Advice on how to prevent premature ejaculation and be more confident when topping

[Tanbbottom]

On 4/24/2025 at 7:22 AM, Bokkierob said:

I don’t overthink it. If I’m fucking a lad who really triggers my hardon - short, husky, hairy then I’m gunna cum in seconds and I just enjoy it and breed him. I don’t like holding back, I gotta cum.. Most men I’ve loaded quickly have taken it as a compliment that I’ve enjoyed their hole so much. Also wait 10 minutes and I’ll be back inside them and will last much longer.

I've never received a breeding I didn't enjoy  ... and some came as he pushed in. Fuckin amazing. 

I have had tops take so long it became a burden. I began to wonder if I really wanted him to continue to orgasm. At times only my love of the load kept me hanging in. And if after all that he doesn't climax  ... ugh!

Pump and dump or quicker is my favorite, especially with stranger’s. 

And as mostly a bottom myself I will probably unload pretty darn fast. I apologize but most guys assure me it is not a problem. They, like me, are thankful for the breeding!💦💦💦💦💦

[hungry_hole]

On 4/24/2025 at 7:22 AM, Bokkierob said:

I just enjoy it and breed him. I don’t like holding back, I gotta cum.

Some guys feel bad when they cum to quickly, but I love it when it happens. I like even better if the guy pulls out and leaves without saying a word

[phillygwm]

On 4/23/2025 at 8:08 PM, JesseAaron1385 said:

Thanks, I really appreciate that. I know a lot of bottoms are just happy to get fucked and get a load but I can't help but feel like I should be more capable for them. I have a fear of disappointment and this one hits me hard.

There's an old IT saying:  It's a feature, not a bug.  Which is to say lean into it.  Not everyone wants to get railed for an hour.  I was recently at a party where I (top) couldn't cum quickly enough for the bottom.  There were various (unimportant) reasons for that but the moral is that there are a lot of guys who just want as much DNA as they can take.  They'd rather take a dozen loads in an hour than have one guy lasting that long.

[TXltnpozcumdump88]

I’ve had the same issue. I love being a bottom and taking all loads but I also love to share my loads.
I want to last long fuck n breed. 
I want to have my own ☣️ family 😈🤤

[Tiboer]

As was mentioned before, viagra or cialis do wonders.  You’ll get rock hard whether you’re nervous or not.  For me, they also weirdly dull the sensation, so I last much longer than I normally.

Although I solely topped for the first 10 years of my sexual life, I’m a terrible top.  I have a big cock, which bottoms love no matter what I do with it.  So, I had no incentive to become a better top.  Now that I mostly bottom, I can see what great tops should do.  

If you use viagra or cialis, you can forget about the nervousness and focus more on being attentive to your bottom.