ErosWired Posted July 10, 2023 Report Share Posted July 10, 2023 3 minutes ago, bouncybttm said: after an hour of frottage I’d lost the will to live It took a whole hour? That happens to me in under five minutes. 6 minutes ago, bouncybttm said: I like a cuddle but only with someone I have an emotional connection with, not some guy who’s name I don’t know/won’t remember the next day! Strangers who want to use me like a fleshlight or breed me like livestock - no problem. Strangers who want to cuddle with no emotional connection…deeply unnerving. In such situations I become about as cuddleable as a cactus. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NWUSHorny Posted July 10, 2023 Author Report Share Posted July 10, 2023 1 hour ago, tallslenderguy said: With just cuddling, it seems like perpetual edging without release. Cuddling seems to have become a mandatory activity to list on the hookup apps in Portland, or at least I feel like I'm the only one that doesn't list it. I even happened on a conversation between 2 Hawks employees when I was checking out one night, one of them was like us and disliked cuddling but peer pressure made him feel bad about not loving it. 25 minutes ago, bouncybttm said: and yes, he did cuddle me to sleep which was a bit annoying tbh- don’t get me wrong I like a cuddle but only with someone I have an emotional connection with, not some guy who’s name I don’t know/won’t remember the next day! That one didn’t do oral and I have no intention of finding out if other sides do as I’m not putting myself through that again!! I actually get guys trying to cuddle with me uninvited at the bathhouses, which I suppose is no different than a friendly sex club grope in most cities. Even if you push them a way a significant percentage will still invite you to come home with them and cuddle all night. 15 minutes ago, ErosWired said: Strangers who want to use me like a fleshlight or breed me like livestock - no problem. Strangers who want to cuddle with no emotional connection…deeply unnerving. In such situations I become about as cuddleable as a cactus. I'd rather be the fleshlight, fleshlight user, or either of the livestock than be cuddled, unless someone has a dick inserted in them we don't need to have that much body contact. For the record I don't get frottage either, although some of my earliest gay encounters wanted to do (teenagers just starting to experiment), it does absolutely nothing for me, For whatever reason my experience with cuddlers is that they don't want genital contact of any kind. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bouncybttm Posted July 10, 2023 Report Share Posted July 10, 2023 1 hour ago, ErosWired said: It took a whole hour? That happens to me in under five minutes. Ha! Honestly I was putting up with it thinking we’d move on to something more fun soon… I’m not the sharpest pencil in the case so it took me a while to realise we were at peak sexual activity- or at least one of us was! The other was bored out of his fucking mind!!… in my defence though, that kind of shit had never happened to me before so I was well out of my area of knowledge- treat me like a slut, I know what to do, treat me like an eraser, I’m lost!! 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hntnhole Posted July 10, 2023 Report Share Posted July 10, 2023 On 7/9/2023 at 11:37 AM, NWUSHorny said: I really need to write up some of my exploits from the sexcation I'm on. We'll be waiting .... slicked up messy hands, maybe - but we'll be waiting !!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
onlyraw Posted July 12, 2023 Report Share Posted July 12, 2023 I will say that I love to cuddle….. after a really hot sweaty fuck … cuddle up - lick the sweat off his body … cuddle some more - maybe even nap … and then wake him up by shoving my cock back into his ass then as they say - rinse and repeat 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted July 12, 2023 Report Share Posted July 12, 2023 8 minutes ago, onlyraw said: I will say that I love to cuddle….. after a really hot sweaty fuck … cuddle up - lick the sweat off his body … cuddle some more - maybe even nap … and then wake him up by shoving my cock back into his ass then as they say - rinse and repeat Getting woken up by your fat cock sinking back deep in my boipussy would be the dream Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NWUSHorny Posted July 12, 2023 Author Report Share Posted July 12, 2023 55 minutes ago, onlyraw said: I will say that I love to cuddle….. after a really hot sweaty fuck … cuddle up - lick the sweat off his body … That sounds like my kind of cuddling, I love the taste of fuck sweat, especially fuck sweaty balls. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bouncybttm Posted July 12, 2023 Report Share Posted July 12, 2023 5 hours ago, onlyraw said: I will say that I love to cuddle….. after a really hot sweaty fuck … cuddle up - lick the sweat off his body … cuddle some more - maybe even nap … and then wake him up by shoving my cock back into his ass then as they say - rinse and repeat Very nice! If I’ve taken a man’s seed then for me the connection between us is made so I’d be up for that kind of scenario Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hntnhole Posted July 12, 2023 Report Share Posted July 12, 2023 Sooooo ... I just looked the term "side" up. All it seems to mean is a guy that enjoys a lot of sexual activities with other men, except fucking or getting fucked. Everything else is on the table. How the word "side" has any descriptive correlation to guys fucking (or not) escapes me. Maybe what we used to call "side-saddle" ??? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
norefusal Posted July 12, 2023 Report Share Posted July 12, 2023 (edited) 1 hour ago, hntnhole said: Sooooo ... I just looked the term "side" up. All it seems to mean is a guy that enjoys a lot of sexual activities with other men, except fucking or getting fucked. Everything else is on the table. How the word "side" has any descriptive correlation to guys fucking (or not) escapes me. Maybe what we used to call "side-saddle" ??? i'd assumed it was: top = i fuck (ass) bottom = i get fucked (up the ass) side = no fucking (no anal) Edited July 12, 2023 by norefusal Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NWUSHorny Posted July 12, 2023 Author Report Share Posted July 12, 2023 (edited) Personally I think "none" would have been a better descriptor, most if not all of the apps have the option to list both oral and anal positions, so I don't think that is who they were catering to. I often call them "functionally lesbian", but can see why a lesbian might find that offensive. Edited July 12, 2023 by NWUSHorny 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hntnhole Posted July 13, 2023 Report Share Posted July 13, 2023 3 hours ago, norefusal said: i'd assumed it was And you were correct !!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OzzieCumdumpster Posted July 13, 2023 Report Share Posted July 13, 2023 Yep I knew side as being getting some action with someone on the side, as I fucked my way through the AIDs pandemic in the 80's and 90's. Learn something new everyday. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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