Need help with code and signals for cruising

[BritishCumdump]

Hey, I'm a regular cumdump slut and I've been getting more into cruising and darkroom encounters. However I don't know how to signal to guys that they can just fuck me. I like nothing more than being in a club or bar and having a dominant guy just walk over and push me onto my knees or slide their dick into me while I'm talking to someone but most guys you have to do the flirting dance with or tell them you're interested and can go ahead. I know we have stuff like the hanky code but is there anything specifically in terms of gear or accessories that signals to guys "You can just fuck me, I give consent". 

My usual gear is padlock chain collar, chastity cage, jockstrap, harness, red hanky to show they can fist me. 

[Sfmike64]

You could just try bending over a bench with your jeans around your ankles (I'd advise leaving your wallet elsewhere.) That's generally a good indication that your cunt is public domain.  Wear fewer clothes......wear really short shorts. Split your shorts/jeans open at the ass (velcro?) so they are easily accessible. 

[PozToxVersPig]

Get a shirt/tank that says "CUMDUMP" on it?

A lot of the twinks will roll down the waist band of their gymshorts so their jock shows to signal.  I wear gym shorts almost daily and keep them pretty low anyway....not sure how effective this is.

Or - just say "I want you to breed me" or "I want your load" or any variation of that.

Grab his hand and stick it down your pants so he can feel your ass/hole.

And agree with @Sfmike64 if you're at a venue where you can get away with having even a pair of jeans you've torn open in the back...or can just wear a jock....go for it.

But dud, your normal gear is sending plenty of "breed me" vibes....so maybe invest in a bat-signal you can shine on the wall or ceiling near you? lol

[BritishCumdump]

6 hours ago, Sfmike64 said:

You could just try bending over a bench with your jeans around your ankles (I'd advise leaving your wallet elsewhere.) That's generally a good indication that your cunt is public domain.  Wear fewer clothes......wear really short shorts. Split your shorts/jeans open at the ass (velcro?) so they are easily accessible. 

Yeah if there's a sling I can be in or a bar I can bend over I'm usually there with my ass spread. I just think guys are shy or "oh but he doesn't want -me- to fuck him" when I really don't care who uses me as long as people do. I deffo think I need a Bat signal tho. I'll see if I can find a cumdump tank top hahahaha

[Sfmike64]

15 hours ago, BritishCumdump said:

Yeah if there's a sling I can be in or a bar I can bend over I'm usually there with my ass spread. I just think guys are shy or "oh but he doesn't want -me- to fuck him" when I really don't care who uses me as long as people do. I deffo think I need a Bat signal tho. I'll see if I can find a cumdump tank top hahahaha

Have someone write CUM DUMP or BREED ME on your ass. Also, go with a wingman who can tell people that you're a cumdump and take all cocks. 

Edited December 26, 2025 by Sfmike64

[BritishCumdump]

4 minutes ago, Sfmike64 said:

Have someone write CUM DUMP or BREED ME on your ass. Also, go with a wingman who can tell people that you're a cumdump and take all cocks. 

Fuck I need that, a top master who can tell guys to fuck me, pimp my hole out and make sure that I'm filled and used. I think if I got a boyfriend that's how he'd need to treat me ❤️

[Erik62]

My best advertisement was 501's, ass hanging out of split seam, framed by chaps & ass well lubed with Crisco. This always got me plenty of cock & fist. Also being Poz helped because we didn't have to kill the moment discussing Poz or Neg. Ram it in, fuck me hard & rough & load me with cum. EASY. 

[hntnhole]

On 12/24/2025 at 8:16 PM, BritishCumdump said:

"You can just fuck me, I give consent"

I see in your pic that you already have a fairly blunt invitation on one of your shirts;  how about getting another one saying something like "don't talk to me, just breed me", or similar.

[Justaholeff]

A "Cum in me, Bro!" T-shirt is my best signal...

[BritishCumdump]

6 hours ago, Justaholeff said:

A "Cum in me, Bro!" T-shirt is my best signal...

I mean you'd think! But still guys feel they need to ask. I guess it is weird and a bit rapey for guys to just come up and slide their dick or fist in someone so I get why they'd hold off until they got a specific signal, I just love the feeling when a guy takes what he wants and knows you won't stop him. 

[NLbear]

17 minutes ago, BritishCumdump said:

I mean you'd think! But still guys feel they need to ask.  

British politeness?

[Pozzible]

On 12/24/2025 at 8:34 PM, Sfmike64 said:

Split your shorts/jeans open at the ass (velcro?) so they are easily accessible. 

Love the Velcro idea!

[DarkBone]

At the bath house once there was an old AIDS-era leather geezer cruising around.   He must have been a hundred years old.  Under his leather vest he was wearing a black tshirt that said the word "BREED" on it.   Without hesitation,  i  followed the old geezer to his room and we had a deep bareback Crisco fuck.  It was so hot - losing my judgment and self control like that.

[verbalBTTM]

On 12/26/2025 at 8:17 PM, BritishCumdump said:

I mean you'd think! But still guys feel they need to ask. I guess it is weird and a bit rapey for guys to just come up and slide their dick or fist in someone so I get why they'd hold off until they got a specific signal, I just love the feeling when a guy takes what he wants and knows you won't stop him. 

You could have a number marking on your backside with a marker tied to a string fastened to your collar. 

[Pozguyinchi]

If you go on to one of the cruising sites and put in an ad saying what time and day you will be taking loads and use the pic of what you are wearing when you are in the bookstore. This should increase your visibility. Make sure when you are walking around that everyone see the wet spot from the last guy or sees it running down your leg. This is a clear signal that you are taking loads too. Keep in mind that some guys are just not dom enough to take what they want. They still want to ask.