What turns bttms off on Grindr?

[LetsPOZBreed]

Great to see the other side of this:

- tops who are concerned with "how many loads do you have" and always seems to want me to get more before committing to meeting.  These guys aren't serious and are just looking for fap bait.

- "it takes me a long time to cum":  i.e. they're a boring fuck

- "sometimes I have trouble cumming":  i.e. they are on some prescription medication that makes them horny, but not so much that they are actually interested in fucking.

- "have porn playing in the background":  I'm not able to get hard naturally.

- "any cock pics":  I'm actually looking to bottom, but will decide based on what you're packing.

Also, similar things to the top thread - no pics, blank profiles.

[Close2MyBro]

5 hours ago, LetsPOZBreed said:

- "it takes me a long time to cum":  i.e. they're a boring fuck

- "sometimes I have trouble cumming":  i.e. they are on some prescription medication that makes them horny, but not so much that they are actually interested in fucking.

These are usually meth addicts who haven't come to terms with the fact that they've lost their ability to get hard.

[raw773]

5 hours ago, austin_submale said:

I've had no luck on grindr at all.  Nothing but flakes and scammers.

 

As much as it sucks, I've had plenty of great fucks and loads. I don't know how. It's the worst. But it's a great equalizer.

[Harlemboy81]

I've had really good luck on Grindr, but it does have some drawbacks

- Asking how many loads and/or wanting to wait until I have loads in me already.  I'll usually update my profile If I'm already loaded up.

- Asking for a face pic if we have agreed to an anon scene.

-Trying to suck my dick. I advertise as a TOTAL sub bttm.

-Guys asking if it's ok to use a condom.  I'm very clear in my profile about this.

 

[ErosWired]

Ghosts, flakes, ghosts, flakes, ghosts, flakes, ghosts, flakes, ghosts and flakes. Also ghosts and flakes.

“Sup”

”Pics”

Anyone who says he’s ‘bored’ is instantly written off - if he can’t stimulate himself, there’s nothing I can do for him.

Distance: 5,375 mi. Or anything over 30, really. If there’s no realistic chance of us hooking up, don’t waste my time.

Ghosts and flakes

”I wanna fuck you so bad but I’m not mobile/out of gas. I’ll fuck you so good if  you can give me the money for an Uber/the gas.” No. If you’re whoring your cock at least be honest about it. I don’t provide transportation, I don’t pay for sex, and I’m only generous with my ass.

Taps, when my profile clearly states “DO NOT TAP.” This does serve, however, to weed out the ones who don’t even bother to glance at the profile.

Occasional slut-shaming. I pretty much only get this on Grindr, out of nowhere, insults like “Disgusting”, “Filthy whore”, etc. I assume most of these are jealous bottoms who would be disgusting, filthy whores themselves if they didn’t lack the balls to do it.

Flakes, ghosts

Bottoms wanting to hang out in my hotel room when I’m hosting and eat the loads out of my ass after Tops fuck me. No, you lazy twit, I’m not a buffet. Get your own cock.

Just all the fucking deception and dishonesty. The place reeks with it. When it gets to the point that you can’t believe anything anyone says in a communications medium, that medium has ceased to function for communication.

General uselessness. Last time in Louisville I had over 280 Grindr views in 24 hours. Hookups: 0. That’s utter failure of the app’s primary function.

 

Edited September 23, 2021 by ErosWired

[VersatileBreeder]

On 9/21/2021 at 9:54 AM, raw773 said:

I also don't really like to have to describe how it's gonna go. "Tell me what you'll do when I get in you. Oh yeah? Now tell me what sounds you're going to make for me. Yeah? Tell me about..." While I think this can be really hot, I can pretty well tell this is just somebody jerking off rather than wanting fucked.

Oh man. Once they start with the “let’s talk about all the hot nasty things that we’re never ever going to do because I’m a fake time wasting POS....” 
 

I give them one. Just one. Like if a bottom says “how do you want me when you come in?” I’ll say “face down ass up.” The minute he goes “tell me how you’re gonna start eating my hole,” I immediately shut him down. I tell him they have phone sex operators for this who charge $5/minute... I don’t volunteer this shit for free. Either we’re fucking or... bye.

95% of the time they either block or disappear. The other 5% figure out that I’m here to fuck, not chat and then they make it happen. I have zero tolerance for time wasters.

[VersatileBreeder]

On 9/23/2021 at 7:23 AM, ErosWired said:

Ghosts, flakes, ghosts, flakes, ghosts, flakes, ghosts, flakes, ghosts and flakes. Also ghosts and flakes.

“Sup”

”Pics”

Anyone who says he’s ‘bored’ is instantly written off - if he can’t stimulate himself, there’s nothing I can do for him.

Distance: 5,375 mi. Or anything over 30, really. If there’s no realistic chance of us hooking up, don’t waste my time.

Ghosts and flakes

”I wanna fuck you so bad but I’m not mobile/out of gas. I’ll fuck you so good if  you can give me the money for an Uber/the gas.” No. If you’re whoring your cock at least be honest about it. I don’t provide transportation, I don’t pay for sex, and I’m only generous with my ass.

Taps, when my profile clearly states “DO NOT TAP.” This does serve, however, to weed out the ones who don’t even bother to glance at the profile.

Occasional slut-shaming. I pretty much only get this on Grindr, out of nowhere, insults like “Disgusting”, “Filthy whore”, etc. I assume most of these are jealous bottoms who would be disgusting, filthy whores themselves if they didn’t lack the balls to do it.

Flakes, ghosts

Bottoms wanting to hang out in my hotel room when I’m hosting and eat the loads out of my ass after Tops fuck me. No, you lazy twit, I’m not a buffet. Get your own cock.

Just all the fucking deception and dishonesty. The place reeks with it. When it gets to the point that you can’t believe anything anyone says in a communications medium, that medium has ceased to function for communication.

General uselessness. Last time in Louisville I had over 280 Grindr views in 24 hours. Hookups: 0. That’s utter failure of the app’s primary function.

 

This is probably the most spot on description of Grindr I think I’ve ever read. Pretty much confirms all the reasons why I hardly ever use it. It’s just a cesspool at this point.

[BigPaleBottom]

Apart from the common issues (not reading profile,  not providing a pic, …)?

three things annoy me most

1. Tops asking for a dick photo 

2. Tops wanting it NOW within minutes - nope. I need to clean out. It’s not done in a second. 

3. Tops writing lone on line about the bottom being super clean, super hygienic etc - I am clean. But you still are fucking an arse. There might be accidents. Get over it. 

[BBBxCumDumpster]

On 9/21/2021 at 12:57 PM, Brittain02 said:

I'm a sub bottom and advertised as such. Have zero interest in topping or receiving head.

The one thing that will immediately make me stop chatting/talking or become uninterested is when they're like "Can I see your dick?" "Can I duck you too?" Etc etc etc.

I agree! When a guy asks for a dick pic, it's a no-go for me.  When a guy says "I don't wanna see dick. Ass pix only", that gets my attention. 

[str8mature5]

Ghosts and peole who dissappear!

[SpectreAgent]

“Are you clean”?

 

[anoncumdumpsub]

I rarely reply to people who desribe themselves as versatile. If I get fucked I like to know the top is really into fucking and that he won't try to suck me or flip or do some weird stuff. I'm a total bottom and only crave total tops.