Guest Posted June 17, 2021 Report Posted June 17, 2021 As a total submissive bottom I find tops are hard to find. I have been at the bathhouse in Toronto before and the night i was there, first there not that many people and then I came across a group of bottoms who started to chase me to fuck them. and I ended up playing a top for some bottoms. but had a hard time even getting trying to get hard. those bottoms figured because i had a six inch cock it was the biggest they could find and would have me fuck the. Sadly i did not get any cock for me, i considered that night a wasted night. so I have to say tops are hard to find. and when I do find i do what I am told and they can do whatever they want and desire. I am whatever they want and do whatever they want and desire as well, and no shame. Quote
bbinbpark Posted June 18, 2021 Report Posted June 18, 2021 The struggle is real. When I was a total top, it seemed I could only find tops, when I went vers no one wanted to play, now more bottom and tops are in short supply LOL. A lot of truth in all the various posts my collection: 1 - I think it may be equitable, but it's easier for a bottom to take more than one cock back to back, not as easy for a top to shoot load after load (though it happens). I for one don't like to prep to bottom for one fuck, so I prefer to get at least 2, preferably 3 loads after doing so. My top consumption is therefore >1 2 - I do think there are people that are too picky, including the verse guys. If you're not open to flip, don't advertise as verse. I may not be a model, but I got a decent dick and knowledge on how to use it. 3 - we're all just flaky in general. I re-discovered proper cruising last year, and find that meeting that way has been productive, so if I'm horny and go to a good spot its worthwhile. I wish I was more a social person in the bar environment because I've never had good luck at picking guys up at the bar (again I'm not a model) The apps I can flash my cock and ass, and it's generally expected, a lot of bars not so much. My flakiness is I tend to end up online all the time regardless of whether I'm looking in case 'THE ONE' happens across my profile so there's that too 2 1 Quote
Close2MyBro Posted June 18, 2021 Report Posted June 18, 2021 On 6/16/2021 at 6:32 AM, Littlebill77 said: I expect COVID isolation and so forth has caused such a drought for socialising that this is triggering weirdness ... In my experience, the top/bottom imbalance existed LONG before covid hit 3 Quote
Littlebill77 Posted June 18, 2021 Report Posted June 18, 2021 4 hours ago, Close2MyBro said: In my experience, the top/bottom imbalance existed LONG before covid hit Yeah fair call. prepare for worse-ness? I like being vers but often find I’m topping all night, I like long long fuck sessions so get extra pissed at Bttms seeking to collect loads like Pokemon. I get that it’s a fun goal too, but this instantly throws off the ratio big time, imhe. 1 Quote
LetsPOZBreed Posted June 18, 2021 Report Posted June 18, 2021 4 hours ago, Littlebill77 said: Bttms seeking to collect loads like Pokemon. Can I borrow this line in my real life? This is fucking funny and describes it to a T. 1 Quote
Littlebill77 Posted June 18, 2021 Report Posted June 18, 2021 2 hours ago, LetsPOZBreed said: Can I borrow this line in my real life? This is fucking funny and describes it to a T. Be my guest. Maybe I should add that in a profile somewhere 😉 Quote
Littlebill77 Posted June 19, 2021 Report Posted June 19, 2021 19 hours ago, LetsPOZBreed said: Can I borrow this line in my real life? This is fucking funny and describes it to a T. The flip of this is tops who try all the bottoms, a bit like the Prince looking for cinderala and the perfect fit... 🙄 (guilty as charged, although more like Augustus gloop in the chocolate factory - so many sweets to try.....) 1 Quote
LetsPOZBreed Posted June 19, 2021 Report Posted June 19, 2021 I don't mind tops getting around - there are plenty of bottoms to try out. The frustrating thing is getting them to load me, rather than any of the others. 1 Quote
bbzh Posted June 19, 2021 Report Posted June 19, 2021 On 6/18/2021 at 6:54 AM, bbinbpark said: If you're not open to flip, don't advertise as verse. I felt that. On pretty much all apps, I advertise as bottom. When I want to top, I just go to the bathhouse. If I put versatile on any profile, I'm overrun with requests to top. 1 1 Quote
NWUSHorny Posted June 19, 2021 Report Posted June 19, 2021 On 6/14/2021 at 8:44 AM, blackrobe said: Note to self: Take a long weekend in Portland ASAP as a "top breeder relief tour". I think you are misinterpreting this. There is a lack of guys willing to fuck in any position, not just bottom. 1 Quote
NWUSHorny Posted June 19, 2021 Report Posted June 19, 2021 On 6/18/2021 at 2:51 AM, Littlebill77 said: Yeah fair call. prepare for worse-ness? I like being vers but often find I’m topping all night, I like long long fuck sessions so get extra pissed at Bttms seeking to collect loads like Pokemon. I get that it’s a fun goal too, but this instantly throws off the ratio big time, imhe. I agree, I like to sample, i.e. give and take a few strokes from multiple guys when I'm at the bath or a sex party. I'm all about the fuck, and the only way I can come multiple times at my age is if I'm in a group setting with lots of fucking going on. 1 Quote
NWUSHorny Posted June 19, 2021 Report Posted June 19, 2021 9 hours ago, Littlebill77 said: The flip of this is tops who try all the bottoms, a bit like the Prince looking for cinderala and the perfect fit... 🙄 (guilty as charged, although more like Augustus gloop in the chocolate factory - so many sweets to try.....) If given the opportunity . . . Quote
blackrobe Posted June 19, 2021 Report Posted June 19, 2021 3 hours ago, NWUSHorny said: I think you are misinterpreting this. There is a lack of guys willing to fuck in any position, not just bottom. No, I understood you clearly. I, however, only bottom, so the only men I can provide relief to are men who top. Not being able to solve the whole problem isn't a reason not to solve the part I can. 😉 Quote
Guest Posted June 22, 2021 Report Posted June 22, 2021 I’m a total cumdump bottom that doesn’t top, but I love playing with other cumdump bottoms, especially after a night of mutually collecting loads. Lots of hot options, my favs include 69 felching (eating each other’s cum-filled pussies), scissoring with a double-ended dildo (surprised more bottoms don’t try this, best way for mutual anal orgasms IMO), and mutual fist / foot fucking / worship. Bottoms know best how to satisfy each other’s pussies. Quote
Guest Posted June 23, 2021 Report Posted June 23, 2021 12 hours ago, Sospiro said: I’m a total cumdump bottom that doesn’t top, but I love playing with other cumdump bottoms, especially after a night of mutually collecting loads. Lots of hot options, my favs include 69 felching (eating each other’s cum-filled pussies), scissoring with a double-ended dildo (surprised more bottoms don’t try this, best way for mutual anal orgasms IMO), and mutual fist / foot fucking / worship. Bottoms know best how to satisfy each other’s pussies. Sounds good, i love felching Quote
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