Ageism in sex clubs / saunas

[bbbear2000]

Oldest I've been with is 64 so far but don't mimd older.

Cock js cock and a hole is a hole.

So long as the guy is my type I'd probs hookup with him regardless of age.

[KindaBasic]

In clubs, baths, etc., I think older tops get noticed more than older bottoms. 

[Ptown66]

On 2/16/2025 at 4:08 PM, pignpig said:

I’m 38 years old, and many times I feel rejected in sex clubs and saunas in Europe or America... But what makes me even sadder is seeing men over 60 constantly being rejected. I hate the way young gay men treat older guys.

I have a 61-year-old boyfriend, and when he goes to these clubs, he is completely invisible to the people there. The sad reality is that it seems like the older we get, the harder it becomes to find sex.

How do you deal with this?

I love going to those clubs and the future really worries me.

As a 58 year old we need to give up the idea that youth is so desirable, and find attraction in each other. It’s not hard. Let the children fuck each other, and let’s focus on men who know what they are doing. If the kids want to join, great, but they should not be the excessively high value things that too many men make of them. 

[yoursinmine]

1 hour ago, KindaBasic said:

In clubs, baths, etc., I think older tops get noticed more than older bottoms. 

Yeah, maybe. I know that I'm only attracted to older guys. I want to fuck all you all. Haha

[hntnhole]

15 hours ago, KindaBasic said:

I think older tops get noticed more

Or, could it be that older equates with more experienced in a bottom's subconscious, and thus possibly better at their craft than younger guys?

Edited February 19 by hntnhole
phrasing

[RawNYTop]

22 hours ago, partying.hard said:

I’m human.  I’m not defined by my cock (but it does have its advantages.  I get rejected like everyone else.  I’m not fit enough.  I’m uncut. I’m not the ethnicity they want.  I’m too old.  I may be partying.  Even at the baths or clubs, I have passed over, even for a quick fuck.

and I’ve learned to be ok with that!

You check all my boxes!

[partying.hard]

1 hour ago, RawNYTop said:

You check all my boxes!

Awwww.  You made me blush!  
 

😈🐷😈

[ellentonboy]

You can't please everyone, and you can't be everyone's "type".  You just have to accept that and not take it personally.  There will be a dick waiting or wanting you at some point, just relax.  

[Bator916]

I'm definitely guilty of ageism, because I've preferred rugged older men and even more so now that I'm one of them. For my taste, youth is no match for experience and maturity. 

[hntnhole]

41 minutes ago, Bator916 said:

For my taste, youth is no match for experience and maturity. 

Hear Hear .... 

I'll take an experienced cumdump that loves who and what he is any/every  time.