Do you like watching your partner get fucked?

[NordicBtm]

3 minutes ago, hntnhole said:

I did - loved it. 

Initially though, he didn't want me to watch at all.  He felt somehow that I wouldn't like it - and I suppose conventionally, a lot of partnered guys wouldn't care for it.  Didn't take him long to learn though - and once he did, he didn't mind "showing off" at all.  

Funny, it’s been almost the opposite in my case. I showed my bf what an exhibitionist I am and got fucked in front of him at a club 5 years ago. He almost couldn’t handle the jealousy but got through it. Since then he’s gotten to like it more and more. He’s not as into as me (groups and all that 😉) but really loves watching me get fucked now and then fucking my cummy hole. I never expected us to get there tbh 🙂 

[ellentonboy]

I met my bf at a group event so he saw it the first day we met.  He didn't have a problem with it then, and he doesn't have a problem with it now.  I have had people tell me that is strange, but it works for us.

 

[hntnhole]

Congrats - glad he managed to separate his love for you from  his lust to watch you steep in your sexual lusts.  

No guy is "property" - we're with our partners because we care for their entire being.  When we love them them in all their attributes, talents, then we're truly blessed.  

[hntnhole]

2 minutes ago, ellentonboy said:

 I have had people tell me that is strange

Well, not everyone is ever going to live their lives fully, openly embracing themselves in all their various attributes. 

I guess that all we can do is embrace them anyway, and try not to judge them for judging us.  There's a lot of willful ignorance out there ..... 

[TurboChg]

I love watching partner getting fucked and fucking other guys. Just makes him more virile and more handsome.

[hntnhole]

23 hours ago, NordicBtm said:

Since then he’s gotten to like it more and more

It takes quite a while for some guys to ditch their inhibitions and let their Lusts out of the box, and while that's a shame, at least they finally get over the cultural bullshit and start living "their truth". 

I think that the guys that have the most difficulty allowing themselves to become what they really *need* to become, have been raised with cultural repressions to the point that they don't realize those repressions are negative characteristics in the first place, designed to keep society in someone else's notion of what "order" is.  

Freedom is contagious;  when we get a little taste of real freedom to be who we need to be, we only want to experience more freedom.  As long as that doesn't entail negative behavior towards others, where's the harm?  Good for you, for allowing him the time to get his lusts in order. 

If he hasn't yet, allow me to thank you on his behalf.  A sexually-wanton guy is a terrible thing to waste !!