Compared to when you were new to casual sex, have your standards changed in assessing how attractive a guy is?

[hntnhole]

Somewhat.  I'm more interested in the behavior they're engaged in, as opposed to "hotness".  Sure, I like a hot guy as much as anyone, but hot and frigid/stuck-up/haughty doesn't do me - or any other guy - any good.  I like fucking regular guys.

[VersGuyAnon]

I've always been interested in different types of people anyway, so it has followed that sexually I've been attracted to many different types as well, although overall I used to love the "boy next door" look. My tastes have broadened over the years. These days, to be honest, I'm hitting the sauna darkroom/s, so it could be anyone. When cruising though (in the sauna or elsewhere), lots of different guys appeal and but many won't; there's no hard and fast rule. Natural chemistry and the vibes I get from someone also make a difference. There's a guy who scared me a bit, when I first saw him at the sauna. Ironically he made it clear he was keen to do stuff with me. We've fucked in the sauna twice and anytime I see him again I'll definitely be up for it. 

[Ozpig]

I have only one standard - hard cock. 

[slavetoy4u2use]

My tastes in men has probably broadened some over the years but I think what has changed more is my attitude toward causual sex. When I was younger I felt this need to connect with a guy on common interests, background, life style as well as physical looks even though it was supposed to be just a casual hookup. Now i look at it for what it is, just enjoying the sex in the moment and not thinking beyond that

 Much easier to to find guys with that attitude and as a result have a lot more sex.

Edited August 3, 2022 by slavetoy4u2use

[gangbangsuperstar]

I have always been willing to suck off pretty much anyone and let anyone fuck me bareback and unload their balls into my body but I do admit I have always preferred guys with big cocks. since I started getting fucked before high school and was taking loads from men as a highschool freshman my tastes have definitely broadened. I think taking loads through glory holes, understall in public restrooms, in darkrooms and blindfolded really showed me that all I care about is taking cocks and taking loads. although I have always been into daddies and other fem boys I am more into t-girls, muscle guys and huge guys than before. plus since I have had a couple boyfriends and daddies really into watching ugly guys and old men fuck me I have gotten more into taking loads from men who people think should be below my standards. but the thing is as a take all loads cumdumpster I literally have no standards for who fucks me raw and breeds my hole, and I will literally get down on my knees and suck any males cock and drink his cum. but when it comes to making out I prefer very big manly men or very sex femboys/t-girls.

[Justaholeff]

I used to have high standards, picking play dates and Fuck Buddies as though they were jewels;meant for a life-time. I let a lot of guys slip away because they weren't my type. Now it's Hey, what's up? Show me your dick and lets
get to it! ; IF even that much... the sleazier, more anon, impersonal, promiscuous and forward the fucker is, the better!
I'm into bareback, fisting, pissing, and any kink of that moment during play.

This is on my profile.

[Piggyybttmm]

It hasn't changed much ... Except while used to hookup with transexual tops as well I've seem to become exclusively attracted to hairy bears/daddies

[Guest]

Yes, when I was a teenager, I was very selective, but when I get older (early 20s) I began escorting, so I had the chance to enjoy all kinds of men. Now I'm more into older chubby and stocky men, I still hook up with trans and femboys, but stocky men make me feel sexy, weak, feminine and vulnerable. 

[Luxbrit]

When I first started ( late teens ) I was quite rigid with the type of the guys I wanted and I didn’t really deviate from that.

as I’ve got older and explored and experienced more sexually, I’m much more open now.

although the needs for an attraction is still there I do look for much more I.e common sexual interests and just a general good vibe.

 

 

[Guest]

Definitely. Now when I party, I'm instantly turned on by any guy who is also naked and high as fuck. The sleazier, older, wasted and rougher in looks, the better. 

[hntnhole]

Of course.  When I first started fucking guys, I was 18, and just escaping from an insufferably suffocating religio-cultural upbringing.  Once I got out of that miserable town, I realized there's a whole wide world out there to be experienced (I mean in every sense, not just sexual).  Gradually, I became less and less interested in guys who looked just like me, trained to act just like me, carried the same straitjacketed world-view I was struggling to escape, and found that those that I had been mind-fucked into thinking were "less-than" became the object of my Lusts more and more.  

It didn't take all that long, once the shit had been shrugged off, to move the focus to men who looked nothing at all like me, and ever since I almost deliberately shun guys that look just like me.  It's almost like wanting to avoid any connection at all to the shell I left behind all those years ago.  There are so many beautiful men with thick, rich heads of black hair - and lovely curls of black hair on their bodies, shining black eyes, with some melanin in their skin-tone, none of which I knew before I went away to school. 

To this day, I don't really want to fuck guys that look just like me. I managed to escape that mental/emotional prison, and I'm pleased with that.  I can only hope that so many of my childhood peers managed to escape too.

Maybe that's not fair - but, what is, is.  

[TightBott7]

On 6/10/2022 at 1:33 PM, DannyZ said:

I find attitude and willingness much sexier than looks.  Give me a sub bottom who's into it over a sexy dude who is just going through the motions. 

I have the same approach to tops, love true Alpha tops over looks any day 

[FallenLad]

I'm a lot more focused on a guy's attitude and how he acts, than his looks these days. I've had incredibly hot guys who can barely string a sentence together, flake or can't even fuck. 

Whereas plenty of average or less attractive guys have been funny, turned up when they said and fucked my brains out. 

[VersGuyAnon]

Way back I attracted to a particular type of guy. Over the years my tastes have broadened. I'm still attracted to the original type, but I appreciate different qualities and physical features. When it comes to basic, raw sex, it's comes down to the situation and if I'll get what I want (which includes offering my hole to please others). 

[KindaBasic]

Honestly, I think my standards are a little higher these days. In my younger days, especially when it came to men, I basically took what I could get. Trouble with being closeted at the time and living in an area that was a bit more conservative and smaller.