Does it matter if the bottom cums?

[barefucker44]

I dont worry about whether my btms cums or not.  If they do great, but if they dont that's OK.  Maybe they shot their load earlier and all they want is some new seed up their hole.  

[NLbear]

I don't really care what other bottoms say. I love to cum and I love it even better when a top fucks the cum out of me handsfree. 

[Roughme101]

Only if top wants but not really bttm should be there to take loads n please top not himself.

 

[TXltnpozcumdump88]

As a bottom, I don’t like or want to make myself or have the top make me cum. 
I don’t like to cum when I’m getting fucked at all like someone said here in a post before, I loose the want and the need to be used fucked and bred by anyone. 
I can cum at another point or by other means just don’t jerk me off. 
I’ve been made cum by tops fucking me and that feeling is golden. 
My pleasure and need comes from being a cum dumpster, slut bottom that needs wants and was raised to be fucked. 😈

[18learner18]

as a bottom, no it shouldn't matter. To me, the only reward is to feel Master's cock inside me. 

[GAwhoreSub]

Generally, I don't care if I cum or not when I'm serving a man. If I cum from stuff he does, great. If not, that's OK, too. If I've partied, then it becomes all the harder for me to reach that point, but it can still happen. And if the top wants to see me cum after a long partied session, I'll gladly do it for him, though I ask for some assistance: either my hole or my nuts need do hurt. After partying I'm more likely to get off when a top is hurting me (squeezing my nuts) or stretching me wider/deeper so that it's painful, and then basically telling me "I'm not easing up on your pain until you nut. You control when the pain ends". Unsure why, but when I'm partied up, that's the quickest way to me to get there.

[Marlin]

As I get older I have less anonymous hookups and have a few fuckbuds who I regularly meet. I'm much more top and our sex is pretty passionate. Kissing. Mutual oral, verbal, rimming. I always end up breeding them but I want to make them feel good and I will usually finish them off with a good blow job, swallowing their cum. We all end up satisfied in the end and their is no cleanup 

[BttmKinkster]

Could care less if I cum or not. Just looking to service the top and receive his load inside me.

[hntnhole]

I think the "default" position on this question would be t.b.d.  If there are any "wants" on the part of the bottom, that should be made clear while the initial sniffing is still in progress.  Same for the Top. 

It can take as much as a couple of minutes, or as short as a handful of seconds, but when there's something that's important to one or the other, it should be shared, and subsequently respected.  

The only thing that really matters - as I see it - is that each guy/guys get what they want, need.  

[yoursinmine]

On 1/5/2025 at 7:11 PM, barefucker44 said:

I dont worry about whether my btms cums or not.  If they do great, but if they dont that's OK.  Maybe they shot their load earlier and all they want is some new seed up their hole.  

An online friend of mine told me the other day that his man forces him to make himself cum as quickly as possible either on his partner's cock or on his own face. Then his man fucks him.

Like me, after orgasm, he's almost completely uninterested in cock.  The idea of it being completely about top pleasure is so hot. 

[rubberpig]

As a versatile guy, when I top I don't care if the bottom cums or not, just that I'm blowing a load in his ass.  If I bottom I don't care if I cum (in fact I prefer not to), I just want a load.

[Cumfilledbottomboi]

I don’t care at all if I cum. I want NEED THEIR cum in me. I’m a cumdump made for taking loads. 

[bistcathboy]

I really prefer to find men who are really seeking a submissive bottom who is focused on providing pleasure. From giving that to my partner I get to enjoy myself by being useful and also in the headspace I prefer. Not getting distracted by my own orgasm is for me normal behaviour. Goal lately has been to get more time to learn to cum hands free so that I can allow my top to enjoy feeling me tight around him from just receiving him into me.