blackrobe Posted 6 hours ago Report Posted 6 hours ago 24 minutes ago, PozBearWI said: Indeed, for a long time I've struggled to understand how sex with an adult would have damaged me. One of the coaches in high school was a stud I craved, even when I didn't really understand why. I find it hard to believe that if he had made a first move; or if I had (obviously I wasn't ready, brave enough, or such); that would have somehow damaged me. Sex at its core is something we discover. It seems to me by design to be a trial and error, trial and succeed sort of human experience. [...] I totally get being strongly drawn to someone and not even being able to articulate why or connect it with sex. That describes me pretty well before I was raped as a kid. The impact of your first sex isn't the kind of thing you can imagine, regardless of who initiates. Lots of factors play into whether it's an ecstatic or traumatic experience. 1 Quote
PozBearWI Posted 3 hours ago Report Posted 3 hours ago 2 hours ago, blackrobe said: I totally get being strongly drawn to someone and not even being able to articulate why or connect it with sex. That describes me pretty well before I was raped as a kid. The impact of your first sex isn't the kind of thing you can imagine, regardless of who initiates. Lots of factors play into whether it's an ecstatic or traumatic experience. First, sucks you were raped. No one deserves that. Rape though while it involves sex parts typically, isn't what I was suggesting. Rape is by definition non consensual. If coach had talked with me and we agreed we were both interested, I don't think that would have been traumatic even if, for example, I was in my earlier teens. If I had been raped? Man I don't know. I am grateful I wasn't. How are you @blackrobe? Quote
blackrobe Posted 3 hours ago Report Posted 3 hours ago 2 minutes ago, PozBearWI said: First, sucks you were raped. No one deserves that. Rape though while it involves sex parts typically, isn't what I was suggesting. Rape is by definition non consensual. If coach had talked with me and we agreed we were both interested, I don't think that would have been traumatic even if, for example, I was in my earlier teens. If I had been raped? Man I don't know. I am grateful I wasn't. How are you @blackrobe? First, I'm fine. Lot's of therapy and personal work under my belt getting around and through what it did to me. If you are a minor, you can't legally consent so by definition all sex a minor has with an adult (and perhaps peers) is non-consensual in a legal sense. My larger point is that we can't imagine how events will impact us, so trying to do it isn't useful. Quote
Pozzible Posted 3 hours ago Report Posted 3 hours ago Out of reactions for today, but @PozBearWI I definitely identify with your post. Especially the coach part. I knew I was gay before I saw him full frontal getting out of shower. But it took a few years before I managed to lose my virginity at 19 to a new neighbor I met by the pool. Quote
PozBearWI Posted 2 hours ago Report Posted 2 hours ago 1 hour ago, blackrobe said: First, I'm fine. Lot's of therapy and personal work under my belt getting around and through what it did to me. If you are a minor, you can't legally consent so by definition all sex a minor has with an adult (and perhaps peers) is non-consensual in a legal sense. My larger point is that we can't imagine how events will impact us, so trying to do it isn't useful. It is of course, those words "in the legal sense".... And while legally I have no disagreement, we become aware of ourselves as humans at least a decade before we are legally an adult. If that teen has the ability to say yes or no to start or stop the activity, then legal be damned, they consented. Your own experience has to show you that... Quote
blackrobe Posted 2 hours ago Report Posted 2 hours ago 2 minutes ago, PozBearWI said: It is of course, those words "in the legal sense".... And while legally I have no disagreement, we become aware of ourselves as humans at least a decade before we are legally an adult. If that teen has the ability to say yes or no to start or stop the activity, then legal be damned, they consented. Your own experience has to show you that... Yes, we are exploring from when we become sexually aware and/or hit puberty. The issue is that there's potential for coercion where there's an age or power imbalance, and developmental issues around risk-taking, etc. as well. Let's not derail this thread. 1 Quote
cumfillthishole Posted 1 hour ago Report Posted 1 hour ago The only time I have been walked in on while sucking cock, it was the guys younger brother (legal age). We were chilling at a trap house for a couple hours. I spent most of the time with the younger brother just hanging out. We were talking whit on everyone sneaking off to hookup. Fast forward,I'm on my knees sucking the older bro's 9 inch dick. He walks in right as my lips touch his pubes and feel him throb in my throat. the brother stared a moment and just walked away. I swear the older brother was turned on by the incident because he picked up the pace real quick. His load was so delicious. Best cum I've ever tasted. 1 Quote
hntnhole Posted 1 hour ago Report Posted 1 hour ago Nope. It never entered my mind to try anything at home (when I was living at my parents home). My dad would have beaten me to death, and resurrected me so he could do it again. 1 Quote
cumfillthishole Posted 6 minutes ago Report Posted 6 minutes ago (edited) 1 hour ago, cumfillthishole said: The only time I have been walked in on while sucking cock, it was the guys younger brother (legal age). We were chilling at a trap house for a couple hours. I spent most of the time with the younger brother just hanging out. We were talking whit on everyone sneaking off to hookup. Fast forward,I'm on my knees sucking the older bro's 9 inch dick. He walks in right as my lips touch his pubes and feel him throb in my throat. the brother stared a moment and just walked away. I swear the older brother was turned on by the incident because he picked up the pace real quick. His load was so delicious. Best cum I've ever tasted. Never been walked in while sucking dick. My dad did walk into my room while I was getting fucked. I was on my back with my legs up in the air. He closed the door immediately and ran off. He never brought it up but it must have been a bit traumatizing for him to see his only son getting dicked down. He did learn to knock first before opening someone's bedroom lol. Edited 6 minutes ago by cumfillthishole spelling error Quote
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