Tops that turn out to be bottoms

[norefusal]

9 hours ago, KindaBasic said:

lol I remember back in the early 90s when they dished out Prozac for everything from depression to a hangnail. Doctors must have gotten bonus checks for popping out those prescriptions. Mine put me on them.  Had no trouble getting it up, but just couldn’t cum. 

oh, the viagra does that to me now. tbh it's always taken me forever to cum but this too is something that in the 90s was a bonus but today is a liability. everyone seems to have become such a cum slut that guys start beggin for your load as soon as you impale them. the other day this guy was giving me such great head i swear i came twice but it turned out to be orgasms w/out ejaculation. i felt like a prostate cancer servivor. the bj was great for me but the guy never got his "reward" 

[NWUSHorny]

On 4/23/2024 at 8:44 AM, norefusal said:

milenials take too many antidepressants 😜prozac gave me ED and as a 30 something i flushed that shit. i'd rather be depressed than celebate.

I've heard that about antidepressants as well, and can't imagine why they wouldn't be more depressed due to the side effect. Few things lift my mood more than getting hard and horny. I'm sure I've cum more than 3 times a day on average over the last 40 odd years. Even at 55 if I don't cum twice it is a total downer.

[hntnhole]

On 4/23/2024 at 1:42 AM, KindaBasic said:

Okay, what’s up with you tops who somehow magically morph into a bottom on your way over to play?

I reckon it's just more of the "talk is cheap" stuff.  What I don't get is, why would a guy say/post that he's into something, when he's not?  And then go on to complain about how tough it is to get laid ...

Why not just say what you mean, and mean what you say?  I don't get it either, which is only one of the reasons I don't bother with the fuck-apps anymore.  

[KindaBasic]

7 hours ago, NWUSHorny said:

I've heard that about antidepressants as well, and can't imagine why they wouldn't be more depressed due to the side effect. Few things lift my mood more than getting hard and horny. I'm sure I've cum more than 3 times a day on average over the last 40 odd years. Even at 55 if I don't cum twice it is a total downer.

I love when a top is a multiple shooter. 

[NWUSHorny]

I know this comes as a shock to total bottoms, but total tops aren't as committed to their position as you are. I'm fully versatile and have topped every total top regular I've ever had, can't say the same about even versatile bottoms.

[cockfun69]

54 minutes ago, NWUSHorny said:

I know this comes as a shock to total bottoms, but total tops aren't as committed to their position as you are.

Yes I've often had tops ask if I am always btm. Despite (not?) reading my profile or seeing me fucking guys before. I'm always happy to fuck first, middle or last 😄😎 

[norefusal]

1 hour ago, NWUSHorny said:

I know this comes as a shock to total bottoms, but total tops aren't as committed to their position as you are. I'm fully versatile and have topped every total top regular I've ever had, can't say the same about even versatile bottoms.

hopefully nobody is a total anything! how boring

ive tasted pussy, piss, ass and cum. i might have my favs but im glad i tried them all. 

i think the OP was just expressing online buyers remorse. you order something off the internet and when it arrives its nothing like you imagined. but ya gotta roll w the punches. i may statistically bottom more often but fucking masc str8 dudes w a wife at home is a particular delicacy imho. just some kid's dad beggin to be bred... 💦💦💦sublime! 😜

[SugarCaneDaddy]

To be completely honest the vibe can change once you get there and actually meet the dude

[KindaBasic]

On 4/25/2024 at 12:23 PM, NWUSHorny said:

I know this comes as a shock to total bottoms, but total tops aren't as committed to their position as you are. I'm fully versatile and have topped every total top regular I've ever had, can't say the same about even versatile bottoms.

If someone says he’s a top, I assume he’s a top. But whenever anyone tells you, “I’m a total top”, you know he’s going to be a power bottom. 

[YourNoLimitsBottom]

Where I live it is mostly bottoms, and most of the few "tops" magically become bottoms when you meet them.

[NWUSHorny]

As a versatile guy I have a bigger problem with guys who turn out to be sides. 

[PozBearWI]

Thanks @NWUSHorny.  Would one of you 'splaine "side".  As a reference it is not physically intuitive as top and bottom.  

[NWUSHorny]

19 hours ago, PozBearWI said:

Thanks @NWUSHorny.  Would one of you 'splaine "side".  As a reference it is not physically intuitive as top and bottom.  

"Side" seems to be the latest term for guys who don't engage anal sex in any position or any most cases even oral sex. 

[PozBearWI]

Hmm, so I can interpret "side" as things which are NOT top or bottom....  Shall I take it oral is also excluded?

[hungry_hole]

To understand why some "Tops turn out to be bottoms" one has to understand what makes someone a bottom or a top. Being a top or a bottom is not determined by genetics but the ability to get an erection, maintain the erection, and then be able to control the shooting of the load. Keep in  mind that the sexual mood changes dramatically once you cum.

If I could easily get an erection, maintain the erection and then be able to fuck without shooting, I would definitely be at least versatile. I envy those guys at the sauna that can move from one hole to another and then cum at their will. Maybe then rest a bit and keep fucking. I envy those guys.

I don't top because I cum too quickly and then the fun is over. I prefer to take loads and enjoy every load, until I decide to go home.

Bottoming requires men to get over the idea that bottoming is a female role. Some men would like to try it, but they can't psychologically.