Nclchub
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It's not necessarily shame as such. Some guys are only interested in a purely physical relationship, hence why he's so passionate in the moment but disinterested as soon as sex is over/not on the table. I know back in uni I had a relationship like this with a guy where we had completely different friend groups and only hung out to have sex. Both of us were openly gay, we just didn't have anything in common outside of loving bareback and being swamped with coursework/exams. As for not liking/being annoyed by cuddles, that could be any number of things. While it could be shame, the fact he's openly gay makes this less likely. Some guys just don't like cuddling. Maybe he's aromantic (i.e. Enjoys sex but has no interest/desire for romance). Ultimately I'm not the one dating the guy so without talking to him I can't say what his deal is. Way I see it you have two options: -Accept that this relationship is purely physical and enjoy it for what it is -Have a conversation about why he's not into cuddling/romance and whether you could incorporate that in future. If he tells you he's not interested and just wants to keep using you purely for sex, ask yourself whether you're okay with that. Good luck.
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I'm late to this but will preface by saying I personally would go bareback every time. However, if someone asked for my recommendation I sincerely think that if someone has any doubt they should go for Condoms for their first time. I know I know, but hear me out. The most obvious reason is that if your nervous about disease they lower that risk. Bareback is great but if you're constantly worried about catching something your first time you're not gonna be enjoying yourself. Above all sex should be fun. However, the main reason I wouldn't go bareback is if you plan to use Condoms in the future. In my experience, bareback feels so much better that once you've experienced it it's very hard to go back to Condoms. I know I tried using Condoms again after my first bareback fuck but none of the sex I had with Condoms measured up to even the most mediocre raw fucks I've since had. I just love the feeling of a raw dick inside me too much.
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Newcastle bottom looking for poz loads. Happy to travel via train if a poz load (or several) are on the other end.
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So speaking seriously, it can't be overstated just how lucky you are to have a partner that accepts your sexuality and need to explore it. That said you're at serious risk of ruining your relationship. It looks like you're letting your dick do the thinking and are about to jump into things way too fast. Others have talked about how you're putting her at risk if you go bare so i won't dwell on that. More concerning to me is that you're immediately considering getting fucked by multiple guys. Have you had a serious talk with your wife about how this is gonna work? Do you even have any rules? Things to consider: -Condoms and Prep. You need to figure out together if you're gonna use them before you consider going bare. If she wants you to use protection and you go bare anyway that's a huge betrayal. -Does she want to know any details or does she want things to be strictly don't ask don't tell? -are you going to let her explore fucking other people? Does she even want that? -Just because you're free to fuck other guys doesn't mean you can neglect your wife. Make sure her needs are satisfied too I'm really not trying to be a downer. However it sounds like you and your wife care about each other. Remember, even if she decides you need to use Condoms for now she might ease off on that once she sees you can be trusted. Good luck.
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My tastes haven't changed. Still have a preference for larger/older guys. The only real change is I'm more forward about what I want. Used to be a completely submissive bottom but now I'm comfortable being assertive even if I'm still the one being fucked. Hell some of the most intense sex I've had only happened because I explicitly asked for it (eg. Given directions to a guy on how to "force" me to deep throat him). -
Newcastle here if you're still looking for people.
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Anyone like getting a pierced cock up the ass?
Nclchub replied to Hotrawbutt4u's topic in General Discussion
Had the pleasure of being fucked by a guy with a PA last week. Maybe he was just good but it felt like the piercing hit my prostate with every thrust. Would love to experience it again. -
Not the same thing but I've definitely had experiences where I've rapidly withdrawn consent. Most notable for me was when a guy I hooked up with about 6 years ago. At one point he mentioned that he wanted to fist me but I said no and at first he seemed agreeable. Later that night we start messing around again and all of a sudden he goes from fingering me with 2 fingers to trying to shove all of them up me. I'm guessing he thought since I'd loosened up I would just go with the flow? Instead I was pissed off and yelled at him. Dont think he expected me to get so angry as he meekly withdrew his hand and I left, vowing to never fuck him again. The irony is I do enjoy being fisted, but I need to be in a specific headspace and/or trust the guy I'm with. By trying to rush me he ruined everything for him.
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Please check this out and respond…
Nclchub replied to rawTOP's topic in HIV/AIDS & Sexual Health Issues
Agree with all 10. In the UK here and wish more people in my area took this seriously. -
The “thrill” of Hard to Get - Turn On or No?
Nclchub replied to NorfolkUK's topic in General Discussion
I'm not a fan of the hard to get routine on hookup sites (bbrt, grinder etc) . If I wanted to go through that I'd just go to a bar or use one of the less Hook up focused apps. -
Worth remembering he was/is getting his treatment from the shady clinic where the "doctor" had him bred and fisted by multiple men. I like to think that doctor either gave him prep to make his strain med resistant (as prep alone isn't enough if you're poz) or just gave him a placebo.
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God damn that was satisfying. This entire story was just so good. The way you set it up so that we always knew more than Cody was a particular highlight. Even after he's learned about Bryce he's still ignorant to a lot of what happened. The ending was surprisingly wholesome. I love that even though the story about how Cody became poz is done its clear that Cody will continue to be a slut. Regardless, even if I wouldn't say no to more installments this was a really good conclusion and you should be proud of what you've wrote. Thanks again for sharing.
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I assume Bryce just used Cody to get paid. Once Cody converted Bryce was done with him. It also looked like he was getting close to Jeff so I wouldn't be surprised if Jeff ends up getting pozzed too (though considering Jeff cut all ties with Cody we might never know). This story is so fucking hot. I'm really loving it. Thank you so much for sharing.
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I started with condoms but my first time bare was an eye opener. The top removed the condom mid fuck as he was loosing his hard on and I went along with it. Was incredible just how much better it felt. That said I didn't become a raw only guy until later. Tried sticking to condoms but it just wasn't the same. Nowadays I'm actively chasing so even if bareback didn't feel better I avoid condoms entirely.
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Wow this is a good story. I keep coming back every few hours and am never disappointed. Thanks for sharing!
