Fucking neighbors?

[Pozme1981]

No it’s private 

[jeff238]

On 6/14/2021 at 11:44 PM, billy said:

A couple of years ago while on grnder, a guy popped up showing him like 50' away.  A big surprise to me considering that I live a in a small, racist, homophobic town. Ended up being the guy next door, of course he was a bottom too. Long story short, we fooled around a couple of times, but the guy did absolutely nothing for me, so I never showed any interest again. But that didn't stop him from bugging the shit out of me for the next 2 years. Thankfully he moved last month.

And today I get a reply from a doublelist add that I always have up.  Guy says he's a bi top and in his late 30's. Also sends a very nice dick pic. First thing I do is google his email address (dunno why for sure, but I do it with most add replies). I get 5 or 6 returns back, all saying he's 2 doors down from my place, along with his name. And it all lines up with the guy that lives there, An ex-preacher/Ex cop who is in his late 50's! Wow!  Not sure what I'm going to do with that. 
To fuck or not fuck....   shit, Who am I kidding, I'm a slut, of course I'll fuck him.

But I got a question.. If I hook up with this guy, do I tell him that I fucked his son a couple of yrs ago? (Actually he fucked me and was quite good, But said he Was only 'gay curious')

I think we are dealing with 3 different people here.

1. The guy next door, who "did nothing for me".

2. The doublelist guy, ex cop, ex preacher.

3. The bi guy that fucked the OP, who was pretty good, and was ex cop's son.

That aside, I would never fuck a cop, ex cop, preacher, ex preacher, if I knew that ahead of time. They are probably ass holes with control issues, but that's just me.

[ErosWired]

8 hours ago, jeff238 said:

I think we are dealing with 3 different people here.

There are three different ‘neighbors’ mentioned in the thread, but we are not actually dealing with this question at all - this is a necro thread started two years ago, and everybody now giving the OP advice on what to do is wasting their time. The train has left the station.

It’s not even as though the advice is particularly useful in a sense of what to do in a similar situation, because the situation described is so specific and unusual.

The OP might, however, consider replying to the thread an informing the group about his ultimate decision at the time, and any result.

Edited May 18, 2023 by ErosWired

[Njn0mc]

If your single a close by neighbor is convenient.  If you married can be a bit awkward and dangerous if you have a dark side your partner don't know about. 

[KylerIsTrash]

This is an old post so not relevant but the principle is worth revisiting. Keep in mind that it’s harder to ghost a neighbor than it is online. Whatever decision you make you need to be prepared to own it. You might have to face it every day.

Edited May 19, 2023 by KylerIsTrash

[topblkmale]

I live in a dense urban area. I make it a point to block flirty neighbors on Grindr and other apps.

 

In fact I once chatted with a guy on a4a for weeks til the he sent me a picture and I realized he lives down the hall. I quickly blocked him.

 

Don't shit where you live!

[muscmtl]

2 hours ago, topblkmale said:

I live in a dense urban area. I make it a point to block flirty neighbors on Grindr and other apps.

 

In fact I once chatted with a guy on a4a for weeks til the he sent me a picture and I realized he lives down the hall. I quickly blocked him.

 

Don't shit where you live!

Actually, with the way you look, you don't have a choice, you need to block everyone around otherwise you d never sleep

[topblkmale]

1 hour ago, muscmtl said:

Actually, with the way you look, you don't have a choice, you need to block everyone around otherwise you d never sleep

The pic is is not me. Its an AI generated porn image I found on Twitter. ☑️

But thanks. 😀

When the Metaverse is up and running I will be virtually moving next door to him. By that time Grindr will be history like AOL chat rooms, Yahoo groups and Craigslist m4m. 😀

[billy]

On 5/14/2023 at 12:18 PM, funpozbottom said:

Personally, I don't think I'd mention it.  Since you said the son "did absolutely nothing for you", I think telling the father about it would just stir up unnecessary baggage.  On the other hand, I definitely would want the father to fuck me so I could compare the two. Hopefully dad is a better fuck that the son. 

The neighbor who "did nothing for me" wasn't the same guy i was talking being the son. The neighbor just happened to live between myself and the father, the son lives about 5 blocks away.

 

And just FYI, I never mentioned to son to the father... And btw the Son was a lot more fun than dad.

[billy]

On 5/18/2023 at 12:20 PM, ErosWired said:

There are three different ‘neighbors’ mentioned in the thread,

Exactly! Thank you EW.

And yes i hooked up with the father, once. He was mainly looking to get a nut and i don't think he cared if it was with male or female.... The son was much more fun to play with, and i never said anything about knowing the son ... He didn't say hardly 5 words anyway so i didn't say much either.  I never heard anything from either one of them since .

 

[Willing]

I know this is the wrong, but thought id share,  it's the only neighbors I messed around with,  I Lived in a 5 trailer,  trailer park once,  had a gf living with me she cheatedon me andi kickedher out, then,  3 out of  the 5 trailers, I was screwing a gal from each of the 3 , one was married,  one was a stripper and one was just a home body that had a abusive bf, so I payed some more attention to that one.she needed it badly 👄, so did the married one. Dang she loved 69s. 

[Willing]

On 5/18/2023 at 7:06 AM, jeff238 said:

I think we are dealing with 3 different people here.

1. The guy next door, who "did nothing for me".

2. The doublelist guy, ex cop, ex preacher.

3. The bi guy that fucked the OP, who was pretty good, and was ex cop's son.

That aside, I would never fuck a cop, ex cop, preacher, ex preacher, if I knew that ahead of time. They are probably ass holes with control issues, but that's just me.

I would love to have sex with a preacher 👄

[Close2MyBro]

I had a similar situation with a dad/son pair that were neighbors to my parents. Was just father and son living in the house, he had divorced many years before. Had an unplanned situation where I saw the dad's dick and made a compliment that lead to him fucking my face. Didn't realize how close him and his son were (they shared their life stories with each other) and the dad told the son about me sucking his dick. A couple of weeks later I was visiting my parents and saw the son in his garage. He called me over and I walked next door and into the garage and he moved over in front of his truck so no one could see from the street and he pulled his shorts down and asked me if I wanted to suck his dick too. I asked him if his dad told him what happened weeks before and he said yes, they share everything. Needless to say, I started sucking both of them regularly, sometimes together, sometimes alone but that went on for about two years when I would go visit my parents until my parents passed away and we sold the house. Only sucked them a few random times after that when I was around the neighborhood.

Edited June 10, 2023 by Close2MyBro