Why do tops pull out......

[hungry_hole]

13 hours ago, VersGuyAnon said:

I can't remember a top pulling out to cum,

It was very common at the saunas when condom fatigue kicked in. Because in the 90's  most bottoms required condoms, guys wanted to fuck a raw hole so they promised to shoot outside. Anonymous cum in your hole was high risk.

9 hours ago, Bokkierob said:

I don’t understand how some men can pull out before they cum.

Some would pull out too late, already having squirted inside.

[meetme]

1 hour ago, VersGuyAnon said:

Please get yourself down to Brighton!

Be still my heart.  I’ve lived in London twice and I will never forget the excitement I felt when I walked into my first sauna knowing that most men there would be uncut. It was beyond thrilling for me. I made it my goal to visit every sauna in London. I did get to Brighton once but not for long enough to enjoy the local men.  I would certainly like to.  Is there a time of the year there when the urge to breed is higher? Spring or Summer, maybe? How many saunas are there to visit in Brighton? What is the best place to go for raw sex with many, many men. I feel very friendly toward the English male.

[VersGuyAnon]

15 minutes ago, meetme said:

Be still my heart.  I’ve lived in London twice and I will never forget the excitement I felt when I walked into my first sauna knowing that most men there would be uncut. It was beyond thrilling for me. I made it my goal to visit every sauna in London. I did get to Brighton once but not for long enough to enjoy the local men.  I would certainly like to.  Is there a time of the year there when the urge to breed is higher? Spring or Summer, maybe? How many saunas are there to visit in Brighton? What is the best place to go for raw sex with many, many men. I feel very friendly toward the English male.

There's one main sauna in Brighton and a smaller one in Hove (it's now the city of Brighton and Hove). They're about a mile from each other. I go to the main one, which is great. There are other cruising areas, but I think the sauna is the easiest and best. I find it's actually better in summer than winter. Guys are hornier due to warmer weather and tend to be sluttier.    

[topblkmale]

6 hours ago, hungry_hole said:

It was very common at the saunas when condom fatigue kicked in. Because in the 90's  most bottoms required condoms, guys wanted to fuck a raw hole so they promised to shoot outside. Anonymous cum in your hole was high risk.

Some would pull out too late, already having squirted inside.

 

I fucked at New York bathhouses in the early 90s. Bareback (raw) meant pulling out. It was default back then.

 

[hungry_hole]

9 hours ago, topblkmale said:

Bareback (raw) meant pulling out. It was default back then.

But pulling out was sometimes difficult to do for some guys. In the 90's there were bareback bottoms in the saunas but most were very strict with taking cum up their holes.

I remember at the sauna a guy getting fucked bareback in the dark room and a few guys watching. The bottom had accepted the raw cock but he insisted the top pull out before shooting, as it was done in the 90's. I was already taking anon loads at the saunas so I got very horny watching the bareback fuck, and wanted the guy to breed that hole. So I positioned myself behind the top and when I noticed he was getting ready to shoot, I started playing with him, fingered the top's hole, and pushed the top against the bottom's hole, and had the guy dump his entire load deep in the bottom's hole. At first the bottom seemed to enjoy it, and even moaned a bit while the guy was breeding him. But all of a sudden he freaked out and wanted to know if the guy was "clean". But he was long gone, as most guys do once they shoot their load.

[BBDreamer]

On 8/6/2024 at 3:20 AM, Bokkierob said:

I don’t understand how some men can pull out before they cum. They may as well just masturbate. I top because I need to feel the bottom’s hot tight asshole milking my cock. When I get close my cock and balls compells me to go in hard and deep and shoot my load inside him. I’ve seeded every man I’ve penetrated. 

My kind of Top. You just gave me a fucking boner. 

[Bottom Jim]

Pulling out is stupid There is always precum that will always go in ass, Your bare dick is in my ass your precum is my ass why not pump the whole load up there 

[topblkmale]

 

Older tops know that pulling out was very common.

 

I remember having to time my backstroke to be able to pull out and shoot my load on the bottom's ass.

That's was considered proof you pulled out in time.

 

[meetme]

If you’re timing was off and the first or second shot of sperm went inside, you’re really the only one who would know, right?

[topblkmale]

2 hours ago, meetme said:

If you’re timing was off and the first or second shot of sperm went inside, you’re really the only one who would know, right?

Just the head was in. 
 

Just the head. 
 

 

[tallslenderguy]

On 8/5/2024 at 1:32 PM, topblkmale said:

 

It use to be considered a form of safe sex.

 

i remember this. my oldest brother was also gay, and i watched at San Fransisco General Hospital as He died of AID's in the 80's.  He had pretty much every opportunistic disease that came with HIV, and was 90 pounds, Kaposi sarcoma, it was awful. And i flew back to Virginia and continued to receive bare cocks and loads. Out of the probably thousands of cocks i have received, i can count on one hand the number of condoms has been on them. 

i understood the rationale behind pulling out then, and had similar fears as anyone else, but to me pulling out is even worse than a condom. i cannot remember a Top ever actually pulling out to cum on me? i've had Tops pull out because they still wanted to fuck and didn't want to cum yet... i don't really like that, but i can accept and respect that, but interrupting an orgasm and wasting a Tops seed is just something i have never been able to accept, even when it carried a death threat. i'm really glad i made it to the era of U=U and that HIV is no longer that big of a deal, i never was a chaser and was always nervous about getting HIV, but the drive and desire to completely connect with the Top i'm with has always had priority and has only deepened as i have gotten older.

[Whitebutt]

On 8/6/2024 at 12:22 PM, BootmanLA said:

This was discussed ad nauseum in one of the porn threads. Bottom line is that some guys like to see the cum shot, even their own, and so they pull out. Some don't.

If it's important to you to take the load in your ass, TELL THE FUCKING TOP BEFOREHAND. Expecting him to read your mind and know what  you want and what will be "a disappointment" is lame.

I agree. I have two rules that I tell my tops: No choke hold and no pulling out.

[hntnhole]

Let's be clear about terminology:

Pulling out before shooting the load up a Hole = "rutting"

Pumping the load up the bottom's gut = 'breeding"

Now.  I understand why most bottoms want every Cock in the fuckjoint to cum in their Hole.  I love guys with that special need, but there's another facet to consider.

Many, if not most Tops like to rut in as many holes as they possibly can - and then either breed the last one they're in when the night grows long, of go back and find their favorite hole and shove the load to that guy.  

Most Tops love to try out -experience - rut in - as many Holes as possible.  That may seem inconvenient to most bottoms, but that's the way we're wired.  

It seems that many bottoms think they should get virtually every load that gets pumped up any Hole in the fuckjoint. That mindset may be inconvenient for Tops, but it's just the way many bottoms are wired.  

Point:  NO guy gets everything he wants every time.  Every guy gets some of what he wants, hopefully every time.  Occasions when a guy gets everything he wants (ruts in every Hole in the fuckjoint/takes the load off every Cock in the fuckjoint) are almost impossible to achieve, so we need to concentrate on getting & giving as much pleasure to each other as we possibly can.  Tops and bottoms are not alike - but we can give some of our opposite number what they most need, and receive from them what we most need.   

Outside of a private event, no guy gets everything, every time.  We all get something, every time.  Fantasies are just that.  Reality and respect dictates we do the best we can to fulfill our partners fantasies and do the best we can for every guy.  

[topblkmale]

6 hours ago, hntnhole said:

Let's be clear about terminology:

Pulling out before shooting the load up a Hole = "rutting"

Pumping the load up the bottom's gut = 'breeding"

 

 

First time I've ever heard of this term.

It use to be called don't cum in me.

 

[hntnhole]

Well, I suppose it's possible that term (rutting) is just a Chicago-ism .... but even when traveling to other major events (MAL, for example), I don't recall any guy asking what it meant ...