Language disconnects

[NWUSHorny]

I feel like I've had this same discussion about what constitutes "sex", not just "making love" at gay bathhouses, ABS, and other cruising spots in Portland, Seattle and Vancouver hundreds of times over the years. It's not just a Gen Z thing, I was having it with people here since before they were sexually aware, and probably since before some of them were born.

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[BruxoCub]

I’ve crossed into intimacy with people at bathhouses in moments of lust, but I wouldn’t say I was making love. Every encounter is different, and everyone has their own threshold for what feels too intimate in a hookup. For some men, kissing is off the table; for others, it’s essential.

While both are physical acts, it’s simplistic to treat “making love” as purely innocent intimacy.
Sex is something you do with someone; making love is something you share with someone.

My bathhouse motto tho:
"I'm into havin' sex, I ain't into makin' love"
- 50 Cent - In da Club