How long do you masterbate for?

[Guest]

When I get horny at night I can edge myself masterbating for two to three hours. Just reading stories, watching pornography, etc. I usually only cum once at the end, but have had days where I’ve done this a few times… mostly when really horny or really stressed as it makes everything feel just fine.

What do other people do? is this patter way out of the norm? 

I’ve also noticed this created some wicked endurance while having sex… I can hold off cumming for a long time. Sometime partners complain I take too long to cum. Whoops. But it feels so good… ☺️

[GFF92]

If I'm in a rush, it can be as short a thirty seconds. Normally, I probably spend about half an hour looking at porn but only maybe ten minutes of that is actually jerking off.

 

If the toys are out and it's a full session.... Then maybe 10 hours. But that's only once every couple months!

[Leather69]

Hi Mikegaymer

Don't feel guilty..it's your partners who need to get their acts together... you obviously enjoy getting fucked.. some tops shoot quickly..the older ones take time..

[Heir2012]

In a rush, I've been able to cum in 5 minutes. I've been able to go for 3-4 hours, edging and holding off. I think I went 7 hours before without cumming. On average, I try to go for 1-2 hours, reading on BZ or other sites or watching porn, but sometimes I get carried away after 30-45 minutes and can't hold back. 

[ErosWired]

I can see someone edging for 1 to 3 hours, but 7? Ten? Seriously? Edging for an entire day? That’s…devotional. That interferes with meals. In my experience there comes a numbing point with penile stimulation at which stimulation is no longer really felt; the nerves are overstimulated, oversaturated. Plus, who among us is able to maintain an erection for ten hours? (With Viagra, if you don’t lose it after four you’re supposed to seek medical attention.)

There’s a way around the numbing and erection issues, which I employ myself - electrostimulation*. It bypasses all the mechanical aspects of masturbation and goes straight to the nerves themselves, sending signals to the brain that can tell it you’re being sexually stimulated in various ways, even if your cock is totally limp and cold. And it can go for ten hours, or 24, or 72, or until you fail to pay your electricity bill because you’ve been gooning out in endless orgasms for over a month.

That’s an exaggeration, but not by much. I’ve induced a continuous rolling orgasm in myself that’s lasted well over five minutes before - and that’s not an exaggeration in the slightest. Think about that for a moment: That intensity you feel at the moment you cum, but five minutes long. Set a timer and see how long five minutes is. It’s eternity when you’re cumming. I had to finally cut it off because I couldn’t take it any more, and seriously thought my heart might fail. The system could stim me below the level of orgasm, or skip from one orgasm to the next at intervals, indefinitely, and I have used it that way at length - but even with such means, when I could theoretically go on and on and on, I have never done so for more than about three hours at a stretch before feeling that I’ve had enough.

 

*WARNING

DO NOT TRY THIS AT HOME. Not unless you know exactly what you are doing, and have the equipment to do it with. I have extensive experience with electro, have trained Dominants in its use (with myself as the subject in case they make mistakes) and have top-of-the-line equipment. Do not attempt it with anything not made especially for the purpose of electrostimulation. Never attempt to attach any electrode above the waist. Injury or death can result.

[wbekk85]

it depends on how much i'm enjoying it, how much hot porn content i access (one site leading me to another, an xvideo vid leading me to other vids, etc.), how good the toys feel in my ass, my energy level, and if i'm having fun and have nothing pressing to do for the rest of the day. i've edged myself for 4 hours before, and when i shot off it was a lot of thin, watery sperm, and my balls and groin ached when i shot off (but the head of my cock felt great). sometimes i masturbate for about an hour, get off, and a few minutes later i'm back at it again for a while. sometimes i can do that three or four times. other days i do it once for about a half hour or 45 minutes and call it good.

[Heir2012]

If I end up masturbating for a longer period of time (anywhere from an hour to 4), it's usually because I hop from one story to another or one video to another as I keep finding something better to cum to. I keep searching for the "perfect" moment to blow my load. 

[BBArchangel]

6 hours ago, ErosWired said:

I can see someone edging for 1 to 3 hours, but 7? Ten? Seriously? Edging for an entire day? That’s…devotional. That interferes with meals. In my experience there comes a numbing point with penile stimulation at which stimulation is no longer really felt; the nerves are overstimulated, oversaturated. Plus, who among us is able to maintain an erection for ten hours? (With Viagra, if you don’t lose it after four you’re supposed to seek medical attention.)

There’s a way around the numbing and erection issues, which I employ myself - electrostimulation*. It bypasses all the mechanical aspects of masturbation and goes straight to the nerves themselves, sending signals to the brain that can tell it you’re being sexually stimulated in various ways, even if your cock is totally limp and cold. And it can go for ten hours, or 24, or 72, or until you fail to pay your electricity bill because you’ve been gooning out in endless orgasms for over a month.

That’s an exaggeration, but not by much. I’ve induced a continuous rolling orgasm in myself that’s lasted well over five minutes before - and that’s not an exaggeration in the slightest. Think about that for a moment: That intensity you feel at the moment you cum, but five minutes long. Set a timer and see how long five minutes is. It’s eternity when you’re cumming. I had to finally cut it off because I couldn’t take it any more, and seriously thought my heart might fail. The system could stim me below the level of orgasm, or skip from one orgasm to the next at intervals, indefinitely, and I have used it that way at length - but even with such means, when I could theoretically go on and on and on, I have never done so for more than about three hours at a stretch before feeling that I’ve had enough.

 

*WARNING

DO NOT TRY THIS AT HOME. Not unless you know exactly what you are doing, and have the equipment to do it with. I have extensive experience with electro, have trained Dominants in its use (with myself as the subject in case they make mistakes) and have top-of-the-line equipment. Do not attempt it with anything not made especially for the purpose of electrostimulation. Never attempt to attach any electrode above the waist. Injury or death can result.

I’m just curious, my friend, if your electro-play includes a violet-wand or similar such device. Is that as effective as electrodes?

[ErosWired]

44 minutes ago, BBArchangel said:

I’m just curious, my friend, if your electro-play includes a violet-wand or similar such device. Is that as effective as electrodes?

I will never forget a demo session I was the subject of once where I was bound to a table and four men were being introduced to the various uses of the Violet Wand. This was an old-skool Violet Wand mind you, the real deal, one with some power to it, not one of these lightweight ‘neon-wand’ types of apparatuses. I distinctly recall watching as these guys were absolutely fascinated using the wand to make little bolts of blue lightning shoot from the wand into my cockhead and up and down my cock shaft, completely forgetting that I was attached to it.

Quite different sensation than using a stim-box. Most electrodes one uses with an electrostim device are either applied directly to the skin (either moistened or with a conductive gel) or inserted into the anus or urethra. Once properly applied, the electricity completes its circuit along the shortest available path, stimulating nerves along the way, so placement is key. You’d be surprised that an anal electrode angled a certain way can cause a feeling of a zing in tour toes, but it can. A sophisticated stim machine with adjustable settings can give you the sensation of being stroked, squeezed, pumped, and even fucked, with just the right placement of electrodes and precise machine settings.

But it’s more an art than a science. I’ve achieved some amazing, even what I would call transcendent, states of orgasm this way…but never twice the same. I have never been able to quite duplicate any given experience. And sometimes I can’t quite catch the wave at all and end up frustrated. (It’s somewhat like fishing in that way.)

Still, you couldn’t do any of it with a Violet Wand. In my view, the main value in the wand is the visual aesthetic, and the way the ability to visualize the electricity excites the imagination and spices the scene. With other types of electro, the electricity isn’t seen, only felt.

Again, though, none of this type of play is for the novice. You can burn your skin, or stop your heart, if you don’t know what you’re doing, and doing it the wrong way can be painful and unpleasant and turn you off it from the start - nobody touches the hot stove twice. My tolerance for it was built up by a Sadist who enjoyed it as a torture of choice; not a way I recommend getting experience with it, but I learned.

Edited November 16, 2023 by ErosWired

[wbekk85]

2 hours ago, Heir2012 said:

If I end up masturbating for a longer period of time (anywhere from an hour to 4), it's usually because I hop from one story to another or one video to another as I keep finding something better to cum to. I keep searching for the "perfect" moment to blow my load. 

yes! that's exactly it...the perfect moment to blow. the edging is fun and feels REALLY fucking good, but it's all about that intense moment of climax. that moment where sensation, visual stimulation through the right picture, the right lines in a story, and the action and verbal of the right video all collide. the only time it's more intense is when it happens as i'm buried balls deep inside a great ass.

[JamesL100]

I was recommended to a leading UK exponent of electroplay. I travelled an hour, suffered 5mins of a fly-swatter, and put my clothes back on as I ran out of the door.
I have had a couple of longer, hornier sessions with 'standard' electro attachments when I was already travelling in Scotland and Amsterdam. Glad to had limited satisfaction.

[jXsluT]

if i got nothing else goin on and can go for hours and edge my cock so good. makes for such an intense load 

[LeoAugury]

2 hours on average, 12 max

[Heir2012]

It also depends on whether you want one or two long sessions, edging for hours at a time, or several (4-8) jerk-off sessions where you're quick and done. 

[NWUSHorny]

On 11/15/2023 at 4:00 AM, Mkegaymer said:

When I get horny at night I can edge myself masterbating for two to three hours. Just reading stories, watching pornography, etc. I usually only cum once at the end, but have had days where I’ve done this a few times… mostly when really horny or really stressed as it makes everything feel just fine.

What do other people do? is this patter way out of the norm? 

I’ve also noticed this created some wicked endurance while having sex… I can hold off cumming for a long time. Sometime partners complain I take too long to cum. Whoops. But it feels so good… ☺️

Seems perfectly normal to me. I really prefer to live or work in a city where casual sex is readily available and can relieve the tension that way, but sadly that isn't possible in a lot of places.