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Want to know what you guys think. I'm going to a party tomorrow, guy holds them regularly. Just a group of guys who like to suck and fuck, pretty vanilla really, no kink, nothing extreme. I'm thinking of wearing my cage to the party. I'm not really interested in getting sucked of fucking, all I want is to suck and get fucked. I've been a few times, sucked some, got fucked, but guys always grab my cock and comment on how it's a shame I'm a bottom. Thinking wearing my cage would put all that to rest LOL But because it's really a "Vanilla" guy group thinking it might be too much for them. Thoughts? Should I?  

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3 hours ago, NLbear said:

If you think the cage is too "kinky" then wear a jockstrap?

The problem with a jock is that some guys will always ignore the signal you're sending and reach in a grab your dick anyway.

Some men feel entitled to your dick whether you want them to touch it or not. In a situation where guys are selfishly stepping over your boundaries, wear a cage and if anyone whines or complains, tell them it's the only way you can ensure your boundaries are respected.

If guys don't consider a restraining order kinky, then neither is a cock cage. 

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I wear always my cage (a pink holy trainer) when going to gay-sauna's or parties. It makes my sexrole very clear being a total bottom :)

 

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It wouldn't be "too much."  Most of us have seen locked guys.  There will be some who aren't into you but if there are enough guys there, you should stay busy.

PERSONALLY, I might choose to play with someone else.   I just like playing with a guy's cock, especially if I'm fucking him from behind.  I did a hotel room group a while back where the bottom didn't want to be touched, just quick pump and dumps.  I couldn't stay hard because there was nothing arousing.  I only saw the back of his head and, for me anyway, a hole is a hole.  That said, I watched a number of guys unload in him so this is obviously a "me" issue.   He probably could have gotten me off orally because I'm usually quicker to cum if a mouth is reasonably talented but that was off limits too.

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On 9/13/2025 at 4:53 AM, Warmnsalty said:

Thoughts? Should I?

Of course you should, if that's the statement you want to make.  Were I you, I would - and I'd be ready to answer some questions. 

What I wouldn't be ready to do, is accept any judgements arising from fear or ignorance.  I'd parry firmly, politely, but parry none-the-less.  

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