Help with private forums

[RogerPoz448]

There's so many things that I want to say but I don't really know how to use this website and I don't want to get banned or kicked off. So I'm here to ask how do people create or get invited to private forums so that they can talk about and express themselves the way that they really want to. This is something that I really want to be a part of but I just don't know how yet. Is there any advice or tips or tricks to help a poz boy like me truly find his people??

[PozBearWI]

Roger, you are finding us; just relax and continue to explore BZ and you'll continue to meet the rest of us poz guys.  

[Poz50something]

It takes time to feel totally comfortable with the forum. Even longer gathering up the courage to comment and share your thoughts. If I am not mistaken, the site is divided into politics, gay life, sex stories and stuff. Take the time to discover…that’s half of the fun. 

[norefusal]

what are we calling "private"?

i know that if i log in it enables me to comment in "the backroom" forums where as i can on view/lurk if i don't log in. Is that what u mean? Same w starting a new topic iirc.