Do other btms cheat?

[bbpigbtm]

Happy with my partner for yrs, he top/ btm here. Love home life, but cheat if i can at times. Today just off shopping , gym& stuff. Got a urge, stop at rest area& cruise. Saw a black old guy hanging sround, so went to mens room- he followed, at urinal& saw his cock, well i blew him in handycap stall, fed on his wude uncut dark meat, seallowed& felt great not guilt, other do thus????

[Hungryforbbc]

I’m also married many years and we stopped being sexual with each other after a few years together. He’s got trauma that he’s working on but he’s basically asexual. So I’ve been getting dick on the side pretty regularly for over a decade now. He’s aware but has made it clear that he doesn’t really want to know about it cause it makes him feel like he doesn’t meet my needs but I’ve been pretty honest with him and he has come to accept it without any drama or passive aggressive behavior. He walked in on me blowing a street hustler one time and he just went about his business lol.

i have rules- nothing serious, nobody either of us knows socially, be discreet and respectful and don’t bring anyone to our home who i don’t know well enough to trust around our shit.

while I wish he would be more open to participating (I tried that early on) I can honestly say that i can get my groove on in a compartmentalized way that keeps my relationship secure and still allows for my sexual satisfaction 

[bbpigbtm]

Wow, ty , that sounds good, i wonder if mine cheating, i find hot, but sad i think alot sex stops with gay couples

[ffabbian]

In my teens and 20s I would get so high and vulnerable  even pass out and put myself in dangerous situations. I wanted to cheat  and convinced myself that it wasn't my fault that all those men fucked me.  I own it now and consciousnessly cheat. The longest I've gone without cheating is 4 years  with a guy that I felt comfortable being my deviant sexual self with as he was the same. I distance myself and end it when I have feelings for a guy but not enough to disrupt my life. I've had a few guys that fell in love with me. I saw it coming and should have done something about it before it got to that. I've cheated out of revenge and purposely been caught when in a toxic  relationship. While in a club with my bf I disappeared into the cruising area in a private room getting fucked. I could here my bf  calling my name then saw his head above the wall of our room cursing me and telling me that he we had to leave now. We were in a foreign country and the guy  fucking didn't speak English and kept on fucking me.  

[Davidc]

Does the Pope have a balcony?

[BlueSaphir]

Humans will always cheat when their desires are not met with their significant others. 

[hntnhole]

17 hours ago, Hungryforbbc said:

keeps my relationship secure and still allows for my sexual satisfaction 

Given the circumstances, what more can a guy ask for?

[PozBearWI]

Can we please come to a generally accepted definition of "cheating"?  I know for my mate and me; we are free to enjoy sex with anyone we fancy.  If permission were ever needed; it has already been given.  

When I think of cheating I think of POTUS.

[Norcalfukkr]

I wouldn’t have to cheat if my partner fucked me properly on a daily basis. As a bottom, my lizard brain tells me to get as much cock and cum as possible…it’s all about survival of the species and I’m fertile as fuck to carry a man’s babies 

[bottomboib]

I've cheated on every relationship I ever had. It's an addiction. I love how I feel doing it, I love the rush, the risk, and hell I've gotten hard when I've been found out. I've never claimed to be some highly moral person. In fact I've always considered myself a manifestation of chaos, but still there's practically no situation I can think of that I won't take the opportunity to love every second of being truly unfaithful. 

[CherryCumDrop]

On 6/20/2025 at 3:57 PM, bbpigbtm said:

Happy with my partner for yrs, he top/ btm here. Love home life, but cheat if i can at times. Today just off shopping , gym& stuff. Got an urge, stop at rest area& cruise. Saw a black old guy hanging sround, so went to mens room- he followed, at urinal& saw his cock, well i blew him in handycap stall, fed on his wude uncut dark meat, seallowed& felt great not guilt, other do thus????

Had to reply after reading this. Yes I cheat occasionally because my slut wife can’t keep her legs together or say “no” if left unsupervised, but When I read about the old guy you encountered in the handicap stall I wanted to relate to you about a guy who fucked me last, a month or so ago, who I’d been chatting with on a hookup site for a couple years at least, from time to time.  We didn’t have a personal bond, always just trying to plan logistics.  Over several tries over a couple years I learned he is a senior, obese and disabled and can’t leave his house.  Nothing more about him except he liked to top.  
 

Anyway we actually made a plan after I saw him online and asked if he could host right away, shocked when he said yes and sent his address, and more shocked I actually went.  Kind of a run down place but not dirty.  He was fat and couldn’t stand without a four-wheeled walker.  When we got to that point he asked me to help him stand and position his walker, then he could slowly move to a safe standing position beside a sturdy ottoman which I crawled on and presented my ass.  I had to get up for his lube which I handed to him and, once back in position was lubed and fucked, filled with cum.  Felt I’d helped a senior.  

[Nclchub]

Only once when I was 19. A guy assumed we were exclusive whereas I thought we were just friends who occasionally fucked. That ended messy when he ran into me getting fucked in a toilet stall.

Nowadays I would never enter into an exclusive relationship to begin with. 

[BruxoCub]

I cheat often, mostly as a cocksucker or a top, but sometimes a bottom too.

Sometimes I tell him, sometimes I don't, it would turn me on so much to walk in on him getting fucked.

I love to pump a load into someone then come home and shove my lubby cummy cock into his hairy bear butt.