Are some guys just naturally gifted at sucking dick?

[hedonist2018]

I've had more often than not experiences where I've had a guy try to suck me off and it just felt so painful. Too much suction, the teeth makes too much contact, it just takes away the pleasure... not to mention the occasional awkward gagging and messy spit control. It looks pitiful and unenjoyable at all for me and the cocksucker.

Most guys, that have sucked me off the blowjob is mediocre. It often takes me a while to cum and I have to force it to come out. More often than not, I ask him to stop and I'll use my hands to jerk off. 

Then there's the uncommon guys who are just absolutely phenomenal at sucking dick. They suck you off, and it just feels like heaven. Something about the environment of their mouth, maybe it's the different consistency of saliva or just the warm temperature.. then what drives me crazy is when I can feel their breath on my dick accompanied by the different motions of his tongue sampling my dick, the way it hits it, and the way he controls his suction, slurping on it but in a way it just feels so good. I find myself having a hard time holding myself back. He takes my whole shaft in his throat before I give him his creamy reward. 

Strange but the guys who I expect to have probably had a lot of dick sucking practice could be bad at giving bj's or just mediocre at it, but the guys who have not had a lot of dick sucking because they're straight, or bi or DL have been really amazing at it. Idk. Penny for your thoughts, guys? Can a bad cocksucker become a talented cocksucker? Some guys seem to just be so naturally good, and made for sucking dick. I usually take a while to cum, but after tonight, this guy who I didn't think was gonna be so talented, unexpectedly gave me one of the best head I ever had in my life, and now I find myself craving more of it. 

[Bokkierob]

I agree, there’s nothing worse than a bad blowjob. I was taught how to suck cock by the man who broke me in. This is my technique and it works. I get a load in my throat/mouth every time. First get on your knees and be submissive. Gently tease your alpha’s cock and balls with your tongue until he’s fully erect. Look up at him and offer him your mouth, open your mouth wide and accept his cock. Now the most important bit; as he slides into your mouth, keep your teeth well away and use your tongue to press his shaft against the roof of your mouth to give him the friction he needs. Next you must let him go as deep as he wants, train your throat until you can control your gag reflex. Now let him fuck your throat, he will be enjoying the friction provided by your tongue pressing his cock on the roof of your mouth and the back of your throat will stimulate his helmet every time he thrust into you. Next tip, never masturbate - you can cum once your alpha has fed you. As a cocksucker your job is to provide pleasure to your alpha. Using your hands, stroke, massage and grip his balls. Tease his asshole; some alphas like a thumb up their ass when they’re being sucked off - he will guide you. Keep this up no matter how long it takes; your duty is to milk his balls. Trust me, do this and you will be rewarded with a mouth and throat full of sperm. Make sure you swallow it all and not leave any sperm on his shaft. Finally, compliment him on his load and tell him your mouth or ass is available to him any time he needs it. 

[PupLucca]

3 hours ago, Bokkierob said:

I agree, there’s nothing worse than a bad blowjob. I was taught how to suck cock by the man who broke me in. This is my technique and it works. I get a load in my throat/mouth every time. First get on your knees and be submissive. Gently tease your alpha’s cock and balls with your tongue until he’s fully erect. Look up at him and offer him your mouth, open your mouth wide and accept his cock. Now the most important bit; as he slides into your mouth, keep your teeth well away and use your tongue to press his shaft against the roof of your mouth to give him the friction he needs. Next you must let him go as deep as he wants, train your throat until you can control your gag reflex. Now let him fuck your throat, he will be enjoying the friction provided by your tongue pressing his cock on the roof of your mouth and the back of your throat will stimulate his helmet every time he thrust into you. Next tip, never masturbate - you can cum once your alpha has fed you. As a cocksucker your job is to provide pleasure to your alpha. Using your hands, stroke, massage and grip his balls. Tease his asshole; some alphas like a thumb up their ass when they’re being sucked off - he will guide you. Keep this up no matter how long it takes; your duty is to milk his balls. Trust me, do this and you will be rewarded with a mouth and throat full of sperm. Make sure you swallow it all and not leave any sperm on his shaft. Finally, compliment him on his load and tell him your mouth or ass is available to him any time he needs it. 

Sounds to me like they weren’t trained in the fine skills of cocksucking. Luckily, I had a very good teacher when I was 12

[Guest]

the first time i sucked cock i was only 11. a man about 45 i'd guess. it was at the pool club i went to which was a hotel in our small town. it started him inviting to his room (traveling constructuon guy) for free soda. long story short he had all sorts of hot straight and bi porn. it hapoened several times after the first time. he loved spraying hot sperm all over my tanned half thai face. even the very first time he told me i sucked cock real good. he liked that dirty talk and by the 3rd time id say things like "do you like fucking my mouth" or "mmmm your precum tastes good".  after him i went til i was 15 and again he was older. he also said i sucked cock real good. by then all my fantasiz8ng since the first guy (plus pot) broke through and i would say things like "mmmm i love being your cocksucking whore". he wanted to fuck me but i was scared.

[Guest]

I think some are inherently great cocksuckers. And some should just turn over on their stomachs or put their legs up in the air and call it a day.

 

[UpstateNYexplorer]

2 hours ago, CumdumpDad said:

I think some are inherently great cocksuckers. And some should just turn over on their stomachs or put their legs up in the air and call it a day.

 

Couldn't have said it any better.

[fskn]

I agree that some cocksuckers have natural talent and some don't.

I do think bad ones can be trained. In that sense, it's a shame I get so turned on by one-time encounters with new partners, because it takes time for a cocksucker to learn.

In the worst case, grip the cocksucker's skull with one hand, hold their chin in the other, and fuck their throat just the way you like, until you flood it with cum.

The world would be a happier place if all straight women and bottom-leaning gay men were required to pass a free, mandated course in blowjob technique once they turned 18. It really should be a graduation requirement. More and better blowjobs ⇒ less divorce, less crime, less war and conflict, less stress, better health, and longer lives.

[TightBott7]

1 hour ago, fskn said:

I agree that some cocksuckers have natural talent and some don't.

I do think bad ones can be trained. In that sense, it's a shame I get so turned on by one-time encounters with new partners, because it takes time for a cocksucker to learn.

In the worst case, grip the cocksucker's skull with one hand, hold their chin in the other, and fuck their throat just the way you like, until you flood it with cum.

The world would be a happier place if all straight women and bottom-leaning gay men were required to pass a free, mandated course in blowjob technique once they turned 18. It really should be a graduation requirement. More and better blowjobs ⇒ less divorce, less crime, less war and conflict, less stress, better health, and longer lives.

I definitely would have benefited from a mandated blowjob technique course when I was 18. While not for lack of desire, especially with uncut dicks that totally drive me crazy, my cocksucking skills leave much to be desired. In my defense, my throat is sort of at an angle and conducive to deep penetration. Luckily for me, tops select me for breeding my tight ass.

[ErosWired]

Individual oral anatomy is highly variable. Some people have broad, spacious, high-vaulted spaces, while others have narrow, shallow, angular mouths. Teeth can range from modest, well-ordered rows to jagged protrusions that would do credit to a horse, sticking out at angles. Throats can be ample, supple corridors or stiff, constricted pipes. And all of this plumbing tends to be less malleable than ass-flesh, so there’s a limit to how much can be done contrary to its parameters.

For this reason, I tend to think some men are probably better suited for fellatio than others. That’s not to say that others can’t learn good technique, but a man who tops out at 5’2” is never going to have the same edge at basketball as a man standing 6’7”. One should learn his strengths and play to them. That’s why I don’t usually offer up my mouth to a Top as a main course. It’s not that I’m a terrible cocksucker - I just do it better with my ass.

[chargedodger]

Some men are more dedicated to developing skills at fellatrio thats for sure!Practice practice makes perfect.:)

[Eagerindayton]

I honestly believe many are naturally talented. I also belive that a lot of talented cock suckers  are very well versed in how to pleasure men and cocks .  Good cock suckers practice. They read and understand the cock they are blowing  and servicing at that time. They never use hands to help with sucking cock. A true cocksucker uses only its mouth. Hands make it a hand job - not a blow job. I have a few cocksuckers and fags that give me the best blowjobs. They all keep my load in their mouth and show it to me before swallowing  and then cleaning my cock with their mouths. I love and appreciate  their dedication

 

[hotguy02]

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Daddy trained me well.  8.5x5.   I can deep throat him

[N2head]

Well I am not sure it is a skill you are born with, but like all skills some just come more naturally than others.   But this is my comment on the subject.  I often say I'll take attitude over technique any day.  One can learn technique, but if you don't have the right attitude probably not going to do it well. Anything you like to do,, you are going to do it better. Pay attention to the guys non-verbals commands and he will let you know what feels good and what don't.  Great sex is never rushed.  Like a destination, the trip should be as enjoyable as the destination. And with any skills practice makes perfect.  And us guys do like to be practiced upon.   

[Bokkierob]

18 hours ago, PupLucca said:

Sounds to me like they weren’t trained in the fine skills of cocksucking. Luckily, I had a very good teacher when I was 12

I was 14 and my trainer was 38. First he got me to enjoy the sweaty scent of his junk by rubbing his cock and balls over my face. On that same first session he put his cock in my mouth and tight me how to keep my teeth away from his shaft. I sucked him several times without him cumming in my mouth - he said I needed to learn how to suck his cock properly first. He only used third of his cock and never forced me to take more than I could. Finally he said it was time to start my cum training. I sucked him as usual and he told me he was going to cum in my mouth - again, not deep. He shot his load in my mouth and said I could spit it out or swallow it, I spat it out. Again over the next couple of weeks he shot his load in my mouth encouraging me to swallow it. Soon I was eagerly swallowing his seed. I loved the smell of his cock and balls and the taste of his sperm. Now that I was regularly sucking his cock and swallowing his load he said it was time for depth training. He said only when his balls were hard on my chin would I be giving him the perfect blow job. I was eager to please him and a couple of weeks later he was pounding my throat. I remember the animal grunts he’d make as he was pumping his loads down my throat.

[LetsPOZBreed]

I didn't really have a teacher, but I took to it quite easily.  I wouldn't go so far to say I was a natural, though, as I did need to learn to make some improvements over time.  

I think what benefited me in uni was having a guy that regularly let me suck him off to completion.  I had a bit of experience by then, but the fact that he came over so regularly really helped me hone my craft.  It also helped that he was a moaner when he got sucked, too.

My pet peeve when sucking off a guy though is when he takes the back of my head and forces it down.  I like to be in complete control when I suck him, and any of that grabby stuff makes me think I'm not doing a good job on him.  After this much experience, I'd rather let my honed skill speak for itself.