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Is a 50 plus top more desirable than a 50 plus attractive, in-shape bottom?


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Definitely prefer experienced older men.   (30+) top or bottom

Whenever i see a post saying they are "virgin" its a hard pass...  no thanks..  any age "virgin"

There can be exceptions, but its more on the cruising side.  Not hookups from apps, but true cruising at public places or ABS etc.  "Majority of success is just showing up"

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3 hours ago, Muscledadbod said:

Doesn't matter how old and hot you are, everybody is a size queen.

Nope. Maybe it's just me, but a nasty imagination and verbal is much more important to me than dick size. And definitely love t dick at a party!

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I always had a thing for older men.   I'm 38 and my top Daddy is 68.   I've known him for almost 20 yrs. He is the one that took my virginity when I was early in my 20s.   He was the first man I was with.  Since the beginning he said he was raw only and strictly top.  Ever since I submitted to him. I found out the I only liked older gentleman.     He's 8.5x5.  Hung like a horse lol.   So yes older top daddy with big cocks is my weakness

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On 6/27/2022 at 9:07 AM, Muscledadbod said:

Doesn't matter how old and hot you are, everybody is a size queen.

I'll grab an avg/small packaged guy than a big dicked prick.

Also, the age thing seems backwards to me.

I've seen 1-too-many profiles by 50+ who reject anyone my age or older.  So aegism flies both ways.

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Even though I don't have a big cock, for a long time it has intrigued me how many guys have wanted me to fuck them, rather than the other way round. I've had a few semi-regular fuck buddies who have kept asking me back. It seems in my case the old adage is true - it's not what I have, but how I use it. I'll happily continue to breed good bottoms, but in the meantime I'm still determined to get back to being a proper cumdump as well.  

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Older tops have had more time to hone their skill/technique.  Older Tops can be counted on to have learned how to read a Bottom's reactions and sounds to make the fuck a better one.  Young(er) tops tend to be less confident so they hammer away focused on cumming like a porn star.   I'm much more interested in a 50+ Top.

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As a recently turned 50+ top I my experiences have been a bit different.  I do not have a lot of trouble finding s hot bottom (20's thru 30's preferred).  I have been with older and those near my age, but in my area, I have found those encounters to be less than satisfying.  A big pet peeve of mine is that at that age, a guy should have his stuff together (life, job, transportation, etc.) and unfortunately where I live that is seldom the case - such is the disappointment of living in a depressed area.  Most of the bottoms I find are college guys, or once in awhile a good local.  I have had my share of younger guys who were satisfying their daddy complex (which I roll with).  And many of them do comment that they prefer older guys like myself since we do know how to treat and respond to the needs of a bottom.   So, I take that as a compliment that I am very desirable to them and do my very best to not disappoint any bottom that I connect with.  

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1 hour ago, chipygmalion80 said:

I've seen 1-too-many profiles by 50+ who reject anyone my age or older.  So aegism flies both ways.

100% agree.  Anyone I hook up with online needs to be 40+, with a possible exception for a completely anon scene.  But I find most guys over 40 (and especially over 50) are looking for only 20's and early 30's.  

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