Taking Dick?

[dude8688]

I am mostly bottom but wonder, have I been doing it wrong all this time? I see gay videos where hung dudes go balls deep and think, am I meant to be letting them force their way past my second hole? My ass is small and tight so anything above average pushes right against my inner hole, am I meant to just lie back and let them go through? 

Is it possible to be a top and enjoy sex without passing through the second hole? I feel like I'm often holding the top back from going deeper. 

[drscorpio]

Porn is theatre. It isn't reality. They hide lots of things in porn most importantly how much time the bottom spent warming up before he took that huge cock. 

[dude8688]

14 minutes ago, drscorpio said:

Porn is theatre. It isn't reality. They hide lots of things in porn most importantly how much time the bottom spent warming up before he took that huge cock. 

Oh I'm well aware of that haha. I just wondered was there anything I could be doing better. 

[tallslenderguy]

tEveryones anatomy is a little different, but this is a general picture of the inside of a rectum. There is no "second hole" but we can feel when someone hits curve where the rectum begins and the sigmoid ends. Feels like it's hitting a wall, eh?  i've had a 22 inch dildo/snake inside, so it is quite possible to get way the fuck in there, and i have yet to meet a Top with a 22 inch cock (though the search goes on). It's all very flexible in there though and a Top who knows what they're doing can sorta straighten that curve with their cock. The trick is, when the cock hits the wall, to not withdraw but to slow down at the curve, thus 'opening' the second hole.  It's fucking awesome really... i cannot imagine not taking a Top balls deep. Fuck, i want all of Him in me and imagine most bottoms would concur. 

[NEDenver]

Sort of the key there is, “top who knows what he’s doing.”  I’ve known far more who don’t than do.  

[Bruce999]

You should stretch your hole as once taking giant dick will be easy you can enjoy that special feeling 

[BonusHoleBoyToy]

If you want to be able to take it deep and wide, you’ve gotta train your hole up to it. Practice makes perfect, and most of all, you gotta keep doing it! Whether it’s with toys, live cock, or what. Keep playing with your hole if you truly want to service your tops to the best of your ability ^.~
 

When I first met my hung friend last year, it hurt to take his entire cock. It hurt so bad I came from that once lol. Sometimes intense pain becomes pleasure. He just came over a few weeks ago to fuck the bejeezus out of me and it wasn’t difficult for me to do anymore. He pounded my ass hard and deep while I mumbled faggoty fuck gibberish to my heart’s content! 
 

that said, there are some tops who prefer tight holes and others who like them more loose. Just gotta find the ones who like it tight

[Bimarried001]

I took my first cock when I was 8. It hurt some bad. I’m not sure how big the cock was but I’m guessing he was about 8 or 9 inches. 
He use to go balls deep in me. Not sure if that trained my hole but when I started getting fucked on my own free will I was able to take any size. 
Practice makes perfect. No pain no gain. 

[Devtylor]

I find the best way it to ride his dick for a bit if its really big till you get comfortable with it. Before you know it that dick is ball deep and he's shooting that load deep in. 

I find black dudes quite understanding if you want to start of slow. See, they want you to keep you coming back for more until you're comfortable taking his dick hard and deep.