Tips to embrace being a load whore?

[Guest]

Twenty four gay male here and im just nervous in general about what comes next, but especially given I’m waiting on results for my first ever set of std tests. FYI I first had sex bare and for the first time at all when I was 15. Fingers crossed for neg results. I probably haven’t fucked more than a hundred guys or so but I’m worried I won’t find guys who are down to fuck if I was poz, even if I was undetectable. Im insatiable and condoms don’t fit me and I don’t let a top inside me with a rubber 😕 any advice on how to let it all go and just fuck? I’m not a chaser and have no interest in stealthing although I’ll admit rolling off a condom inside a bottom is a big turn on if they were chill with it. This is my first post here. Thanks!

[viking8x6]

Welcome to the site! Look around a bit (I encourage you to try the search tool!) and you will find topics that address most of your questions here.

[evilalex]

14 hours ago, VerseTwunkBreeder said:

Twenty four gay male here and im just nervous in general about what comes next, but especially given I’m waiting on results for my first ever set of std tests. FYI I first had sex bare and for the first time at all when I was 15. Fingers crossed for neg results. I probably haven’t fucked more than a hundred guys or so but I’m worried I won’t find guys who are down to fuck if I was poz, even if I was undetectable. Im insatiable and condoms don’t fit me and I don’t let a top inside me with a rubber 😕 any advice on how to let it all go and just fuck? I’m not a chaser and have no interest in stealthing although I’ll admit rolling off a condom inside a bottom is a big turn on if they were chill with it. This is my first post here. Thanks!

Are you on PrEP? If you're not getting on it might help you get into anon fucking

[daemien]

37 minutes ago, evilalex said:

Are you on PrEP? If you're not getting on it might help you get into anon fucking

Agreed, it helped me embrace my cumdump tendencies. Now, all I care about is the cock, I love random & anonymous cock, and being rewarded for being a good bottom with a big load. 

[hungry_hole]

On 4/5/2022 at 12:27 AM, VerseTwunkBreeder said:

any advice on how to let it all go and just fuck?

As a 24 yr-old horny guy who wants to take loads, I would suggest you go to saunas because young guys get a lot of attention in saunas as most guys are usually 40+. You can get on a public sling and for sure some horny dude will fuck you and give you his load. The world is full of bottoms but young ones still get lots of attention.

[str8mature5]

10 minutes ago, hungry_hole said:

As a 24 yr-old horny guy who wants to take loads, I would suggest you go to saunas because young guys get a lot of attention in saunas as most guys are usually 40+. You can get on a public sling and for sure some horny dude will fuck you and give you his load. The world is full of bottoms but young ones still get lots of attention.

So true!

[Barebacksletje]

1 hour ago, hungry_hole said:

As a 24 yr-old horny guy who wants to take loads, I would suggest you go to saunas because young guys get a lot of attention in saunas as most guys are usually 40+. You can get on a public sling and for sure some horny dude will fuck you and give you his load. The world is full of bottoms but young ones still get lots of attention.

Thats true. As a young bottom I only needed to put my ass up and tops were fucking one after the other using the cum in my hole as lube. I still get fucked alot. Especially by young tops.

[hungry_hole]

14 minutes ago, Barebacksletje said:

As a young bottom I only needed to put my ass up and tops were fucking one after the other

When I was in my 20's, I used to go to the local sauna and every time a young attendant was on duty he would in between tasks drop by my room, fuck me, quickly breed my hole, and continue working. I used to leave the door of my room open and if I rejected someone it was because there was someone else flying low, and I wanted his cock and cum in my hole. Now I don't get to choose.

 

[BREEDmeRAW]

You need to decide how you want to live and type of work/life you want in the future. Career if being a slut is important to you, would it affect your lifestyle.

You should get on Prep to reduce your chances of getting HIV, but you are still exposed to other STI/STD'S. If you are a CUMDUMP and taking Multiple Loads from Strangers then it will happen. Get your medical care figured out either insurance or county Health Department so you are ready.

If you do become HIV POSITIVE it will not decrease the number of guys who will fuck you. If you want to chase the fantasy of being Poz fucked, there are plenty of guys.

Once guys know you are Poz you will increase the number of guys that Love to BREED your ass.

[Pigforcum]

1 hour ago, BREEDmeRAW said:

You need to decide how you want to live and type of work/life you want in the future. Career if being a slut is important to you, would it affect your lifestyle.

You should get on Prep to reduce your chances of getting HIV, but you are still exposed to other STI/STD'S. If you are a CUMDUMP and taking Multiple Loads from Strangers then it will happen. Get your medical care figured out either insurance or county Health Department so you are ready.

If you do become HIV POSITIVE it will not decrease the number of guys who will fuck you. If you want to chase the fantasy of being Poz fucked, there are plenty of guys.

Once guys know you are Poz you will increase the number of guys that Love to BREED your ass.

That is so hot omg

[alexxxfun]

This is in an old post but I would like to add my input as this is something I have thought a lot about over long time.

 

When I read comments around here, it seems like for many it was really easy or natural to accept bareback life and going for it in no time. Well, it is not my case at all. I struggled with it for many years.

For me barebacking goes far beyond the "it just feels better" reasoning that we often hear and has deep psicological implications that caused me frustration to accept.

 

So one of the ways that I used to give in was to tell myself many lies. I say this in retrospect of course, back in the day they looked like reasonable decisions.

For example I would find reasons to accept bareback cocks from time to time with excuses like: "Ok, only this one and no more for a long while", "Ok, only this time because he is very hung and he says condom streches him too much", "Okay, only this time because I am on holidays and want to celebrate", "Only this time because he is married and does not have many contacts", etc, etc..

What happens when you start allowing exceptions here and there?  That your taste for barebacking slowly but surely keeps increasing every time. It is clear right away that it feels better and with several interactions on your list, you will confirm that the enjoyment is way superior, for many different reasons.

 

But like I said, this took me years. If you would like tips to give in easier  and accelerate the proceess, here some ideas:

 

1.- Only watch BB porn. Reject any imagery with condom and reinforce the association of sex = bare.

2.- Increase the chances of bare situations. Do you go out cruising? Forget the condoms home and use only the ones the tops bring. (If any)

3.- Remove the "only safe" from your profiles in gay applications. If you are shy to display bare likings in it, at least leave it empty. Giving the chance to many bare tops to consider you as possible candidate and tempt you. I was always embarrased of contacting explicit barebackers but I would visit their profiles and lure them to mine. Eventually you will be tempted by men so your type that will make you sucumb.

4.- Use substances to lower your concience levels. I would not suggest that you start using any drug if you are not experienced with them, but if you are already confortable with alcohol, coke, poppers,.. (you name it), be generous on them if you decide to hit cruising bars/saunas, etc... they can highly increase  the chances of your hormones taking control of  the decisions.

Edited August 26, 2022 by alexxxfun

[Tanbbottom]

On 4/5/2022 at 12:27 AM, Guest said:

Twenty four gay male here and im just nervous in general about what comes next, but especially given I’m waiting on results for my first ever set of std tests. FYI I first had sex bare and for the first time at all when I was 15. Fingers crossed for neg results. I probably haven’t fucked more than a hundred guys or so but I’m worried I won’t find guys who are down to fuck if I was poz, even if I was undetectable. Im insatiable and condoms don’t fit me and I don’t let a top inside me with a rubber 😕 any advice on how to let it all go and just fuck? I’m not a chaser and have no interest in stealthing although I’ll admit rolling off a condom inside a bottom is a big turn on if they were chill with it. This is my first post here. Thanks!

I hope you made out OK with your results. 

You clearly are into raw sex, so if not poz already, and still not wanting to chase you need to get on Prep. 

No matter what, other STD's will come your way. Be prepared to accept the treatments and when ready I'm sure you'll get back on the bb horse so to speak. 

Do enjoy your sexual adventures. Lots of guys are willing to fuck my undetectable poz ass. The anonymous tops never even bother to ask. 

[Guest]

How you navigate this is up to you. If you’re not on Prep, get on it. 
 

That being said, you should be a responsible slut by ensuring you get tested regularly. My partner and I frequently hook up, about 1-3x/week, so we are high risk and get tested every 2-3 months. Depending how often you hook up, make sure to find a cadence that works for you. 
 

As for rest, it’s all up to you how you want to proceed. My partner and I have found for us, post pandemic, it’s best that we limit our hookups with guys that we know so we don’t go online as often as we used to. This is especially so now that we are dealing with MPX outbreak. That being said we mostly hook up with a handful of rotating fuck buds & we occasionally attend play parties. Prior to pandemic however we regularly met up with tops, bathhouses, sex vacations, play parties. Depending how much risk you want to take I recommend those routes.

a big advice I would give is not be overly picky. When it comes to tops I’m not overly picky and I have found that best tops I’ve had were a lot of guys I am not necessarily attracted to. If you want loads and good tops, open yourself up to guys who may not necessarily be your type however you should have boundaries. My general policy is I am good to go if top has a decent size cock, height/weight proportionate, and looks hygienic. If all these conditions are met, I’m ready to bottom for him. 

[Almostready]

Sounds like you want to get on prep. 
 

FYI “condoms don’t fit me” is always a bullshit lie. I can stuff my arm into one.