy takes a lot of planning and consideration. I acknowledge it only works because nearly all my bareback partners are on PrEP. At the moment I'm transitioning away from bareback so I have no plans to go on PrEP.

Thank you for answering the question. Sad that some dickwad decided to downvote my asking what I thought was a respectful question, one which you answered respectfully as well.

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There are many guys that make a big mistake about prep, if the bottom takes prep it doesn't mean tops are automatically protected for HIV as well. if a bottom gets a high viral toxic poz load the HIV cells inside the bottoms ass are contageous for about 24 hours. i know many tops that love to fuck a cum filled ass with so many loads as can, but tops who are not on prep are exposing themselfes to contracting HIV from the infected sperm inside the bottoms ass.

know this risk you take. if u want to stay neg, use prep for your own health

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9 hours ago, Kimberley said:

if a bottom gets a high viral toxic poz load the HIV cells inside the bottoms ass are contageous for about 24 hours.

This is probably how tops who go to saunas and never bottom get infected. The top fucks a cumdump on the public sling with a fresh poz load.

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5 minutes ago, hungry_hole said:

This is probably how tops who go to saunas and never bottom get infected. The top fucks a cumdump on the public sling with a fresh poz load.

Not only in saunas.. most of the guys i date at home ask for a fresh filled cum ass. they can get it but on own risk if u not take prep as a top

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On 4/25/2021 at 5:39 AM, BootmanLA said:

Sad that some dickwad decided to downvote my asking what I thought was a respectful question, one which you answered respectfully as well.

We may have had one or two differences of opinion on this website in the past but I'm with you on this one.
Your question was open, unbiased and inquiring; Nothing in it could possibly offend anyone. This threat also contains no false information that I'm aware off.

 

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Well my daddy specifically asked me to not get on prep he is undetectable boss he said I don't need to use prep since I'm only going to be taking his sperm I'm starting to take the hint that he doesn't want me on prep so I don't go around playing

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12 hours ago, hotguy02 said:

Well my daddy specifically asked me to not get on prep he is undetectable boss he said I don't need to use prep since I'm only going to be taking his sperm I'm starting to take the hint that he doesn't want me on prep so I don't go around playing

Not only that, he's demanding that you trust him that he won't skip doses (deliberately or otherwise) just to knock you up. I'm not saying you should or shouldn't trust him, but it's clear he doesn't trust YOU, and frankly, if you did become poz and then he dumped you, you would be the one responsible for your health. So take responsibility for your health NOW.

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On 10/2/2021 at 7:34 AM, hotguy02 said:

Well my daddy specifically asked me to not get on prep he is undetectable boss he said I don't need to use prep since I'm only going to be taking his sperm I'm starting to take the hint that he doesn't want me on prep so I don't go around playing

Your 'daddy / boss' doesn't have to worry about being infected with HIV as he's already Poz. But you do, buddy.

If he fucks around and you take his loads, I hope you two regularly get tested for STD's.

And I think you need to be honest with yourself about what you want, and what you will do.  If you play bare with anyone (who's not undetectable) either be prepared to be infected with HIV, or protect yourself with PrEP if you bareback.

 

Good luck.

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1 hour ago, BareLover666 said:

Your 'daddy / boss' doesn't have to worry about being infected with HIV as he's already Poz. But you do, buddy.

If he fucks around and you take his loads, I hope you two regularly get tested for STD's.

And I think you need to be honest with yourself about what you want, and what you will do.  If you play bare with anyone (who's not undetectable) either be prepared to be infected with HIV, or protect yourself with PrEP if you bareback.

 

Good luck.

I only play with him  the only  I suck and the only one that comes inside my ass

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5 hours ago, hotguy02 said:

I only play with him  the only  I suck and the only one that comes inside my ass

cool.

be sure you do, and that he is and remains undetectable. 

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