Advice on sucking a beautiful cock from a unattractive person.

[Guest]

You mean the cock is attached to a body with a face? I had no idea I agree the most important thing is the cock no matter what kind of shipping container it's attached to

[Fitanoncumswallow]

This is why I prefer understand & gloryholes. All I care about is a hard cock. Not trying to be friends with you, or know what you look like. 

[Guest]

I would never pass up the opportunity to suck a big beautiful cock. I understand the need for some attraction in some instances but in that case I’m to to just focus on and worship that cock. I need to suck a beautiful cock like that.  
in that case though that is all I’m going to do. I need an attraction to  someone to do other things such as kissing body caressing etc.   and really kind of need an attraction to let him fuck me. I’ve always needed that extra feeling towards someone for that. 

[CumdumpAmsterdam]

On 1/1/2023 at 11:04 AM, luisrojas said:

Thank you everybody, I wish I had the reaction feature to acknowlege all the responses, but I've read them all and I'll apply your suggestions. I hope to enjoy more my sex life in 2023, that's my goal! Happy New Year!

Hey @luisrojas! How are you doing? Becoming sluttier already?

Just keep in mind: when you are meant to be a slut it will just happen naturally. Dont worry about it. And when you are not, it is also okey 😉 But then, give yourself some credit for trying and go on with your less-slutty-life 😉 

To give you an idea of my situation: I never had this issue but I naturally needed to adjust to it just like you. Now I have become certain and more relaxed about it. Yes, I see the ugly guy stand in front of me, but when he unbuckles his pants, my knees just melt and I start sucking his cock till it shoots... I just do it. It feels natural and normal to me.

Tell us how you are doing 😉 

[Guest]

I had the same problem in my early cock sucking years.

A guy I met had a beautiful cock but not so much in the face.

i just told him"I'm not into making out with or kissing guys.I just enjoy sucking dick".

We met up a few times a week for about 3 years.Never really saw his face much.

  

 

[Njn0mc]

It does seem the ugly ones fuck the best and have the best cock.

I've played with a few ugly guys I have posted before. One was so ugly I almost turned around and ran. He turned out the have a great cock and was a great top.. Had a good time.. no kissing and I tried not to look at his face ..  yes I'm shallow 

[blackrobe]

Another option is to develop a service mindset. One where giving service is more important and powerful than your perceptions of who is attractive and not.

[PozBearWI]

And along that line, I guess it depends upon whether you wanted a hot fuck or a hot face.  

[hntnhole]

Since this thread is resurfacing, how about something really simple?

Just close your eyes, and mentally re-play one of your favorite porn vids .... easy as pie, and the guy doesn't even have to know either.  

[sub4oralcum]

11 hours ago, blackrobe said:

Another option is to develop a service mindset. One where giving service is more important and powerful than your perceptions of who is attractive and not.

This is the mindset I have. I consider my cocksucking to be a form of community service. I believe it is my duty to meet the needs of as many strangers as I can. Like working a "regular" service job (think Taco Bell or Lowe's), it isn't about me or my level of attraction. It's about servicing everyone who approaches me with the need for head.

Another way to think of it is I'm like a urinal. Instead of receiving piss, I'm there for men to cum in and walk away. That's one reason why I love bookstores. My mouth is the public toilet for LOTS of men to use. 

All that to say this. The only thing that matters is they need head and I need cum. Symbiosis at its finest. 

[luisrojas]

On 8/8/2024 at 5:37 PM, blackrobe said:

Another option is to develop a service mindset. One where giving service is more important and powerful than your perceptions of who is attractive and not.

Good tip, thanks, and thatnks everybody else.

[luisrojas]

On 8/8/2024 at 12:55 AM, CumdumpAmsterdam said:

Hey @luisrojas! How are you doing? Becoming sluttier already?

Just keep in mind: when you are meant to be a slut it will just happen naturally. Dont worry about it. And when you are not, it is also okey 😉 But then, give yourself some credit for trying and go on with your less-slutty-life 😉 

To give you an idea of my situation: I never had this issue but I naturally needed to adjust to it just like you. Now I have become certain and more relaxed about it. Yes, I see the ugly guy stand in front of me, but when he unbuckles his pants, my knees just melt and I start sucking his cock till it shoots... I just do it. It feels natural and normal to me.

Tell us how you are doing 😉 

Hey, I gave a BJ to the unatractive guy I wanted, his cock was so yummy, so that's progress, as for sluttiness, I haven't taken the big step yet out of fear (stds mainly), but I hope to be there soon, need to work on that. Thank you for your words!

[Tallrandy]

Just do your job and focus on the dick. 

[sluttyjimmy]

I frequently like it anonymous and prefer not seeing a guy's face.  One fun way I found to suck a guy off without knowing what he looks like is using a blanket or dark-colored sheet.  For me it originally started with one guy who liked to sit in his sling to get sucked off but did not want me to ever see his face.  He had a sheet that hung down from the top of the sling at his waist.  When I arrived he was in position, sitting in his sling that became a swinging chair.  I could see him naked from the waist down on my side of the sheet but could not see anything north of his waist.  I would sit on a stool between his open legs and his feet dangling and suck him off.  Sometimes he would raise his legs up and scooch down a bit and that was the signal for me to lick his ass until he lowered his legs for me to continue sucking him.  Once I sucked him off, I left while he stayed in position with the top part of his body behind the sheet.  I sucked the guy off close to 50 times and had no idea what he looked like but I would be able to recognize his cock anywhere based on look, taste, and feel.  That always made it super hot for me.

I modified this technique for other guys:  If I went to a guy's place to suck him off, he would leave the door unlocked and I would let myself in with him in another room.  I would find a sheet or blanket on the floor in front of a chair and cover myself with it, leaving about two feet between me and the front of the chair.  Once I was in position on the floor and under the sheet or blanket, the guy would walk in naked and sit down.  He would slowly lift the sheet or blanket up along his legs to his waist or his chest and hold it there.  I would then move myself forward so I was between his legs with his cock in front of my open mouth.   Once I sucked him off and drank his load, the guy would let go so the sheet or blanket fell to his feet, completely covering me again.  The guy would get up and leave the room, which was my signal it was time for me to get up and leave.

Another variation:  One guy I sucked off regularly was a recent college graduate.  When he buzzed me in his front door was unlocked.  When I walked into his apartment he was seated on a hard-back chair about 20 feet directly in front of his front door, wearing his graduation gown.  He had the front of it lifted up from the bottom and held it in front of his face.  He was totally naked except for his athletic socks and sneakers.  I would kneel on the floor between his open legs and start sucking and he would lower his gown over me so I was covered.  Once I sucked him off and drank his load, he would lift the front part of his graduation gown up in front of his face and hold it there until I was out in the hallway and had closed his front door.  To this day if I see a guy at his graduation wearing his gown but I can see his bare legs and shoes I get a raging woody thinking about the hot suck off sessions with the college graduate!