New to this

[Myfirst]

After a long marriage,  my wife passed and I like to know how it feels with a big cock in my ass

[Guest]

Depending on his size,it hurts.A lot.

It feels like you’re being ripped in half.

But once he’s balls deep in your ass and is steadily pumping you  the pain does diminish a little.

Some advice:

Use lots of lube.Too much lube is never enough.When you think you lubed his cock enough,lube it some more.

Grip the sheets and bite the pillow.

[Monorchid]

The first few times it's going to range from uncomfortable to painful to start, depending on size and technique. You have to learn how to get fucked as much as a top has to learn how fuck. Be honest with prospective partners about your experience, and don't let initial discomfort put you off. Poppers, lube and maybe beer will help, and a good top will relax you before 'the main event.' It's all about finding what you like in it - for me, it's as much about the mental stimulation of having a man inside me (or vice-versa) as it is the physical sensation of being filled with cock and the prostate stimulation.

Don't go for someone too big to start, unless you want it to hurt, and don't expect to get it right first time. Good luck, and hope you enjoy your encounters.

[Kimberley]

Use enough lube, it will giving the best comfort to make it easier and less painful. best is to start with a small dick. hope you enjoy it

[StockingsBB]

Use plenty of lube and find a position that allows you to relax your ass muscles. Once relaxed you could encourage the top to fuck you harder. Also don’t forget foreplay. The more cock you suck the better your technique will be. 

[FTLBBversbttm]

Lube, lube and lube.  My first time, the top was regular size, used fingers to open me up some and then slowly entered me.  There was a little discomfort at first.  The slight discomfort then turned into a very pleasurable fuck.  Learn to relax your hole and you will have a great time.  There is a reason why men get fucked in the ass, it feels good!

[hntnhole]

On 11/25/2021 at 12:57 PM, Kimberley said:

Use enough lube, it will giving the best comfort to make it easier and less painful. best is to start with a small dick. hope you enjoy it

I agree with Kimberley:  "big" is best for a lot of experienced bottoms, but for first-timers, start modestly and see where it takes you.  Even after all these years, I still won't let anything truly impressive anywhere near my ass ... you can get seriously injured (i.e. a visit to the emergency room) if you try too much too soon. 

[Oldercumslut]

Beside lube, you can always start with toys.   A 3 sized but plug training kit is a good place to start.  

[Kev1n]

If he's big it will hurt. My first cock wasn't necessarily long but it was thick as hell. The pain was crazy but my dick had never been harder, he also made me cum just from fucking me. Use lots of lube and let him go raw, the condom makes it more uncomfortable

[gingerdaddyG]

All of the above - and prepare well beforehand - learn how to ‘clean out’ thoroughly and play with a dildo or a butt plug so that you’re hole is ready for raw cock.  But take your time, relax and after a few goes you’ll love it and crave it. 

[gamerslut]

Clean out properly and eat healthy.

Practice with a dildo.

Lube. Not just any lube - I've had problems if it's too thick or too sticky. Too much friction. Find something that works for you. Ideal if you can sample at a store.

Be honest and upfront with whoever is going to be topping you.

Take your time.

Bonus points: Get on prep and don't use condoms ☺️

If it hurts too much: know when to stop and regroup.

[CuriousCub89]

On 11/25/2021 at 2:18 AM, TommiBiC18 said:

Depending on his size,it hurts.A lot.

It feels like you’re being ripped in half.

But once he’s balls deep in your ass and is steadily pumping you  the pain does diminish a little.

Some advice:

Use lots of lube.Too much lube is never enough.When you think you lubed his cock enough,lube it some more.

Grip the sheets and bite the pillow.

That’s not how sex is supposed to be, unless you want/like it rough. Find a new top if you’re in that much pain.

[Guest]

36 minutes ago, CuriousCub89 said:

That’s not how sex is supposed to be, unless you want/like it rough. Find a new top if you’re in that much pain.

I’ve gotten used to it.

Now he pounds my ass without mercy.